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Applause is due to someone we do not often acknowledge, our wives, for some their girl friends or whatever. ED is tough on them too. Waiting around worrying when we have surgery is hard on the gals too as is driving us home after a stressful day or two, or feeling our pain when we hurt and heal. Ladies, you are an awesome bunch too. Tell your lover you love them. Hugs to all. d

You are totally correct. It is pretty easy to forget that our wives become a part of this whole ordeal as well. I believe that in most cases they suffer with us the inability to speak with a large portion of your normal "support staff" due to either their being uncomfortable or are protecting us from having something that is very private becoming anything but. At the end of the road, hopefully it brings all of us closer to the one who stands by our side through events like this.

alibaba wrote:Applause is due to someone we do not often acknowledge, our wives, for some their girl friends or whatever. ED is tough on them too. Waiting around worrying when we have surgery is hard on the gals too as is driving us home after a stressful day or two, or feeling our pain when we hurt and heal. Ladies, you are an awesome bunch too. Tell your lover you love them. Hugs to all. d

You are so right Ali. I remembered coming home after implant surgery three years ago. Before going to bed I needed to go to the bathroom. I raised the toilet seat up and proceeded to spray blood all over the bathroom floor and walls. My wife helped me to a chair in the kitchen, then cleaned up after me in the bathroom. I was so upset I burst into tears. I don't mind telling our members here, my family, my friends...anyone who will listen...that I would be totally lost without her.

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

KMeister

I agree totally. The wives are awesome. My wife was there for me from the second that I got that phone call that I had cancer through my entire implant experience.

YAY WIVES!!!

YAY GIRLFRIENDS and PARTNERS!!! Sorry to exclude you guys.