It was all worth it - my Rigi10 MPP sex experience

[JohnnyBorg]

Hey everyone - I’ve thought a LOT about this update.

After a long period of not dating anyone at all - I put myself back out there on the apps and with my new Rigi10 MPP.

I ended up meeting someone - and although I very much was only thinking I was looking for something short term, we connected very deeply and that’s shaken things up for me (in a really nice way).

We had sex for the first time recently and have had sex multiple times now after that. I have no idea what the future may hold, how much time I have left on the planet (I hope many many more years!). What I do know is that I’m so grateful to have taken this risk in reclaiming my sex life with the implant. Is the implant absolutely perfect for me? No - I’ve spoken plenty about this in my journal about some of the challenge areas. But I’d do it again a million times over, purely because of the incredible experience it has allowed me to have with this person.

For the first time ever, I was able to truly be present and focused on her pleasure (I knew I was going to get PLENTY). I didn’t worry at all about my erection, or how it could ruin the mood. I was able to go down on her for long stretches knowing full well that at any moment, I could be inside her. Switching positions - something that used to result in loss of blood flow due to the leak - was of course no issue either.

Rigidity was great, no pain either during sex. I’m incredibly grateful for this and the fact that my ability to orgasm is preserved as well.

In this way, getting the implant has been one of the greatest gifts of my life. I have no doubt that future revisions and changes to penile function over time (blood flow, etc) are likely to happen, but I will cross those bridges when I get there. Right now, I’m really just feeling beyond grateful - I know I’ve said the word already too much in this post but it’s the best word for this situation.

To anyone reading who has tried everything and is now looking at implants, my advice remains the same - do as much research as you can on all the types of implants and brands available. Read as much as you can stomach about experiences and outcomes here on FT. Do the same amount of research on potential surgeons. Do not be afraid to travel to see a world class specialized surgeon for this procedure. Evaluate your financial situation and insurance coverage, and make sure to factor those things into your decision. Join the community here, ask questions, get the thoughts and opinions of others who have been in your shoes. Once you have all of that pulled together - make your plan, and act on it.

It’s been a long journey for me - a lifetime of ED up until this point. But the payoff - even if just for the last few days - has been 100% worth the fight for me.

Huge thank you to everyone who has read along and given me their thoughts and encouragement. I really appreciate it so much.

[Old Guy]

Good post JohnnyBorg. Glad the implant made a big change in your life.

Yes, doing your research first helps. My advice is don't take too long making a decision, Tissues can begin to shrink.