Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

[Larry10625]

Hi,

I am a 42 year old married man who suffers with life-long PE.

I am terribly embarrased about this and desperately need help.

My wife of almost 20 years does not complain. I am able to satisy her with my fingers, etc..., but I know that real intercourse involves thrusting which I am not capable of doing and as a result feel terribly horrible about myself.

This began all the way in the beginning from day one and greatly impacts our relationship because I feel like a nothing. I also tend to avoid intimacy with her since I know I will invariably feel let down afterwards.

Enough!! 20 years is enough!!!! I am now coming out and once and for all, want to heal this illness. I want to be normal and have real intimacy.

Any and all guidance would be greatly appreciated!!

I have the same problem. We bought toys (dildos and the little clit buzzer. When we have sex, I satisfy her first and then me. It's not a perfect solution but it's ok for now.

[Axeless]

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[peter007]

PE might be of two types. One is psychogenic and other is functional. i think before starting anything one should be very precise about what kind of PE he is suffering from.
TreatmentTherapy

[KevinWha]

Agree with peter007!
There is no identification of your long-term ED. It is hard to consider in that case. It maybe this, for example:http://potencyup.com/what-is-priapism-definition-types-causes-symptoms-diagnosis-and-treatment/.
Or it might be smth else (for instance, caused by your genetics). Or it could be triggered the way you think. In any case I wish you all the best!

[Frank Talk Admin]

Just had to pop in to give some info. PE is very treatable but you need to find a doctor who will work with you. Ask your doctor about starting with very small doses of Sertraline (Zoloft). This is a good way to stop the death spiral and get on solid ground. Since most guys don't want to be on drugs for life, see a sex therapist to learn ejaculation control techniques. But start with medical help and then add therapeutic help. i recommend a male sex therapist for this.
Paul

[TheNordic]

Hi,

I am a 42 year old married man who suffers with life-long PE.

I am terribly embarrased about this and desperately need help.

My wife of almost 20 years does not complain. I am able to satisy her with my fingers, etc..., but I know that real intercourse involves thrusting which I am not capable of doing and as a result feel terribly horrible about myself.

This began all the way in the beginning from day one and greatly impacts our relationship because I feel like a nothing. I also tend to avoid intimacy with her since I know I will invariably feel let down afterwards.

Enough!! 20 years is enough!!!! I am now coming out and once and for all, want to heal this illness. I want to be normal and have real intimacy.

Any and all guidance would be greatly appreciated!!

Just one comment / suggestion and may not work for you (or may work too good ??). But earlier in life- I was much the same - kinda lame. Fast forward to my 50's ... and since I had mild to moderate ED and I started injections, I can go all night and cum multiple times. In short, I can fuck like a rock star. No kidding. For hours with multiple women. I am in control when I cum and told it was a side benefit of the Trimix. I started using when I went to Universal Men's Clinic (cost through them was quite expensive), but have never looked back .... and it's only gotten better thanks in part to the men here on FT. If anything, occasionally I have to "will" myself to cum. Pills initially had some effect, but nothing like this. Also, pills tend to have more side effects while the injections have none.

[jorgepp]

PE might be of two types. One is psychogenic and other is functional. i think before starting anything one should be very precise about what kind of PE he is suffering from.

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[alfa88]

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[NeedleD]

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[Larry10625]

Ask your Doctor about Tramadol. Google it and you'll find many articles about it delaying ejaculation.
I use it and it works!

First, the long-term use can result in drug addiction.[2] In addition, despite its advantage for management of PE, tramadol can induce the sexual dysfunction as a side effect.[3] This should be kept in mind. Finally, tramadol can also cause other side effects

https://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&q= ... vPj5YdO8Hc

Larry