REGARDING:
"When I first met with Dr. Eid he told me I could go home the day of the procedure. I, however, plan on getting to NYC the night before and staying another night day of the surgery. It just seems I should hang around longer for any potential complications."
Dr Eid's office staff is really well versed in all matters regarding implants and quite expert at helping you with this type of logistics question. As long as you have a firm surgery date, then you will likely find Sylvia/Janice/Ruby to be super helpful. I leaned on the office staff for questions quite a bit, and I only called Dr Eid (he will give you his cell phone) a few times for questions that required the doctor's expertise.
Here is my opinion on the issue of going home: it really depends on how far you need to travel.
If your travel is more than 5 hours, then likely best to stay in a hotel.
Here are the milestones that I think are important:
1) day 5 - first activation (ideally, it might be nice if you can see your doctor or his nurse for this so that you are 100% certain that you know how to deflate); HOWEVER, for me, I did this at home since I left town on an airplane 80 hours after surgery.
2) day 14 - suture removal (ideally, this should be done by your surgeon); HOWEVER, for me, I had my local urologist take care of this since I am on the west coast and Dr Eid is in New York City.
3) day 28 - first sex (ideally, this will be an amazing and life re-invigorating experience)
If you are international patient, I can maybe see an argument to stay in the country for two weeks (first three days in Manhattan, and then the rest of the time somewhere less expensive, but close enough so you can have a final visit with Eid at the 14 day suture removal day. However, this is likely not necessary; and it was definitely not necessary for me. My surgery, pump placement, and pump function all went perfectly, and I was able to easily fly home on Friday (surgery was Tuesday) and had a super fast recovery (back at work on day 14 with almost no pain at 14 days).