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How many men have gone onto dating sites (Craigslist personals, Tinder, OKCupid, PoF, Match, etc) with the express purpose of trying out their newly restored erectile ability?

Do you answer ads from potential partners or do you post ads yourself?

Do you mention your reason for being there up front?

Do you mention your implant?

Do you mention that you can be erect at will and for any desired duration?

Sheep,

Uhmmmm....my wife frowns upon such activities!

DroptheMike wrote:Sheep,

Uhmmmm....my wife frowns upon such activities!

Glad to know I am not the only one with this problem^^^^^

fordman44 wrote:

DroptheMike wrote:Sheep,

Uhmmmm....my wife frowns upon such activities!

Glad to know I am not the only one with this problem^^^^^

Uh-oh. If having a wife caring about you is a problem...

Actually my girlfriend DOES care about me. But we both enjoy reading some of the personals on CL. Some are downright hilarious and some outright lying come-ons, and entertaining in that sense. And some are so poignant it makes one want to cry..

In any event, she knew when we started this journey that I would likely want to "road test" my newly rebuilt "hot rod" on various differing racetracks. But that will be later. For right now I am happily parked in her caroort.

My wife as I have said before thinks it a dildo inside me and shows that much intresest. I do have a profile on adultfriendfinder (bionicdickga). I am very honest about my
implant. My tage line is "my Energizer bunny dick needs holes to fill". Since I live in a small town and have to coordinate anything I do with something that I have to be out of the house for sucess has been very limited.

Do I advertise? Uh, no. I never used a dating site or even looked at one.

Eugene wrote:Do I advertise? Uh, no. I never used a dating site or even looked at one.

I've never used a dating site, either.

But I have to imagine that if I ever did use one I would advertise my bionic capabilities. It's novel, and novelty sells.

Bob

Eugene wrote:Do I advertise? Uh, no. I never used a dating site or even looked at one.

I had never used a dating site before last year, either, but being "between lovers" at the time I decided to get an implant, I went to a dating site and posted my desire for a "lab partner" to run experiments before and after implant.

I was completely upfront about my E.D. and my intentions.

I got a lot of supportive responses, no discouraging ones and several offers to help by moral support and four to participate fully.

One had completely misunderstood my ad (though I do not see how THAT could happen) and took herself out of the running.

One, we agreed would have become too emotionally involved, so it would have been detrimental to her emotional makeup to participate in the "wetwork".

One, began the process (with some spectacular sex, by the way), but inexplicably bailed.

The "last woman standing" is still with me and enthusiastically participating.

When (and if) I DO advertise for a new partner, I intend to be upfront and will probably start my ad with something like this:

proposed social media ad wrote:For years, I suffered from Erectile Dysfunction (and by extension, my lovers as well). My lovers were understanding and kind. I owe a debt of gratitude and an uncounted number of orgasms to these women.

Having had my penis rebuilt, I am now in a position to make good on that debt. Since the specific women are unavailable, I offer to satisfy the debt with any woman wishing to collect by proxy. Thus catching up on all the orgasms that THEIR old lovers owe to them.

(the italicized phrases may or may not be included in the published ad)

Many of the respondents to my original ad for a "lab partner": commented admiringly on the courage it took to admit to E.D.. In fact, it took more desperation than courage. I would expect no less admiration when (if) I post the latter ad I also hope women will realize the advantages of a man with a durable erection who also has had the education the E.D. gives in sensitivity and understanding.

Comments? I expect that comments from your wives/girlfriends/lovers would be illuminating as well, so I invite you to share this post with them.
P.M.s welcome.

So sheep
I have a question. Last one standing, is she emotionally invested or is she friend with benefits ? Are you in a relationship with her ? And if so is she cool with you having other lovers. Just curious !
Bandit

Bandit wrote:So sheep
I have a question. Last one standing, is she emotionally invested or is she friend with benefits ? Are you in a relationship with her ? And if so is she cool with you having other lovers. Just curious !
Bandit

When we started the relationship, she told me she is a big girl and understands that I might seek other women to experiment with. Essentially, I have a new "hot rod" which naturally would aspire to try out on various "racetracks" (Le Mans, Monza, Pike's Peak, gymkana, Baja, all different experiences - a penis is no different)

She allows as how she would be hurt, but would get over it.

She also is emphatic that, "I don't share." She has my pledge that I will not expect her to and that I will keep NO secrets from her. She is a good person and I do not regret making that promise.