Single with ED

[MK1965]

I might be low on Testosterone also.
I have for almost a year (since divorce) now taken Sildenafil and then visited the guy friend/FWB about once a week.
For the past 8 months I have only solo masturbated to ejaculation without taking Sildenafil maybe once a month. Quite often I give up because it takes to long and I lose what ever erection (maybe 85%) I had, or my cat comes in to see what I'm doing.
Twenty years ago wife and I did things 2-3 times a day. That was more than I wanted but I could do it. Fifteen years ago it was maybe every other day. Five years ago 2-3 times per week. Last year of marriage about once a week but a little more would have been nice.
Just wondering how much of this is typical for a 57 year old.

I am 52 and currently once every 3 weeks if I'm lucky or if I keep my mouth shut... one snide comment about not getting it will cost me.

Larry

Larry,
Your wife must be older then you.
I am in same boat. If I want it , I keep my mouth closed least for a day.
When I hear from her: You’re so quiet. Everything ok?
I know , sex will happen.
MK

[Larry10625]

I might be low on Testosterone also.
I have for almost a year (since divorce) now taken Sildenafil and then visited the guy friend/FWB about once a week.
For the past 8 months I have only solo masturbated to ejaculation without taking Sildenafil maybe once a month. Quite often I give up because it takes to long and I lose what ever erection (maybe 85%) I had, or my cat comes in to see what I'm doing.
Twenty years ago wife and I did things 2-3 times a day. That was more than I wanted but I could do it. Fifteen years ago it was maybe every other day. Five years ago 2-3 times per week. Last year of marriage about once a week but a little more would have been nice.
Just wondering how much of this is typical for a 57 year old.

I am 52 and currently once every 3 weeks if I'm lucky or if I keep my mouth shut... one snide comment about not getting it will cost me.

Larry

Larry,
Your wife must be older then you.
I am in same boat. If I want it , I keep my mouth closed least for a day.
When I hear from her: You’re so quiet. Everything ok?
I know , sex will happen.
MK

Yes, she is.. She was born in Aug 1965 and I was Jan 1967. When we first shacked up, I got it at least once a day. I started working on the army base in the kitchen and when I was on day shift, I had to catch my taxi at 5:00 am. The one night at around 11:00 pm she started pulling my cord and I told her that I was exhausted and had to catch my cab in only 6 hours. From that point on, the frequency of sex for my was unacceptable. She adamantly claims that my lack of interest that one night has to do with it and she doesn't know why she isn't interested as much as she use to be. She claims when we do have sex, she enjoys it (I make sure she orgasms every time during foreplay just in case). I suffered PE before my implant so I have to ensure she cums during foreplay. One night my PE was even more humiliating than ever... after foreplay, I climbed on and came on the first stroke. Thank god this only happened once, but the PE was bad none the less. I tried all kinds of things... stopping after a bit, thinking of things I had to do the next day, etc. Nothing worked. Now, including foreplay, we need around one hour. Although she obviously enjoys herself, it is still infrequent.

Larry