First office visit

[Alanoc8]

If you are hard enough to penetrate at 7", go for it the friction will get it the rest of the way.

[Leebert]

I can't keep it long enough to get it in. go's down too fast and too bendable. Wife is smaller after 3 yrs of nothing. She won't let me try until it is really hard, cause when taking the pills we had a lot of times couldn't get it in and it hurt her. So she won't take any chances.

[Alanoc8]

Sounds like you have venous leakage. That's what I have. Unless I put a cock ring before I inject it won't stay hard.

[Leebert]

Was using a silicone ring to inject and when it starts getting hard , but was to uncomfortable, I couldn't take it. It use to be fine for masterbation, but now can't do it. Looking into an adjustable one and ya pretty sure that I do have a VL.

[Lost Sheep]

Thx guys, you have no idea how much I appreciate your info. Uro doesn't want me to email him on results. You would think he's the one passing out meds he would want to know! Just says up it by 10 units each time until good erection, really! I don't think he cares if I go to ER. Grrr. I will deal with the ache if I can just get there to have intercourse with wife. It's been 3 yrs since. I got done injecting last night and came out of bedroom and she asked - any luck and as usual I said not yet dear, think she's tired of waiting. She's one you have to keep interested or she will give up. When I told her about talking to you guys and the info I get, she said who are these guys you keep talking about, I thought he we go.i told her you guys have good experience with injections and have helped me thru this this far and she said oh, cause I get no feedback from uro. I'm doing 25 units a little earlier Tues, see what's up, lol. Maybe! I don't mind seeing guys pics if anyone wants to pm me, I've dabbled with same sex before when I could get it up back then!

I highly recommend you do everything it takes to keep your wife's interest up. Cunniingus is great for that and also great for foreplay before intercourse once you do get an erection. My girlfriend and I have a routine. Massage - sensual massate, oral play, coitus, coitus in another position, and another until we are tired and then to a relaxing position that lets us both remain "united" and not requiring a lot of energy. The routine is not boring because we are always searching for novel positions in the coital portion of the encounter. The initial phases and terminal phases are a comforting familiarity we enjoy just as much as the coital phase. Some time we may add some form of other "entertainment", but for right now, we are deliriously content with our "routine". Been together just about a year.

Saying all that, I will repeat. When your wife or partner is tired of waiting, you are well-served to give her (or him) a reward for patience and a preview of what may yet come. Keep her happy with anticipation of what is to come (cum?) and constantly give her samples and appetizers until you can provide the main course.

There is a lot more to sex than coitus (penis in vagina) and the emotional joining is just as important as the physical joining (albeit more ethereal).

[Leebert]

Ya, that's not happening. My wife was brought up crc environment, she was taught that sex was bad and nasty from her parents. Stupidest thing they could have done! Just to keep her from having sex at early age. I was pretty pissed at her parents! She met me and we use to do those things, but stopped. I've tried going down on her, but won't let me anymore. I got a long road ahead of me. Ugh! I try to involve her with info on what I'm doing, but not really connected with it.if a hint of not real hard, she won't try probably until I get it rock hard and that might be close to going to ER!

[Ratt19]

As a 47 year old male, this thread has me worried. I am disabled and have maybe $100 a month to spend on injections. The doctor hasn't said what he would use yet, but I am scared that I won't be able to afford it. Going without love is something I can't live with. I guess that I will have to wait and see.

[Leebert]

Hallelujah , my golden no. Is 25 units. BONE ASS HARD! showed it to wife and her eyes lit up, but she had tough day at work so I knew it would be solo. That shot was on the rt side, see what it does on left next time.got to 100 percent, man that was awesome. Forgot what one felt like! After 30 mins. Wasn't all the way there, so I did my legals for 10 more mins and super boner! The ache tho was at a scale of 5-6 on scale of 10, but didn't care. Felt like a teen again! After an HR I had to jo to make sure it would go down and didn't. Then I'm thinking uh oh, still hard after 1 1/2 hrs, so sat on couch and put my elbows on my legs and played a game on my phone to take my mind off it, went to about 75 percent,but kept wanting to go back up, luckily I had to piss which took down further, when I was doing the worthless pills if I had to pee before we had tried to have sex it would totally go flaccid and that was it.man the girth made it look like a monster. Looked great. Should've measured, oh well next time. My success had a lot to do with this forum and you guys that helped me and others get to that point, kudos and many thx all. And all I got to say after 11 injections it about time!

[Leebert]

Ratt, if you had a signature it would be helpful to the guys to give you more info. I'm in Michigan and get my script from University compound pharmacy in Troy mi. I get 2 ml vial for $64. With a $15. Overnight shipping. $79. Total. Don't know where your from, so don't know if this will help with cost.

[Leebert]

Oops, just noticed I spelled legals. It should've said, kegals, darn big hands!