Your Prostate

[MyImplant]

Am I glad I have discovered your post! As background I am straight, had ED, implanted with an LGX and then revised with a Titan. I bought several Aneros prostate massagers and read Mayfield's commentary on the SuperOrgasm. I am one of the lucky ones who made it. This is not BS… the SuperO, or whatever anyone otherwise might call it, IT IS EXACTLY LIKE YOU SAY! I think of it as "Rolling Thunder". Waves o orgasmic pleasure flooding your entire body.. Spasm after spasm after spasm.. For a long as you can stand it.

When it first hit me.. My first SuperO.. It scared the shit out of me. A traditional orgasm for might generate 10 to 12 spasms and I might shoot 5 to 7 loads. Then the refractory period kicks in. But on this first night something different happened.. The spasms were more intense and I was NOT shooting my usual wads of cum.. I was having intense orgasms with no ejaculation! I was really enjoying this for a few seconds.. Body shaking,, shouts, jabbering, etc. It would not stop! I started to worry about what I started. How long would this go on? Can I even stop it? After about 50 spasms it stopped for a few minutes as I laid dormant on my back. Then WHAM.. Without any warning it hit me again and the SuperO returned with vengeance but for a longer time. I felt out of control. I was not touching my dick. Just massaging my prostate by contracting my sphincter muscles causing my Aneros to rub against my prostate.

There is a lot more to tell but let me conclude.. I did this every night for weeks. I found I was having these SuperOs for hours. I would be lucky to get 3 hours of sleep. It was wearing me out. I was addicted to this intense pleasure. In the beginning I was using my massager. I would leave it in during the day. I remember being in a checkout line at my grocery store and a SuperO hit me. Guys.. Try this on for size.. Try running your credit card through, getting your receipt and wheeling your grocery cart out to your car while having orgasms. I know you must be thinking I am exaggerating or making this up. I am willing to bet that HandfulWes has had similar experiences. This has nothing to with sexual orientation. He is gay and I am straight. Wes please comment here .. You too?

There is much more to this. As the years went by I advanced to another level. All of the orgasms I described above required "rewiring" the brain by learning to focus on the very subtle sensations in the prostate, the anus and the perineum (the "taint" area between the scrotum and the anus. It was absolutely required to NOT TOUCH anywhere around the genitals. The idea is to avoid the ejaculation while promoting the orgasm. If you get excited by genital contact you might ejaculate screwing up your training.. Think how the brain remembers a phantom limb recently amputated. The brain "rewires" itself to accept that your limb is missing. The goal here is to tall your brain that there is a difference between the orgasm and the ejaculation. When you accomplish that BINGO,. No refractory period ( prolactin not produced by the pituitary gland).

OK to this point I have a grand time with myself. But what happens when I am fucking a woman. So I took it to the next level by putting the massager back in and slowly fucking my Fleshlight focusing on the different sensations and controlling my response. I slowly learned to have Super Os while fucking! TOUCHDDOWN! After that I did not need the massager. But if I used the massager the orgasms were more intense

You now know what is meant by MMO.. Multiple male orgasms. This is not teaching you to fight through the refractory periods to get successive wet orgasms. This is the real deal.

Put it all together… a hard dick always ready, a never ending desire to fuck forever and relentless never ending full bodied orgasms by a noisy convulsive man responding to his partner, This my friend is the orgasmic trigger that women love. Needless to say the woman has no limits to her orgasm which means she has the SuperO. So to those guys worried about the third nut pump? Give me a break.

In conclusion when I tell other men about this I get a hohum response. Surely this is because they either don’t believe me or thy have lost their libido and could not care less.

Why do I put so much effort into telling this story? Because I am trying to "pay this forward" to my fellow implant brethen. I am willing to demo this in a video cam session for those interested. Then you will believe. I could not possibly fake what you will see. I also have videos of other guys having the Super P using the massager. In my case I don’t need the massager and I fuck furiously hard both fast and slow. With this I think I have held up my promise to contribute.

AND WES… what do you say? Any of this familiar? Btw I understand that during WWII the medical core would do prostate massagers on the "blue balled" troops. This not a gay thing. This is a man thing.

Full disclosure.. This is hard to pull off. Many men try this and fail. You have to be patient and persevere. Literally hours required. Fortunately it fun.

[alfa88]

I have a couple questions. Certainly one would want to be 'empty' before attempting a massage but what about, say, rectal douching. Would that be part of the process? Does sticking one of those things in there increase the incidence of hemorrhoids?

[MyImplant]

Great questions.. Aneros uses advise you to do obvious things to avoid fecal matter e.g. taking a dump, diuching etc. But the usual penalty for failing to do such is fecal matter on the matter when you remove it. So it depends on the person's tolerance. I personally do the preventative dump but gave up on the douches

The second question is about hemorrhoids Not sure. Long extended use will encourage irritation of the ass hole. Generally this goes away in the same day. This can be avoided by limiting the time of insertion and proper lubing of the device. A lot of discussion about how to lube. Big deal..

[alfa88]

I tried getting into this a while back but the doohickey I got seemed a bit large for someone not used to anything larger than an index finger. After reading those glowing posts I am reconsidering. Any recommendations on a vibrating type that is on the slender side? Is a vibrating type even the way to go?

[MyImplant]

to Alibaba,,

This is not your first rodeo. Again a good question. Basically two.. What size massager and should it vibrate?

There are several reasons to use a prostate massager. First would be to have traditional orgasms (WET orgasms).. Climax and shoot wads of cum. Two separate phenomena normally occurring at the same time. If this is your purpose I would consider the vibrating kind. Aneros sells the Vice which has a vibrator tube that is in the massager. Maybe $125 from Amazon who has a great return policy or slightly more at Aneros who will probably be more generous in fixing any problems. I bought the Vice several months ago and I have never used it which brings me to the next reason for using a prostate massager ("PM")..

If your goal is to learn how to have true MMO ("Multiple Male Orgasms") you have to rewire your brain to recognize that an orgasm has one set of sensations and the ejaculation has another. For me, and probably you and the rest of mankind when we jerk off for the first time (I was probably around 11 yrs old) you get these scary pleasure waves leading up to the first climax. In my case almost immediately after the second wave I felt and saw the ejaculation. In my case it was clear fluid like precum. No white milky stuff. What I did not know that I was actually training my brain that these two separate events were meant to happen concurrently. Big mistake we all make. After the second session the cum starting turning milky like and again I was reinforcing my brain that I want both together. Likewise the following masturbation and fuck sessions. "Brain.. I want both".

In my case, and again I suspect it was and has been with you that you have had ejaculations first with the orgasm following. "I didn’t see that coming" (damn did I just make a pun?). I have experienced that and the opposite when the orgasms fire and there is delayed ejaculations. This proved to me that these are two separate events that normally occur simultaneously. BUT if you want to have successive unrelenting never ending orgasms you have to train ("rewire") your brain I DO NOT WANT YOU TO CUM.. JUST GIVE ME MY CLIMAX… NO EJACULATION! If successful then you are on the way to the Super Orgasms ("SuperO").

How to do this rewiring? Basically do little bitty manipulations of your sphincter muscles to massage your prostate that will eventually turn into involuntary contractions that will probably lead to the Super O. YOU WILL SCREW UP YOUR TRAINING IF YOU HAVE A WET ORGASM. This sets you back to zero and you have to start over. THEREFORE DO NOT TOUCH YOUR DICK, BALLS OR ANYTHING THAT CAUSES YOU TO REACH THE POINT OF INEVITABILITY ("poi"). So to answer the vibrator question this is probably the last thing you want to feel in your ass. For wet orgasms it is probably great.. For dry orgasms this is a NO NO.

So you know why I have not used it even though I put out the bucks.

Having said that for your benefit (I am assuming you are a newbee to MMO) I have taken this to a higher level by training myself to have the Super O while fucking or masturbating. I am rewired.. Past tense. I am concerned that if I use the vibrator I will set myself back although I suspect that traditional orgasm using vibrator PE would be a wild ride. Tempting.. But I am holding back. I might and I might not be successful in keeping my MMO skill even with the vibrator.

As for size I have a variety of sizes from the huge to the very small Paradise. I think you are better off getting advice from a good site such as Aneros rather that listening to me. In general bigger is not necessarily better. Too big hurts and breaks concentration. Too small and it might not reach your prostate.

Get ready to take your time. It might take you weeks and even months before Bingo. Many give up too soon and fail. The good news is that the effort is fun. Success is game changing.

I am thinking about doing a demonstration for my bionic brothers. A lot of time set up and learn the video call software. I tried the camcorder on this site and failed; I am think about using Zoom.us I think I can record the session so other could play it back at their convenience. Also I need to think whether I want to have a recording of me with dick flopping around as I convulse for an hour or whatever. Since I am old… 82.. And not planning on entering politics.. Think Stormy Daniels.. My fears are less and I am not a modest guy to start. I grew up with community showers and swimming naked at my athletic club. Nudity is not a problem. So maybe. Also I am assuming that others are interested. I am amazed at how uninterested many men are when I describe this. To me this is like discovering the origins of life, a cure for cancer or world peace. I am referring to the significance.. Not the subject. I am interested in the response to my various posts. It may will be that nobody gives a shit that I am a fucking freak.. The pejorative kind.. Not the heroic "You are my man" kind.

The fact you are asking questions tells me you are on your way to bliss. I have followed many of your posts and your story. If I can do anything to make your sex life better I will try; You deserve it. As I write this I am willing to establish a video call and show you everything and discuss anything. Screw my privacy concerns.

A very long answer to your very simple questions.

[MyImplant]

what a fuckup. I thought I was responding to Alibaba. The answer is the same except for the empathy for Alibaba's medical history.

[DougAnd]

I have a very enlarged prostate. But pee a stream like a race horse. I just lube my pointer finger well and massage away. Not often just as needed. Helps.

[bldoink]

This topic has been covered in the past although clearly without the enthusiasm with which it's currently being discussed. Previous discussions have also touched (fairly often) on the application of prostate massage techniques to those no longer in possession of the organ:

• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11537
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=10940
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=558
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=8135
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=2760
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6069
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=566
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=6461
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=2766
  
• https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=373

There appears to be many more but you get the idea. I don't have a prostate so....
But even without a prostate I don't think giving attention to the remaining nerve endings in the general area are without merit. A lot depends on your SO and how open minded they are.

[handfulWES]

Guys, I am thrilled with the discussion and the MANY POST. To IMPLANT, you did a fine job. I took sick during the night Wednesday and by mid day on Thursday had a very nasty cold and cough. Friday, I traveled to Richmond, VA for an appointment at the VA, just so I could continue getting my "T".

Guys, IMPLANT's post was 100 percent correct. As for there having been some discussion on this before, I guess I am to new a member to know about those post. My goal was to teach those interested about (1) taking care of their prostate and (2) the joy that little organ will bring. I had my PSA checked Friday and it was 1.3 and for an old fart the doc said I was healthy. I will say that I am very sexually active and my prostate gets a major work out.

I want to post something here and I don't want to damper anything. I highly recommend that you have an exam by your doctor to make sure you don't have a prostate infection. Many of our organs could have something going on and we never know till it is almost to late. The reason I say this is: If you have an infection, and you start massaging this infection will spread and turn into a major UTI. Treating a prostate infection is a bit different than treating a UTI. I know because I have kidney stones and I know that my left kidney is full of them. The urologist tells me it does function and thus he doesn't want to do anything as long as I am able to pass the stones.

Before I was on the "T" I had what doctors would tell me was a UTI. I would take some antibiotics for 7 to 10 days, get a little better and right back where I started. At 27 at the worst high of my ED issues, I saw a country doctor. The first thing he did was massage my prostate just enough to get a sample of fluid on a slide which he put under the microscope and found millions of Bactria. He actually started me on antibiotics by injection for 3 days and then switched me to oral for another 15 days. On day 5, he started with the massage. BTW, he had already started me on "T" because most women had more "T" than I did.

Picture it: (from the golden girls) He had me leaning on my arms on this exam table. He lubed up a gloved finger. He said most likely you are going to feel like you may cum if you do go with the flow. He had a small pan, you know the kind like the puke ones, catching what my Ralph would drip. At first I didn't know what to think but it started to feel really good and my dick was about 3/4 hard and it was fucking pouring out the PRE with a few little white threads in it. He continued and I knew that old familiar feeling and I found myself working on his finger. He said that's it keep going and go I did. I had these highs that took my breath and then I said OH GOD and I started shooting some missing the pan the thickest white goo and I couldn't stop working on his finger. I had more highs and I was shooting again. This time I said take it out, take it out and I collapsed on the table. My breathing was so fucking ragged and I was shaking. He told me a store in Memphis to go and buy myself a nice flexible dildo and see him in a week.

I grew up with 2 of my many cousins and my uncle was a farmer. I would go and stay the whole summer when school was out and come up on weekends. We did things boys did, at least those who lived on farms. Jimmy was the oldest I was exactly in the middle age wise between him and Donald. We all knew there was something inside us that felt very good and could make you orgasm and cum without touching your dick. I graduated high school, entered the military and became educated. I marred had 2 very fine children, I did most of the raising because my wife wasn't understanding at all about my ED issues and left.

I wanted you to know this and if I have posted parts of this before forgive me for posting again.

Implant has the idea. Tomorrow I want to post about toys, I will send pics and links. I will attempt to teach PROVIDED Implant will help me along, how to get inside to your very own special spot. I want to cover things like lube and the subject of being clean. I would think any of you who have read my post know I'm not shy. I don't beat the bushes. I did hold back because I wanted to see how much interest would be generated. I see it and it is way worth it. I agree a video would be helpful and I was going to suggest that you get a google account. (that will give you adult privileges). I was going to give you links to FREE material and you could see prostate massage happening. I want to send Implant a PM because I believe his video may be far better than something for a porn site. This will be a guy with an implant just like me who is sexually active and enjoying what he does.

ONE LAST THING before I close here. I am sure you have figured I am at least Bi or lean more to gay. I HATE THE WORD ORDINATION. It just sucks. I don't think God makes mistakes. I think we like what we like and some of us like me tend to like more things than others. So do I like guys that would be a major yes, do I like the ladies, that would be a yes also. I also work with guys one on one teaching prostate massage where I live. Before you start asking where am I located, do a private PM and let me get to know you. I have married guys, single guys, straight guys, Bi guys and yes gay guys. I don't even charge for my services. I have doctors, lawyers, businessmen, working class in short guys from every walk of life. It isn't uncommon for me to find some money on my table from time to time. I have guys from 18 to 73 and I enjoy what I do. With this I do relaxing therapy and massage. I also have a small application so I get to know something about the guy.

I will do my best to start back in tomorrow. I am still battling this cold and cough and I am for a change very tired. I have to start this week to packing up my old place and get ready to move to my new place. I guess I am not the spring Roster I was at 40. LOL NO ONE IS TOO OLD FOR THIS.

OH, OH!! As Colombo would say, "one more thing", I do know for a fact that guys who have had prostate radiation stand a 50/50 chance to reviving there prostate. I don't have any experience on those who have surgery. I talked with one doctor on Friday at the VA, he isn't the brightest tack in the box but told me if part of the gland was left it may be possible that it could work. I will see one of my other doctors in early February and I know he will know the answer for sure.

WES

[handfulWES]

I am still sick here with the cold, cough and chest congestion. All I can do is treat the symptoms and pray I don't head for pneumonia. This is the first nasty cold I have had in many years.

I want to cover being CLEAN in your backside. First lets start with the obvious. Guys on a general rule have daily bowel movements with most of us being in the morning. I generally will go after my first cup of coffee or at least on my second cup. I generally empty rather well and generally I am rather clean. If I am playing on my own I don't worry so much BUT if someone is playing with me I do take things a step further. I have a bulb type syringe that I use with tepid water and I squeeze till the air is out and squirt some in, not a lot hold it for a moment and let it back out. If the water is discolored then I repeat and almost always, that one is clean if it isn't clean repeat once more. Just remember the more you do this the greater the risk that you will have one hell of a bowel movement. While on this topic, I travel to and from Richmond, VA and many times I get food from somewhere that doesn't set right with me. I will naturally get a nasty case of the shits until there is nothing left to come out. Well it may take 2 days before I start going again. Once I have recovered from the shits, makes it an excellent opportunity to have backdoor play and more so if you choose to have a friend assist or play with you.

If you feel playing on your own you prefer it I suggest that you follow the above instructions. BE CAREFUL not to squeeze to hard and to much water because you could trigger a massive bowel movement that could take some time to recover from. Make sure you don't squeeze in air because later that may prove funny also. LOL

You may have something else and that is fine, I actually have one similar to the one on the left. Any of them will work. If you have difficulty with your hands the one on the right would be very easy to use. I will post more. Guys I am just fucking sick.

WES

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