lming44 wrote:I plan to do the implant this year. My realistic expection for the outcomes is :
1. not discomfort or pain during sex (inflate/deflate, erection, Ejaculation)
2. have same feeling and sensation as before op for erection, Ejaculation, orgasm, PIV(penis-in-vagina).
3. keep the same length as before the implant
The above expection is unrealistic (too high expection) or realistic expection ?
What's unrealistic expection for the outcomes ?
Thx
Most people tend to have great results and satisfaction. Such is not the case for me.
1. I have no discomfort or pain during sex (because I don't really have sex anymore). Inflation and deflation is painless, erection is painless, ejaculation doesn't seem possible anymore. I can't ejaculate since the operation for the most part (once in a while I can jackoff and it works)
2. I have very little feeling / sensation in my penis at all. It's numb. If I use the little bit I have to stick into a vagina, I can't feel anything.
3. I had 7 1/2'' of usable penis before the surgery, I now have about 3'' of USABLE length (minus the floppy head - a little over an inch)
I had my surgery on Oct. 1, 2010 at the VA hospital in Salisbury NC. The doctor created a pocket in me scrotum for the pump. The pocket is high and to the front as far as possible. The pump is about 3'' from the tip of my penis and attached (it won't move out of the way for penetration) , the tubes that connect the pump to the end-caps exit the penile tissue at the pump rather than somewhere in the scrotum. The head and shaft of my penis are now flat instead of round. The penis is also very narrow at the head and ridiculously wide at the base. It's like a arrow head > shape but flat now.
Nothing moves out of the way so I can't penetrate. The pump and tubes are so tight against the bottom of the shaft that the contact hurts even when flaccid. I think this is what causes some of the numbness but I'm not sure.
I have bulges on both sides of the penis in different places making my penis into an S shape but not as acute as an actual S. It looks like is was an S and someone pulled on it to make it straight but didn't get all the curves out.
When flaccid, I can feel notches all the way up to the glans that feel like knuckles on a finger. It looks strange, it feels strange, it's not usable, and the wife won't even touch it.
I'm trying to get the VA to fix it, but they won't even give me an appointment to see the URO doc anymore. I've called and tried sever times but I'm being ignored.
Most people here seem to have great luck. I'm personally depressed that I'm not one of them. I'm sorry that some people here may not have wanted to hear this, but after several months and giving it a fair amount of time for things to improve, I can honestly say that I'm worse than I was before the implant.
My surgeon was
http://www.wfubmc.edu/Faculty/Terlecki-Ryan.htmI'm sorry to sound so negative.