Hi guys,
One more question for those implanted.
I know that these questions are largely moot for those that were forced into this situation by venous leakages, Peyronie’s and the like but they are still valid to ask.
Regarding sponteneity. How does the lack of this affect your current or past relationships? Having to pop out to the bathroom? Or having to incorporate pumping into foreplay. How does this aspect of sex make you feel?
Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
37, mild to moderate ED since age 21, 3 Dopplers - 1 result VL & 3 later results 'no physical problem', dependent on cialis (efficacy now waning), overcame Lymophoma at age 26, ED causing immense/profound psychological distress. Considering implant.
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Re: Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
Having to pump up before sex is a small price to pay for the ability to have sex at all.
Yes, there is a lack of spontaneity; being able to go (in foreplay) from flaccid to penetration-ready almost by magic is super nice.
I used to have spontaneous erections followed by almost immediately by spontaneous erection loss. (Venous leakage). 30 years ago, there was time for penetration, but the loss came cooner and sooner until there was zero time for sex.
So, 100% spontaneous has to be alloyed with a little bit of effort (pumping) Now I have 95% spontaneous and NO spontaneous erection loss.
Yes, there is a lack of spontaneity; being able to go (in foreplay) from flaccid to penetration-ready almost by magic is super nice.
I used to have spontaneous erections followed by almost immediately by spontaneous erection loss. (Venous leakage). 30 years ago, there was time for penetration, but the loss came cooner and sooner until there was zero time for sex.
So, 100% spontaneous has to be alloyed with a little bit of effort (pumping) Now I have 95% spontaneous and NO spontaneous erection loss.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
Re: Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
Lost Sheep wrote:Having to pump up before sex is a small price to pay for the ability to have sex at all.
Yes, there is a lack of spontaneity; being able to go (in foreplay) from flaccid to penetration-ready almost by magic is super nice.
I used to have spontaneous erections followed by almost immediately by spontaneous erection loss. (Venous leakage). 30 years ago, there was time for penetration, but the loss came cooner and sooner until there was zero time for sex.
So, 100% spontaneous has to be alloyed with a little bit of effort (pumping) Now I have 95% spontaneous and NO spontaneous erection loss.
Thanks!
I get it. I really do.
How is your implant working so far? Have you put it to good use?
37, mild to moderate ED since age 21, 3 Dopplers - 1 result VL & 3 later results 'no physical problem', dependent on cialis (efficacy now waning), overcame Lymophoma at age 26, ED causing immense/profound psychological distress. Considering implant.
Re: Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
It becomes no big deal..... a few seconds and you're half hard.... play a little, a few more squeezes.... pretty soon you're "wheelin' and dealin'........
Then there are the girls who WANT to pump it for you......)))
Good luck!
Then there are the girls who WANT to pump it for you......)))
Good luck!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021
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