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So, got the implant.....now what?......We've all posted our journals about our surgeries and recoveries....the mechanics of our units pre & post surgery, and which underwear to buy....but with the regard to the topic of sex and the single bionic guy, there is a certain void here, and this thread is my journey going forward......

First, my bionic bio.....

I just turned 67.....I'm single and have never been married, not that I was never deemed worthy, lord knows some women tried hard.....but it was my decision to not have kids and marriage was never important to me for that reason......so I've had a fair amount of relationships and an even fairer amount of partners for sex.....after all, I came of age in the 60's.....the 70's were pretty good to me as were the 80's.....hell, so were the 90's......in the late 90's I noticed that my erections were not as strong as they used to be, but 1/4 of a Viagra brought me up to the vigor of an 18 year old......as time went on so did the ED.....1/4 pill turned into 1/2 of a pill to 3/4 of a pill to 1 whole pill over the course of 17 years....Cialis also worked the same way and gave me 36 hours of ED correction at a shot.....but that dosage also began to increase as time went on......pills, injections, cock rings were not the way I wanted to live my sex life and so I went for the prosthetic penis and it was a great decision......

While I've had a lot of sexual escapades in my younger days, I craved for solid, monogamous relationships as I grew older....not so much into casual sex although I've had a couple of FWB relationships....the one thing that I could never do was to mislead a woman into having sex.....another words lead her to believe that there would be a relationship for the sake of just having sex with her, and while I know guys who do this.....I cannot behave in that manner....it's just not in my chemical make up......now that I have the implant I'm confident that I can find and satisfy a partner as opposed to having the anxiety that I would be a failure in bed.......so, ultimately I want to be in a long term relationship with a wonderful woman......HOWEVER, THAT BEING SAID......now that I have my implant, now that I'm pretty much healed (yes, I know it takes a while but I have no pain and can move forward).....my thinking has taken a bit of a detour......before I "settle down"......I want to experience perhaps several women and get "the lay of the land" with regard to my bionic unit......I'm also curious as to how women will react, their thoughts & feelings about a robocock.......and this is my "remains to be seen" journey......

First, I spoke with one of my recent ex-girlfriends who knew that I was interested in having the surgery......we spoke on the phone and caught up with each other's lives.....I told her that I had the surgery and that the main part of the healing was over.....her reaction: she was very happy for me.....she was happy that I was proactive in fixing my ED problem and that I made my decision and followed through with it.....she was very curious and receptive to getting together within the next couple of weeks....so that's a work in progress.....

Second, I called another ex-girlfriend and told her my story......she also thought that this was a great thing that I did and that she would like to experience it.....so I'm flying out to CA in a couple of days to spend the weekend with her......

Third, I booked a one week vacation in The Dominican Republic in March at an adult resort.....in other words a resort that provides "companions" inclusive in the vacation package.....of course if one companion is not enough you can opt for two, three, or as many as you like.....you can also change your companion for another companion if you desire......

So right now I have a few irons in the fire and I will document my experiences as they unfold.....I hope to have some enlightening, amusing, funny, and informative posts to add to this thread going forward.....after all, I want to enlighten as many women as I can and show them the light......

Hi Xoma, what's the name of that adult resort? I'm your age and also single

SPAV....Satisfaction Plus Adult Vacations.......

haha! i guess somebody is in for quite some fun! but i am impressed that you called back some "previous friends" normally people just move on and never talk... some do, but you know... grievances?

I've remained friends with most of my ex-girlfriends.....even my high school girlfriend and my college girlfriend.....there are a couple who I will have nothing to do with, but as they say, you don't win every horse race.....

This past weekend was the maiden voyage for the new Mr. Happy and I must say,......it was a bangin' success!......here's my experience and some thoughts......

I flew out to CA to visit with a former girlfriend....we'll call her "M".......the last time I visited M was Aug 2015 and I fell short in the pleasing her dept because I could not maintain a decent erection long enough or hard enough.....it was that experience that really pushed me to do something about my problem.....fast forward to Feb 24 and seven weeks post op.....we spoke and I told her that I got an implant.....she was very curious about it and volunteered to help me test it out.....

So I get to my hotel and she arrives about a half hour later.....she wants to try it out immediately....we get naked and M is very impressed with flaccid Mr. Happy.....visually she couldn't tell that I had the implant but certainly noticed that I was larger.......I had her touch me and she could feel the kinked cylinders......I then showed her how I inflated and she was pretty amazed as she watched....she thought that erect Mr Happy looked great and again could not tell the difference visually or physically as she stroked me.....I was then ordered to lube up and get to work as she threw herself on the bed.....I can't describe how wonderful the very first stroke felt both physically and mentally.....I say mentally because I knew that I would remain rock hard for however long I wanted and that certainly added to my new found prowess.....we must have spent over an hour trying out every position we could......she came twice from vaginal penetration and I came once....one big time.......we were exhausted after that session and I kept the erection for a half hour after we talked, joked, and drank some wine.....M was so amazed that it remained so hard & stiff until I showed her how I deflate......btw, I told her all about FrankTalk and she agreed to let me take & post photos...... I hope that it's ok to post these for informational and educational information & purposes only......and there will never be faces or identifying characteristics shown......











More photos and observations to follow......

Wohoo!!!!!!!! Congratulations on your success XO!!!! Now this is something I was not expecting, but found it refreshing and very motivational! Made me think... God damn it could be me, with an implant as well enjoying sex once more!! please sir... Make good use of it!

No offense taken......it's a legit question.......no, M is not a paid companion......we've known each other since the late 80's and we were in a relationship in the mid 90's.......we've remained good friends (sometimes with benefits when we're not in other relationships) throughout the years......

So,.....to continue......

The weekend was a sexual marathon, or maybe I should say "marathong"......I was curious to try out as many positions as I (we) could......there wasn't a position that I couldn't accomplish......we did several variations of missionary....M is very flexible and can reach her ears with her ankles so I was in several positions and angles as I had to be for penetration.....doggy style (while not my favorite) was very doable, no problems.....sideways also doable.......cowgirl & reverse cowgirl was awesome....and receiving oral sex was also a delight......

reverse cowgirl......











Rough sex.......M likes a good pounding, especially after I perform oral sex and she has cum......she loves it and this time I was able to provide that.....we tried both soft and rough sex in all positions and the implant stood up to it....HOWEVER.....one does have to be careful or be aware of one thing, and I learned this the "hard" way.....while having rough sex (I think it was either cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) she raised herself up high and my dick came out, and then when she went back down my dick missed her vagina and I got slammed....and it hurt.....no damage or problem except for the momentary pain....that was a lesson....I can see where having an additional 1/2" - 1" (I'm 5 1/2") might circumvent that but if your partner has a few inches of clearance from you, I guess the same thing would happen....so, I had to pay more attention to the rhythm in order to prevent that from happening again or be very aware that if it does, then I have to do something to prevent her from slamming back down on me like holding her pelvis or rolling to the side....that was the only instance I had in terms of rough sex going wrong......