More decided on implant

[anedsufferer]

Hello,
I am new on this forum but I have been reading most of the implant posts for more than a month and a half. I am Spanish and I have been suffering ed since I was 20 years old. Now I am 24 years old. Ed has led me not to have sexual intercourse with girls. I was diagnosed with venous leak nearly two months ago. I had been to many urologists before but most of them told me I was young so it should be psychoñogical, gave me some pills to restore security and then I would feel more frustrated than before. I also did the low intensity shickwave therapy but it did not work. The last urologist, the one who did the doppler test and then an Helicoidal angiotac, diagnosed me with a massive venous leak, and told me that the best solution for me would be a penile implant. Then I went to another urologist who told me that I had to try all other treatments before implant. I have tried Cialis 5 mg daily and 10 mg as well and even if it makes a bit of a difference it does not really work for me. Viagra and Spedra work for me, but after three hours their effects start vanishing and my erections last less and less, which is really frustrating and makes me think they are not the solution for me. What I want to is to have a penis which works for the whole day, not only for three hours. I know the implant is irreversible but I feel that it is the only way to make me feel normal again and restore a fully functioning penis for me for the whole day.
This ed issue has interfered with all the aspects of my life for the last for years. I am psychologically strong but I have suffered a lot since the urologist told me I have a venous leak. I do not want to suffer so much an I think that pills are prolongating this suffering an I should go for the implamt but I still have some doubts about the decision. I do not have a girlfriend now and I am scared about the fact of having to tell a new girl I have an implant (and maybe she could reject me for this fact). However, I believe it is the best solution to my problem , even if I will probably need more than one revision or replacement during my life. I am thinking about talking to dr. Eid in the future or I may do it in Spain when I make the decision (there are two high volume surgeons in Spain, but I think I would get best results from Dr Eid, because of his low infection rates and his ability to size cylindres to achieve the whole length).
Do you believe the implant is the best solution for me?
Should I stick to pills for now even with their nasty limitations?
Thank you very much and ask me any questions you want to. I feel this forum really helps us.

[Greg1956]

I started suffering from ED at age 30. I went to numerous doctors who told me my problem was all in my head. I even went to a psychologist and he could not conclude there was anything in my head causing the problem. I kept trying new doctors who just prescribed pills, injections, etc without trying to figure out what was causing my ED. Finally, at age 60 I found a great doctor who sent me for a Penile Doppler test and it showed a severe Venous Leak.

I was so relieved to finally have proof it was a physical problem and not in my head. I missed out on years of great sex due to many doctors not caring enough or knowing enough to figure out what was causing my problem. I know you do not feel lucky because you are going g through the same problem, but in a way you are lucky because you can correct it at a young age and enjoy a full sex life.

Most reputable doctors will make sure that pills, injections, etc do not work for you before moving forward with an implant. If you tell your doctor you have tried everything, he may go ahead, but may also want to to try them again as his patient.

I have had my implant now for two years and it has brought back my self-esteem and love of sex. My wife loves that I can keep going as long as it take for her to reach orgasm. Many guys cum before the woman climaxes, but with an implant you can stay hard and do what it takes to give your girl the pleasure she is looking for. It may be awkward to share that you have an implant but if the girl has had unsatisfying sex with a guy who cums before she does, it can be a selling point to know you can be Superman in bed.

[oneperson]

I will send you a pm. I will explain better in spanish.

Hold on.

[vajim1]

Why do you want an erections to last more than 3 hours?

[anedsufferer]

Thank you for your answers. I do not have any erections that last three hours. After an hour of taking Spedra I can get an erection easily but without sexual stimulation it starts going down qithin a minute. After two hours and a half of taking thevpill I can get the erection but without physical stimulation it starts going down after 45 seconds. And after three hours of tsking the pill I can get an erection but it starts going down after about 30 seconds. I believe thisbis due to my venous leak, which I was diagnosed. This makes me think that even if pills make a difference, they do not really work for me. Consequently, I am considering the implant very seriously, even if it has certain drawbacks. I think an implant would be the best solution for me, even being 24 years old.

[oneperson]

My friend, as I have told you by phone, not even being 24 years old, but because you are 24 years old.

If you were lets say 60, and your ED were there since 20 years back, you would have had good 25 years of good sex. An implant would be a good solution to recover your sexual life. But being 24, and with such problem since the very begining, you haven't had any sexual life at all. With an implant, you will have the rest of your live for enjoy a complete sexual life. If the price to pay is a surgery each 10 years, I think is a cheap price.

Otherwise, you are dammed to a whole life without sex. I think you are a 'nothing to lose' case.

As I have told you, I am here for whatever you need.

[Lost Sheep]

Thank you for your answers. I do not have any erections that last three hours. After an hour of taking Spedra I can get an erection easily but without sexual stimulation it starts going down qithin a minute.

I understand now. Your first post appeared to say you could stay erect for 3 hours and you wanted to stay erect for all day.

So, we were confused.

Now I understand that the pill gives you an ability to GET an erection some time during a three hour window., but keeping it is only for a short time.

You want the ability to get an erection any time of day. And keep it longer than a few minutes.

Is this correct?

[anedsufferer]

Thank you so much my dear friend oneperson, I will call you again on the following days. You are being really helpful and nice to me.
Lost Sheep, yes that is right. When I take the pills (for example, Spedra) I can maintain the erection as long as I am penetrating or getting constant stimulation (for example, masturbation or blowjob). However, when this stimulation stops, within a short period of time (around one minute, and even less when the effects of the pill start wearing off) my erection starts going down. I believe this is due to the massive venous leak I was diagnosed and that is why I am really considering an implant. I would like to have a full erection whenever I desire and I would like not to need to have constant stimulation to maintain the erection.

[oneperson]

Yes Lost, that is exactly what I thougt first time when read: 'what the hell want this boy if he can mantain an erection for 3 hours with viagra?'

As he is spanish I sent him a PM, and told him just that: You are kind of crazy? Is not enough 3 hours erection? But then he explained that those 3 hours is the windown in which he can get an erection that last as much as 1 minute unless keeping stimulation. So if he just stop to eat her pussy, in less than one minute the erection goes away.

The normal thing with severe leak.

[Lost Sheep]

Thank you so much my dear friend oneperson, I will call you again on the following days. You are being really helpful and nice to me.
Lost Sheep, yes that is right. When I take the pills (for example, Spedra) I can maintain the erection as long as I am penetrating or getting constant stimulation (for example, masturbation or blowjob). However, when this stimulation stops, within a short period of time (around one minute, and even less when the effects of the pill start wearing off) my erection starts going down. I believe this is due to the massive venous leak I was diagnosed and that is why I am really considering an implant. I would like to have a full erection whenever I desire and I would like not to need to have constant stimulation to maintain the erection.

Exactly my situation. I could stay erect with vigorous stimulation. That stimulation would trigger orgasm quickly (followed by refractory collapse). A pause to prevent orgasm would cause the erection to collapse (of venous leak). After a few years of this, the time between getting an erection and the collapse (from one cause or the other) shortened from minutes in 1990 to seconds in 2010 to zero by 2016.

A vacuum device with constriction ring might enable you to have sex. It is inconvenient, but is satisfying for some people.

I do recommend using a vacuum device to maintain elasticity of your penile tissues. Atrophy is not good for you.