Very nervous that gf will leave me cuz of no sex

[arazon]

Hi guys... I'm in a tight spot now. I'm in USA and I visited my gf overseas 2 weeks ago. Just so you know, I was prescribed cialis once a day back in March which helped with erections. But last time I tried them while visiting my gf overseas, they didnt work very well cuz of the excessive heat that must have affected their effectiveness.

While I was there, I couldn't have any sex with her cuz I had a bad sunburn, it was excessively hot, the cialis half worked, and she was on her period. After I came back to USA, I noticed my gf being a bit more distant over our video chats which is causing me to be nervous. I honestly think this is due to not being able to have sex with her. Fyi, the last time I had sex with her was last year Sept. 2025.

Even under ideal conditions, I dont think the pills will work cuz they wont work when I want them to. Injections have caused deep problems for me in the past. Plus, when I tried injections in the hot climate where my gf is from last year, it was a headache trying to maintain trimix in a hit environment.

I think because of all this, my best bet is getting an implant. But I'm very nervous about it cuz I know its permanent and I dont want to risk getting my penis numb without sensation.

So I ask you guys what you think about this, any encouragement can help. Thanks.

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[danny1553]

Having a bionic dick is the ticked to freedom - any time, anywhere, for as long as you want.
People tend to overestimate the importance of "natural" state. There is nothing natural in living with constant anxiety and/or medications.
I usually eat pussy while inflating the implant. If that works for you, your gf does not even need to know you have a bionic dick, at least not initially.

As for the lost sensitivity, that was my concern too. That's why I chose to to go with the scrotal incision. Yes, it is painful and recovery might be longer but it eliminates the risk of nerve damage.

[danny1553]

Just a random fact: since I got an implant in 2017 there was not a single time when my wife wouldn't have an orgasmn or two.

[Martin6469]

During my dating years, if I couldn't get hard enough, I would put her on Cloud 9 licking her clit.

While waiting for your next trip, improve your injection technique.

I've used Trimix which had warmed to 75-80 degrees for five days, with no change in effectiveness. Maybe it could go for ten days. It's not as vulnerable to room-temperature breakdown as a lot of guys here suppose. While waiting for your next trip, do experiments with Trimix warmed for several days - start at five, go to ten, go to fifteen.

[Old Guy]

Go for it, don't waste your time worrying and anxious about it.