Good afternoon everyone... a member has asked me to create this question... I know that before my implant, I was a grower and a very embarrassed grower in the shower room. On my military courses I would get up an hour early so I could go shower with 100% privacy... anyway, here is the question from a fellow member;
I was thinking, can you create a post concerning how Guys deal with their Flaccid state? Many of us that are Growers Not Showers have issues with confidence. Undressing by other guys - those that are showers, makes it really hard to Not feel bad. We find ourselves stretching ours etc. to at least get it to hang a bit. To that - we also have those of us who’s Balls have shrunk. Seeing other guys hang so nicely, big Balls in a nice Big sack is yet another which really makes us feel less of what we actually are. We Love how we look when aroused, though = One can not walk around with a Woodie all day.. Right?
How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
I simply ignored all size differences.
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
During my days of school gym, swim team, army barracks, and gyms I never paid the slightest bit of attention to others in the locker room and AFAIK nobody there paid any attention to me. I never gave a minute's thought to how I looked. It was just never an issue.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
It’s amazing how different we men feel about different issues. I’ll give an example. One of mine is getting older! I really have a hard time with this issue. I don’t dwell on getting older all the time but it does concern me greatly. I’ve always tried to dress and be the best that I can be and as you get older you can’t control everything that happens to the human body. An example is the bags that show up under our eyes. I’ve always had a baby face until it started changing and boy did it ever change. As I have gotten older my balls have gotten smaller. I obsess over how small the are! I have always been gifted in the cock Dept but my balls have always been small. We are all different!
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
dg_moore wrote:During my days of school gym, swim team, army barracks, and gyms I never paid the slightest bit of attention to others in the locker room and AFAIK nobody there paid any attention to me. I never gave a minute's thought to how I looked. It was just never an issue.
Wow... I don't know how you and Sheep did it... Maybe me and microdick were a little more bashful and embarrassed than you two
Larry
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
Larry10625 wrote:dg_moore wrote:During my days of school gym, swim team, army barracks, and gyms I never paid the slightest bit of attention to others in the locker room and AFAIK nobody there paid any attention to me. I never gave a minute's thought to how I looked. It was just never an issue.
Wow... I don't know how you and Sheep did it... Maybe me and microdick were a little more bashful and embarrassed than you two
Larry
On top of that, I was a "grower" and was only about 2 inches long when flaccid. No "hang" at all, either, as my penis pretty much rested atop my balls which did not have enough weight to hang down.
I DID notice some of the other boys in high school were more "endowed" than I was, but I did not particularly care. I did not think of it much, but I did feel a bit of embarrassment merely being naked. Not because of my size, but just on general principles.
Lost Sheep
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Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
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READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
In my Army days I had so much more on my mind that my dick size. I don't recall ever thinking about it back then. But that was over 50 years ago and time has made those days kind of hazy.
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
I’m a deffinate grower. I have no flaccid hang at all - just a nub that points straight out.
In public showers in the gym and army, I always faced the wall and minded my own business. I always kept a towel near by to cover up as soon as possible when I was finished.
In public showers in the gym and army, I always faced the wall and minded my own business. I always kept a towel near by to cover up as soon as possible when I was finished.
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Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
dtwarren1942 wrote:I’m a deffinate grower. I have no flaccid hang at all - just a nub that points straight out.
In public showers in the gym and army, I always faced the wall and minded my own business. I always kept a towel near by to cover up as soon as possible when I was finished.
That's more like it... that's what I did to except, for some reason I found it necessary to look around and see what I did not have.
Larry
Re: How do you deal with Mr. Flaccid
I was a grower (before my implant), and it never really bothered me as there were a variety of sizes in the locker room and nobody seemed to care. But I have heard horror stories of guys who were teased about having a small (flaccid) penis, and in today's tell-all world I understand that some of those younger guys have other guys telling everyone -- including females -- about so-and-so having a small dick. Such a shame.
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