Regarding the statement
But I think Ive read that the implant makes the glans soft, except for just before orgasm. Is this true?
My answer: "the above is not completely true" I totally agree with the other posts stating that the implant WILL NOT CHANGE YOUR GLANS. If your glans did not work before surgery, then it will continue to not work. Similarly, if it did work, then hopefully it will continue.
For me, my glans did not work before surgery. Now, It still does not work, BUT, it does get hard, in my case, just before orgasm
By the way, I have tried a soft silicon cock ring (at the base of my penis), and it does make my glans super hard and big even though I have an implant. Likely, however, I will not use that ring during sex since the point of the implant, for me, was to get away from outside foreign devices. I think I am good enough without a strong glans since my cylinders go well into my glans anyway.
But the way, some have tried trimix gel to help their glans, but as I stated before, the point of the implant is to get rid of that stuff and be spontaneous. For me, my rock hard shaft is good enough to satisfy my partner.