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Many of you here say your wife was not reluctant to implants.

But I am a young unmarried man and I think young women may think penile implants are strange and uncomfortable.

So I want to hide for the first few months before the relationship gets serious.

Is this possible?

Anyone who has hidden implants for a long time?

sorry for my english

Don't hide it, be proud you took action to fix and remember, women don't hide their breast implants do they!!!!!!!

One of the most corrosive and destructive things in a marriage, and probably the most likely to destroy it is secrets. That would include secret implants.

If you want a relationship to get serious, DO NOT try to build it on not letting her know every single thing about you. If you think she might not be willing to accept your implant, please have the decency not to waste her time and yours trying to hide it. That doesn't mean telling her when you first meet her, "Hi, I have a penis implant, want to date me?" It means if and when the matter should come up, you should tell her right up front. She will probably like you better because you have been honest, and besides if she's smart she'll look forward to some mind-blowing sex with your long-lasting erection.

As a woman starts getting further into a new relationship, she will spend a lot of time waiting for the next shoe to drop. You'll do the both of you a big favor to just drop the shoe right up front. If she doesn't want you with an implant, you must know there are plenty more women to choose from. You want the right woman, not the one you can bullshit into putting up with you.

Good luck with your bionic life.

Wise words from DaveET1.

But I know you still want to know if it is possible to hide the implant.
The answer is no. Not in a relationship with someone when you are young and have sex like normal young people have sex.

Sure, if your only goal is to hide the implant, then it is probably possible. But you cannot be sure you will succeed, and you will have to sacrifice too much.

You cannot let her suck or massage your balls. She will feel the pump.
You cannot let her surprise you and come in and join you in the shower and have sex. You will not get hard unless you pump and she will see you pump.
You cannot stay in bed with her after sex if you had sex in daylight and not covered by sheets. She will see you deflate, or she will see you don't go soft after sex.
You cannot take her straight to bed, undress her and fuck her when you come home from a night out. You will have to pump up and she will notice.

Of course, you can adjust to all these things, make excuses why you must go to the WC first, why you don't want her to join you in the shower etc.
But it's not going to be easy. And most of all it's not going to be fun. You will be anxious about getting 'caught' and you will feel like there is something wrong with you that you need to hide.
And that's not what you want. You want to be confident and make use of your ability to have plenty of good sex.

So forget the whole idea of trying to hide it. Turn it into something positive instead. Just accept that if you have an implant you are not going to be able to hide it in a relationship.
And that trying to hide it will take away a lot of the good moments you could get from it.

I agree with all the other posters who say that telling lies (or witholding info) is just not a good idea since it destroys trust in the relationship should things move towards a longer term.


However, I can understand that for a a one night stand, or maybe a three night stand, a 29 year old might want to not disclose it

Pre-intercourse:
--I think pumping up can be easily hidden (for example you can do the 25 squeezes while performing oral sex on her).
--if your pump is lower profile (ie coloplast) and is well behind your balls (like mine is) then there is a 75% chance she will not detect it if she is giving you a blow job and playing with your balls (most women are not that skilled at figuring out what is in your sac and what it's supposed to feel like)

During intercourse:
--no problem, it is like a regular dick except "I get harder and last longer" then normal men
--if you go thrusting for thirty minutes, she might wonder what the hell is going on since no other man has had that type of stamina in her experience

After intercourse:
--this will be the problem. You will still be rock hard after orgasm, that could be a flag to her
--you would need to pull out immediately and roll over, you will need to deflate which can take 30 seconds and might involve you using your hand to squeeze your dick. Thus, the after intercourse cuddle (Which women love) will just not happen


There is a good thread on this topic which was directed to user "RichardTheFrog" with the title "Will this really change my life", it address that 29 year old's questions.

Below is a reprint of my answer to froggy:

by TANGERINE » Sun Feb 19, 2017 2:45 pm

yes , the implant will change your sex life infinitely for the better. When you enter the bedroom with a woman, you will have 100% confidence that you can perform like the boss and that this might be one of her best love sessions ever. As others have stated, during the "pre-coital safe sex discussion" typical of encounters these days, you might want to say "by the way, I have had some work done down there; it is not something you will really notice, except that I get harder and last longer than most men" and then when she gets a worried look on her face and says, "ummmm, what do you mean ?" You can say, "well, for example, I am one of the few males that can have multiple orgasms " ... and then let the lovemaking begin !

edsince18 wrote:Many of you here say your wife was not reluctant to implants.

But I am a young unmarried man and I think young women may think penile implants are strange and uncomfortable.

So I want to hide for the first few months before the relationship gets serious.

Is this possible?

Anyone who has hidden implants for a long time?

sorry for my english

Don't hide it, be proud of it. You would be surprised. Women are understanding creatures. We (Men) are our own worst enemies. If you run into a woman who has issues with it, be done with her. She's not for you. I'll bet you, a lot of women will like the fact that you can just get it up anytime you want.