The Official "First Encounter Thread"

[Minnesota]

Hello fellow and future implantees!

I am creating this thread to talk about the first encounters you have had a new sexual partner that did not know you had an implant. Here is a little background about me and this scenerio. I was in a serious relationship while I went through all of my ED tests and the actual surgery. I learned how to have sex with my implant in that relationship, and well, now its over. Soon here I will be in the situation of "getting busy" with a girl who has no idea that I have an implant. I would like to see other people's experiences and responses about how to deal with the first interaction. I am hoping to add a view points and advice as I go through it as well.

Here is some food for thought as you post:

When did you pump it up?
What to do with someone who "dives right in?"
To tell or not to tell before getting to the bedroom? (or where ever else you may want to do it )
Did they discover it by the end of the night?
What were some thoughts as your interaction proceeded? Nervous? calm? Pimp?

This question could go through alot of men's minds who are not in a marriage or serious commitment before and after getting an implant.

Thanks everyone! Looking forward to what people share.

[Illuminist]

I've been with 6 different women since becoming bionic. 2 of the 6 I had been with before my priapism injury. ZERO out of the 6 know I had an implant. ALL of the 6 LOVED the experience they had and they all felt my balls.

I pump a bit prior to sex. This allows for it to be hard enough so when she is feeling through the pants, she can tell I'm aroused. It also makes things easier later as it takes me 20+ pumps. I take control and ladies love that. I undress them while kissing them heading down their stomach. I then undress myself to my undies and begin teasing some more as they know I will do oral. The best time for me to get my pumps in, is during this time. She is distracted by my lips/tongue and when she sees my bulge through my undies when I stand up, she thinks I get hard from eating pussy. Of course be sure to tell her how good she tastes, smells etc. Keep her relaxed and not even thinking anything is abnormal with your penis.

Now she can do oral on you. You won't be fully pumped, but enough that its realistic for her. You don't want to be fully pumped until AFTER the condom is on. Otherwise you may need some lube and the ability to not make funny faces as you pain yourself squeezing the condom on.

Be creative and keep her comfortable. You only focus is pleasing her and keeping her comfortable. Performance anxiety?? WHAT IS THIS NONSENSE YOU SPEAK OF . Premature ejaculation?? DON'T MAKE ME LAUGH

If you have done everything right, bringing her to orgasm shouldn't be a problem and she will be making comments on how good you were.

Happy pooning my young bionic brother!

Illuminist

[bill1200]

Great idea, will be interesting reading.

[Minnesota]

Interesting that I make this thread and get it on 3 hours later lol. Had my first encounter with a girl who did not know I had an implant last night. It was at my place and she wanted to take a shower with me. No sex but just wanted to play. She never noticed that I had an implant AT ALL. She was so occupied by my body and me touching her that she never noticed a few pumps here and a few pumps there that let to a biotic boner.

My advice after this first time run is dont over think about it and do not assume that women know everything about the male anatomy. From my experience women have little knowledge about how an erection works and what it is "suppose to" be. We put soooo much pressure on ourselves to have the perfect penis, and mostwomen cant even tell the difference!

[antelope]

Minnesota, how long since you had the implant?

[Minnesota]

Sept. 2009

[Illuminist]

I've said what Minnesota has said to many people who have PM'd me. Unless you KNOW about an implant and what they look like etc, is the ONLY way someone would know you have one. Most women I've been with don't touch the balls that much to begin with let alone pull each ball out and try to feel around. Forget you have an implant and just focus on the lady and she will be too pre occupied to see you pumping.