the link to that post is at the following:
https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=12251&p=106621&hilit=getting+discovered+tell#p106621
Here is a summary quote by Lost Sheep (please note, the links embedded within the below lost sheep quote are not complete in format, so please go to the lost sheep comments back in april 2019 (the url above) if you want to be able to click to the active links listed in his response)
QUOTED FROM LOST SHEEP April 2019
Once a woman has decided to have sex with you, discovery of an implant is not likely to change her mind if you are comfortable with it.
A woman might be able to feel the apparatus. The tips on the glans, the wrinkles in the tubes in your penile shaft, the pump bulb in your testicles or the valve body (angular and hard). But if a woman gets that intimate, she is likely to have already decided to have sex with you and unlikely to raise questions or objections at that point. If she only wanted to engage in some genital "heavy petting" or fellatio, though, she may take issue with a man "with a dildo in his penis" and object to the concept. She might be put off by the lack of a spontaneous erection.
But women are incredibly accepting of their man if she feels safe, trusted and respected.
Don't worry about it. My advice is to level with her.
Women are incredibly accepting, supportive and understanding if they feel safe, trusted and respected. Franktalk has little from women about their attitudes, but here are some links that I believe you will find illuminating. One of the threads is from a young woman who realized, after a couple of sexual encounters with her lover that he had an implant and honored his desire to not mention it to her by not mentioning to him that she knew. Like I said, incredibly supportive.
What will she think? - a womans perspective
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=6513
Any offers for sex from intrigued girls?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=7166
How will young women respond to implants?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 9&start=30
Getting discovered: How to tell a woman
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9236
Pumping in front of her a mood killer?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 6&start=10
Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9501
What excuse did you use? (More about explaining the surgery than to your partner)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9787
She can't feel anything (a little bit off the subject)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9594
Afraid of sex
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 3&start=10
Is this a common story?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10089
Does it feel different to her?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10103
Lost Sheep
Born 1948 AMS LGX 18+3 implant Nov 6, 2017 by Dr Tavis Shaw. Spent 14 months researching in effort to optimize outcome. After 30 yrs of progressive unrecognized ED I will do this RIGHT; no second chance with one's first.
Anchorage AK, USA
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