Hi Guys,
i have had peyronies and ED for a few years now and it is becoming a real psychological challenge at this point. I have seen numerous doctors recently went down to Georgia for some intense treatments which included stem cells, a fat graft, endostimulation, neosonic wave treatment, plus numerous supplements. I stretch, I pump, I pray, I have a great therapist, a great girlfriend, etc. I lose my erection with my girlfriends touch often if too aggressive, she can't get on top because left side loses hardness, missionary style works ok, I can still get erection but seems to be getting progressively worse. The doctor in Atlanta begs me not to get implant because of surgery every seven years and he's trying to save my member which I appreciate. It still works ok at times but the mental torture has taken me over I am 46 I don't know if my girl is with me forever, I just feel so alone! I have posted before and got some great support but I am a little more desperate at this point, I have spent well over 15000 so far on treatments I don't even know how much on cialis, viagra, etc. I am being pulled towards getting a consult with Dr. Eid I don't want to get an implant thinking things will be better or my life will suddenly make more sense, but almost every waking minute is consumed with this issue between my legs it has changed my life in an epic way not to be too dramatic. For you guys with an implant did you go through anything liker his before knowing what you wanted to do I feel like inevitably I am going to have bite the bullet! I read many of your stories and I just feel like I may get some of my life back who knows I could decide to wait many more years I just don't know what to do! I could be single again in the future as well which I am fearful of as I would be venturing out into the dating world a different man! What would some of you guys do in my position? Losing an erection in the middle of foreplay and not being able to have sex in some of the most common positions can be depressing!
Thx Much
Have tried almost everything
Re: Have tried almost everything
M,
I think your scenario of " Losing an erection in the middle of foreplay and not being able to have sex in some of the most common positions can be depressing!" or losing erection within a few seconds of "entering", is recognized by most all men on this forum. Some due to accident, surgery, etc have basically no erection at all, so I feel most of us are at same point. Some can use medication, others find that meds lost their ability or just did not work. You are much younger than I but end result in "performance" is the same....depression, frustration, and so on. In my case, wife has very low libido so when that rare moment, which is usually very spontaneous, perhaps 3 AM, and I can not fully preform, well bingo, athe scenario takes place. I am scheduled for IPP in March simply so I CAN when that, however rare, moment comes along. I am hoping lack of failure will bring her desire to a new level. If not, or if surgery fails, what have I lost? I am much of a "turtle/grower" so I also hope the IPP will bring me to a personal "feel good" level with possibly more of a visual, common flaccid (this is not guaranteed by my surgeon, but not ruled out.....but this is a little off your OP). Hope you find help and great advice here. billy
I think your scenario of " Losing an erection in the middle of foreplay and not being able to have sex in some of the most common positions can be depressing!" or losing erection within a few seconds of "entering", is recognized by most all men on this forum. Some due to accident, surgery, etc have basically no erection at all, so I feel most of us are at same point. Some can use medication, others find that meds lost their ability or just did not work. You are much younger than I but end result in "performance" is the same....depression, frustration, and so on. In my case, wife has very low libido so when that rare moment, which is usually very spontaneous, perhaps 3 AM, and I can not fully preform, well bingo, athe scenario takes place. I am scheduled for IPP in March simply so I CAN when that, however rare, moment comes along. I am hoping lack of failure will bring her desire to a new level. If not, or if surgery fails, what have I lost? I am much of a "turtle/grower" so I also hope the IPP will bring me to a personal "feel good" level with possibly more of a visual, common flaccid (this is not guaranteed by my surgeon, but not ruled out.....but this is a little off your OP). Hope you find help and great advice here. billy
72, ED & PE worsened with age, TURP 2008, Prostrate 1.71, T-559,
Coloplast Titan OTR 21 cm (20+1 cm rear tip extender) on 3/11/2014 by Dr. Allan Morey UT-SW Medical/Dallas
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Re: Have tried almost everything
I guess I am asking what the majority of men here would do! Would you just get an implant or continue to treat the situation and hope it gets better!! Thx Much guys.
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Re: Have tried almost everything
I had peyronie disease to,had a plication 10 years ago lost an inch of cock took injections for many years. Just had Titian implanted,many of them last over 20 years, check the research out. Best thing I ever done wish I had done it 10 years ago. If you are losing your erection you also probably have a leakage like I did,In the missionary position it doesn't affect you that much it is a gravity thing,on your back is a killer,a good band will also help.
Jim
Jim
Re: Have tried almost everything
Don't waste anymore time! Go with a top surgeon and get implanted ASAP
Re: Have tried almost everything
jryancey44 wrote:I had peyronie disease to,had a plication 10 years ago lost an inch of cock took injections for many years. Just had Titian implanted,many of them last over 20 years, check the research out. Best thing I ever done wish I had done it 10 years ago. If you are losing your erection you also probably have a leakage like I did,In the missionary position it doesn't affect you that much it is a gravity thing,on your back is a killer,a good band will also help.
Jim: Have you told your whole story including re-hab? Just interested.
Thanks
Thomas
Jim
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Re: Have tried almost everything
I have told it to those that asked. My contact infomation has been posted.
TEBozo wrote:jryancey44 wrote:I had peyronie disease to,had a plication 10 years ago lost an inch of cock took injections for many years. Just had Titian implanted,many of them last over 20 years, check the research out. Best thing I ever done wish I had done it 10 years ago. If you are losing your erection you also probably have a leakage like I did,In the missionary position it doesn't affect you that much it is a gravity thing,on your back is a killer,a good band will also help.
Jim: Have you told your whole story including re-hab? Just interested.
Thanks
Thomas
Jim
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