concerns
Posted: Thu Oct 17, 2013 8:36 am
had my appointment w/ dr. mobley, methodist urology associates houston tx, yesterday and he suggested having the surgery. he said he could schedule me with two weeks notice. my concerns, besides catastrophic failure requiring removal and complete loss of erection ability (which i realize is an unlikely probability) are:
1) loss of significant length (some reported to be 1" or more) and/or girth and
2) "floppy" penis head (seems to be more prevalent with the AMS 700 c series that this doc uses.
the doc said i would lose length and girth but did not mention issues with the head.
i've read everything i could find and these seem to be real possibilities. i have an average size penis and have never concerned myself with "size". but then again, i always had an average size penis. certainly an erection, regardless of size, is better than none, but i'm now wondering if size really matters to my wife. she says she cares more about firmness than size....so, how firm will i be if i have a "floppy" head?
i don't know if, in your experience these are valid concerns and i can use any guidance you can offer. we had such a great sex life and i never had doubts about her satisfaction. but over the past few years...we have started and i've been unable to finish thus leaving her hanging a number of times. i have avoided intercourse in favor of oral sex out of fear of failure but she obviously prefers intercourse.
i'm not experienced with self doubt and i want to return to return to a full, healthy sex life, but i don't want our hopes to be dashed if this is another failure.
1) loss of significant length (some reported to be 1" or more) and/or girth and
2) "floppy" penis head (seems to be more prevalent with the AMS 700 c series that this doc uses.
the doc said i would lose length and girth but did not mention issues with the head.
i've read everything i could find and these seem to be real possibilities. i have an average size penis and have never concerned myself with "size". but then again, i always had an average size penis. certainly an erection, regardless of size, is better than none, but i'm now wondering if size really matters to my wife. she says she cares more about firmness than size....so, how firm will i be if i have a "floppy" head?
i don't know if, in your experience these are valid concerns and i can use any guidance you can offer. we had such a great sex life and i never had doubts about her satisfaction. but over the past few years...we have started and i've been unable to finish thus leaving her hanging a number of times. i have avoided intercourse in favor of oral sex out of fear of failure but she obviously prefers intercourse.
i'm not experienced with self doubt and i want to return to return to a full, healthy sex life, but i don't want our hopes to be dashed if this is another failure.