Feels like it's over need advice.

[QuestionGuy]

I think you should slow down and not panic. You state that your a victim of porn usage and have a complex about
penis size, then you talk about an injury 4 years ago from some sort of apparatus, and then you got a Doppler that indicated venous leakage. Now you feel like its over and are posting on the IMPLANT site, where you know full well your going to get the confirmation bias you are looking for. Half a dozen or so guys telling you how, where and and what kind of implant to run out and get ASAP. There is no such thing as being a victim of porn usage. that bit of Pseudo bro-science has existed in one for or another, since the Victorian era. Self conspicuousness about your penis (or anything to do with your naked body) could absolutely be a cause of ED. I'm not saying that your issue is in your head, but in your case I think you should take a step back, and proceed through this methodically. Can you get any kind of erection by your self, when in a tranquil setting (not with a girl or in a doctors office)? that would be a good place to start.

[DougAnd]

What was your leakage? 6 or above on either side is very bad. And it really cannot be fixed. I had 6 both sides and that was that . No more try this try that. results with that much leakage will always be hap hazard or worse. When you are ready to have sex at any time day or night get an implant. If the malleable is all you can afford right now it is certainly better than what you have. And when you can afford it if you want the advantage of having a soft cock until you need it hard for sex then trade up to a 3 piece.
PS leakage cannot be caused by misuse. Injury like a kick to the groin? Yes. Typically it is high blood pressure, plaque build up or diabetes. A few more that I can't remember. But never masturbation. And certainly not from shame over penis size.

[ringo1]

What was your leakage? 6 or above on either side is very bad. And it really cannot be fixed. I had 6 both sides and that was that . No more try this try that. results with that much leakage will always be hap hazard or worse. When you are ready to have sex at any time day or night get an implant. If the malleable is all you can afford right now it is certainly better than what you have. And when you can afford it if you want the advantage of having a soft cock until you need it hard for sex then trade up to a 3 piece.
PS leakage cannot be caused by misuse. Injury like a kick to the groin? Yes. Typically it is high blood pressure, plaque build up or diabetes. A few more that I can't remember. But never masturbation. And certainly not from shame over penis size.

Bro I disagree aggressive masturbation over time can lead to trauma ...And cause VL..atleast that's what happened in my case ...So I don't agree that masturbation cannot cause VL it sure does ...

[DougAnd]

Ringo?
How's it going? Married yet?

[handfulWES]

Reading the comments I tend to agree SOMEWHAT. Comparing anything to porn isn't smart. I like porn BUT I only choose those things which are more like a natural setting. EX: I don't know a guy yet who has not had an ejaculation sneak up on him. I have never seen a guy that if the waves are flooding in real fast to said fuck it and blow. This is the real world. Though I like to set the limits, take my time and enjoy the feelings and choose the wave always leaves one far more satisfied. Now to the subject at hand.

I am 68 years old and sex is as great and wonderful as when I was in my teens, except better. I know more now than I did then. I have had 3 implants over the last 26 years. I wore out the first 2 because the pump failed. My first 2 implants were OK and worked well. What happen was I lost some in length and a ton in girth. I was happy to be able to function and never be concerned that I would lose my erection in the heat of the moment. My last implant was from a different company and it is just the fucking bomb. I have all my original length and my original girth. In fact I am able to use it at different times at different sizes.

Your implant is only going to be as great as you see it. They are expensive but I had great insurance so my cost was minimal. I also had great doctors for all 3 implants. The first 2 where by the same doctor who was a card and we used as many medical terms as we did street language. My last doctor was gay and we had a blast with all my visits. Your mental state plays a HUGE factor from start to finish and even after visits. The mind is a powerful thing and creates as many problems as the physical ones. Before my first implant I tried everything and nothing was the real answer. The best solution were the penile injections. My problem was I had to use more than most and I ended up with erections that would last 7 to 9 hours if I didn't inject something to make it go away. I was taking Testosterone and at 42 I could pop 2 back to back and one night over the course of time I popped 3 times. This was when I decided on the implant. My first doctor was a gem of a guy he was Bi and just great.

I recommend that you get some counseling. I just lucked out with my first doctor being able to provide that service for me in a laid back setting in his office eating our lunch. I never felt it was counseling but I also felt cheated a little because my implant wasn't size wise what I hoped for. It was an AMS and at that time if you had more than 7 inches they did a poor job. I quickly got past my problem all because I was so happy to be back in the saddle and could have sex or make love at anytime day or night. I didn't worry about failure of performance and it was great.

PLEASE don't compare yourself with porn movies or size. If you swing both ways 6 inches is way more than enough to work.

handfulWES
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