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I've had varying degrees of ED for several years, and my robotic prostatectomy in March has made it complete. I was considering an implant last year - before the cancer diagnosis and surgery - and now think it is the only choice left.

Per doctor's orders, I have been pumping pretty much daily (no constriction rings). I have tried Tri-Mix (way too painful - and ineffective) and 2 formulations of Bi-Mix, which work - sort of. Have been able to have intercourse once, but it was far from satisfactory.

My RP surgeon (David Lee, UPenn) suggested I see a colleague (William Jaffe, UPenn) for testing/implantation. Appointment is coming up on Monday. I have a bunch of questions for FT members:

** Is there any point to having any testing, like Doppler? Does it really matter why I can't get erect?

** Any questions anyone can suggest that I should ask D. Jaffe? I intend to get a consult with Dr. Kramer, also. Then I have the big decision -- who to entrust my dick to?

** I was small to begin with, and now after the RP, I practically have an "innie". Almost have a man-gina. When I can find it and pull it out, it stretches to barely 5", as well as when I pump it with VED. I look forward to being a "shower", but wonder if there's really enough to work with, and am concerned about losing anything more in the process.

** The PCa diagnosis put an end to my TRT, and now my T level is 50. This sure can't be helping with the ED issue. I hope to get back on the T after a few more good ultraPSA's. Any thoughts or experiences?

I'm anxious to get this done, but more and more nervous by the day. Any ideas/comments will be appreciated.

Bob

Bob, if your surgery is done correctly, your flaccid length will be close to the 5" stretch you did, and your inflation should hit it right on the nose. Your "innie" turtle days will definitely be over.

Bite the bullet and do it, but do choose your surgeon very carefully. Dr. Kramer is quite highly regarded here.

If it is an optionto you, consult with Eid too.

Dave,
Thanks. Hard to imagine a flaccid dick like that; never had one. I can imagine having a hard dick; I used to.

Plumber,
Thanks. When I looked into this last year, Dr. Eid did not accept United Healthcare. He was originally my first choice. I'll see what Dr. Jaffe has to say. A friend was implanted by him, and is very happy. I still plan to meet with Dr. Kramer.

Thanks to both of you.