Sliding out - problem of missing rigidity ?

[mr.skin]

Hello to all,

Yesterday I had sex for the first time. I did inject 10mcg of Alprostadil before and the erection stayed for 1.5 - 2 hours which was a perfect time frame.

Since I do not have a lot of experience in penetrative sex I d like to ask here.
In my opinion, my erection was a 8/10 (no trouble putting the condom over, almost not flexible in the shaft itself.)

But I slid out several times in different positions - additionally I had trouble feeling a lot with the injection induced erection (even the handjob was not pleasurable at all)


My conclusions so far:

i) rigidity problem - I really do not hope so. It was the hardest erection I can get, upping the dose wont do anything. really scared of this.
ii) the girl was very wet, but is very petite (she is at most 5'1). I had trouble thrusting a lot. and during thrusting it slid out -> maybe my inexperience.
iii) my penis size - shouldnt be to small actually, my penis is very girthy (5.7 inches girth) and length measured from the pubic bone is 6.5 inches. I was under the impression that is above average.
iv) I do have a steep angle of erection 1' o clock and I was under the impression her vaginal canal was quite low / back.

Any tips on how to avoid the "sliding out" problem ?

We tried several positions (missionary, her on top, sideways behind and a variation of the missionary) and to be honest most of the time I could not feel if I was in or not. The condom was on the larger sides of the ones I use (64mm diameter) - will a smaller one help with the sensitivity issue?

Would like your help

[Txagq8]

1. Yes your cock is well above average at 6.5x5.7. It was nearly identical to mine pre implant at 6.8x6.0. Yes, I had occasional fall out problems. No, I don’t think it was rigidity.

2. Truth be known I suspect you’ve watched porn a time or two, and you’re trying to get carried away with long-dicking or long-stroking or whatever you want to call it. Been there, done that, you get too close to exiting and you....exit.

3. My advice? Try taking shorter strokes. Slowing down helps too. If you are trying to be (with apologies to James Brown, the hardest working man in show business) a sex machine, it’s too easy and normal guy shit to go so fast you get to the edge and slip out. In my case I was going fast to try and increase the stimulation and maintain a leaking erection. If the shot is working and youve got a stable boner, slow down, take shorter strokes, and focus on your partner.

4. Rigidity gets you in. But unless I got too soft to thrust a little variation in hardness did not get me kicked out. I can’t stress enough....with your equipment, which is damned close to ideal....go balls deep and take shorter strokes.

[mr.skin]

1. Yes your cock is well above average at 6.5x5.7. It was nearly identical to mine pre implant at 6.8x6.0. Yes, I had occasional fall out problems. No, I don’t think it was rigidity.

2. Truth be known I suspect you’ve watched porn a time or two, and you’re trying to get carried away with long-dicking or long-stroking or whatever you want to call it. Been there, done that, you get too close to exiting and you....exit.

3. My advice? Try taking shorter strokes. Slowing down helps too. If you are trying to be (with apologies to James Brown, the hardest working man in show business) a sex machine, it’s too easy and normal guy shit to go so fast you get to the edge and slip out. In my case I was going fast to try and increase the stimulation and maintain a leaking erection. If the shot is working and youve got a stable boner, slow down, take shorter strokes, and focus on your partner.

4. Rigidity gets you in. But unless I got too soft to thrust a little variation in hardness did not get me kicked out. I can’t stress enough....with your equipment, which is damned close to ideal....go balls deep and take shorter strokes.

Thank you for your answer, really appreciate it and will hopefully have another chance with the same girl to try out.

Best,

[Hunchback]

It's probably a question of experience and skill more than anything. Don't meant it in a negative way, it's just that as all things, sex takes practice to master.
I am pretty sure everyone slips out, Ed or not. Don't think it's a problem either. Tbh I actually enjoy pulling all the way out and going back in, there's something exciting about that "initial" penetration moment.
Just be careful not to slip while going harder, you might hurt yourself if you thrust hard and not hit the spot.

As for the sensation, that's more troublesome, maybe it's the condom?

All il all it looks like your response to the injection was very damn good, I've never had such a long or strong erection...
Gl hf, go practice and enjoy your partner

[oldbeek]

Some girls like pubic bone on pubic bone and don't be pulling it out when she is coming. Just get it in and grind. Have her lock her legs around yours and hang on to your ass. One finger up her ass is very stimulating also. Erotic for you and oh my god for her. I do foreplay till the girl is ready to explode ( I love licking, some times come while licking) then stick it in, grind and watch the girl face while she comes. I usually come at the same time. Don't try that shit you see on porn sites. That is all fake. I am not a therapist. Just a guy with 65 years of experience and 80,000 orgasm with a woman.

[David_R]

80,000 orgasm with a woman.

Wow! How in the world did you fit that many nicks on your bed's headboard??

[Lost Sheep]

80,000 orgasm with a woman.

Wow! How in the world did you fit that many nicks on your bed's headboard??

I note that he used the singular "a woman". As I understand it, you put in a new notch for each woman, not each orgasm or each time. But, what do I know?

HIS headboard may only have one notch. One woman, 80,000 orgasms. She must be one happy camper! Arithmetically, that works out to two dozen a week if they never took a day off.

Unless he is talking about HIS orgasms!

[oldbeek]

I don't know where that number came from. Must have been my friend Jack Danials. Sex almost every day of my adult life and several times on some days with the most orgasmic woman in the world. OK 65x365=23,725, At least 20,000 times.