What's it like giving oral to a guy with an implant?
Posted: Sat Sep 21, 2013 11:21 am
I just had this question posed to me for the 2nd time, so I thought it would be good to post my reply.
Which brings me to a story. I worked for most of 2012 in Brampton, Ontario, Canada. While there, a guy from FT and his wife (or girlfriend, I don't remember) came to my hotel room for a demonstration. She had one big question. She told me she absolutely loved giving bj's but there was no way she was going to suck on a dildo! We all laughed, then I proceeded with my explanation of the implant, how it worked, then dropped my pants and let them explore. (Hands only, biology not sex.)
I told them the only "giveaways" or clues a guy has an implant are the pump in the scrotum and the hard ends of the cylinders where they extend into the head of the penis. When soft, the hard ends would be noticable when feeling the area around the head. Once the implant begins to be inflated, they become much less noticable as the rest of the penis swells and becomes hard. After the "scavenger hunt" as I call it, allowing them to find the components and to pump it, feel it at various stages of being pumped, and deflating it (the hum always brings a smile the first time), they felt my statement was true and she was no longer concerned.
I just posed this to my wife, who also loves to do oral, and she said sometimes when she runs her tongue across the head she can feel the tips, but it doesn't bother her. The biggest difference was that even when deflated, there was something there to suck on, it wasn't all shriveled up to the point it was slipping out of her mouth.
I hope this helps you guys answer some concerns of your partners.
Which brings me to a story. I worked for most of 2012 in Brampton, Ontario, Canada. While there, a guy from FT and his wife (or girlfriend, I don't remember) came to my hotel room for a demonstration. She had one big question. She told me she absolutely loved giving bj's but there was no way she was going to suck on a dildo! We all laughed, then I proceeded with my explanation of the implant, how it worked, then dropped my pants and let them explore. (Hands only, biology not sex.)
I told them the only "giveaways" or clues a guy has an implant are the pump in the scrotum and the hard ends of the cylinders where they extend into the head of the penis. When soft, the hard ends would be noticable when feeling the area around the head. Once the implant begins to be inflated, they become much less noticable as the rest of the penis swells and becomes hard. After the "scavenger hunt" as I call it, allowing them to find the components and to pump it, feel it at various stages of being pumped, and deflating it (the hum always brings a smile the first time), they felt my statement was true and she was no longer concerned.
I just posed this to my wife, who also loves to do oral, and she said sometimes when she runs her tongue across the head she can feel the tips, but it doesn't bother her. The biggest difference was that even when deflated, there was something there to suck on, it wasn't all shriveled up to the point it was slipping out of her mouth.
I hope this helps you guys answer some concerns of your partners.