this site is brutal for us smaller guys

[edwardl007]

Needsomehope,

I fully agree with you. It does seem like the guys here were/are bigger than average. You have a right to feel that way. In fact, the guy who posted right after you says he HAD 7 inches before ED ! He proves your point. Then another guy says it is girth that counts. You probably have little girth too. Again your point is proven!

I am in the same "feeling' and size boat as you. I also happen to be married to a wonderful women who has enjoyed other boyfriend's much more than me because she happens to really like much bigger dicks than average. So i get it.

But i think the truth is better than a lot of soothing talk that size does not matter. And that talk will never sooth you ( It never did anything for me). The fact is that for SOME women size is very important. Accept that. But that means that size is not that important for other women. And I do agree that a small hard dick is much better than a bigger soft one.

So i think you should resolve your self to owning up to who you really are, get the help you need - implant - and know there are some women who will be very happy with a sex life with you.

[Txagq8]

I hope you can handle some truth. I give the best truth in town. It’s so good you can’t tell it from make-believe.

Size is way overrated.

Before my implant, I was roughly 7x6. That’s a good sized dick. It would fall into the big but not huge category. Only one problem. I couldn’t keep it erect.

My sainted wife got used to sex being an ordeal rather than some sort of intimate living experience. I was trying, often without success, to hurry and finish with a deflating cock and far too many times it would get semi-erect to the point I was getting negligible stimulation and about the best thing that could be said for a sex session was it was decent cardio.

I’m 6 weeks post implant, more or less. Got cleared to do it all. So I warned wife that it wasn’t as big as it once was. She asked “if that’s the case, why’d you have it done? After all, we know that size is everything” (she was being sarcastic). I told her function was more important than size for size’s sake. She wanted to hit me, saying “what the hell have I been telling you for 30+ years?”

Bottom line: with pumping some of it is liable to come back, so says the surgeon. In the meantime, I’m sporting a pretty ordinary dick...depending on how tight I pull the tape it’s 5 7/8-6 long, 5 to 5 1/2 thick. But it gets hard. Real hard. It’s vastly superior to any sex I ever accomplished with the 7x6.

Don’t look at the implant sizes, they’re misleading. I’ve got 23 cm. That’s a bit over 9 inches. A big chunk of that is internal not external.

[stubby]

"awsome advice" - thanks for posting

[MK1965]

I don’t care if everyone is 7 or more inches long.
I was happy with mine 6.5” what I had all my adult life until RP when I lost 2+ inches of length and also some girth.
At consultation for implant I had barely 4.5” SPL and doc told me, that is what I can expect from implant. I did not like what I heard, but on the other side, I was happy of once again having working penis.
I went for implant and I am functional again but my wife is not much interested in me. Implant gave me back 1” of lost length and with my 5.5 I am more then happy what I have now. I just wish I am still good for my wife and she would be engaged more in enjoying my new capabilities. RP derailed everything, QoL, relationship etc.
MK

[thereishope]

And to add to GT1956's statements, I read that the average vagina is only about 5" deep so anything more than that in penis length would tend to bottom out on a typical woman. There are exceptions to the 5" deep vagina but then there are exceptions to the average 4,5-5.0" penis too.

I don't know who started that lie, but i presume it was some guy who prefers to live in denial and that believed when his partner told him length didn't mattered THAT much...

What bothers more here, is how the existing strategies to regain size are not discussed on the daily, and instead people prefer do suggest that other things can be done and that folks should accept their fate. Whilst they can still fight!

why isn't vacuum therapy post implant discussed and encouraged more often?
why isn't traction therapy post implant discussed and encouraged more often?

Especially for surgeries that where botched and guys were left undersized? why don't guys who follow these protocols and therapies post more proof of the gains they have so they can encourage others? further directing members to these therapies so there is a greater pool of guys doing this so we can compare the results?

[edwardl007]

I am sure you guys sincerely wish to help neadsomehope. However, I think some may be unconsciously bragging and therefore not helping.
The guy says most guys here are very well-hung. Now look at the breakdown of only those who offered up details about their penis size. This does not include any reference in their profile at the bottom.
1- 7+ in.
1 – girth is far more important
1-- 8 in
1- 6 in
1- 7 x 6 in (and offers that he is not huge yet in everyday non porn star life THAT is huge)
1- 6.5 In.

Note the size of the poster is 4.5-5 in long. So everyone one of you told him your penis was bigger or far bigger than his. Though that was pre-ED, it still indicates how small he was/is compared to all of you on this site.

I personally have observed there seems to be a large number of guys on here who state their girth is 5.5 or more, which is far thicker that the average guy.

In my previous response I referred to my wife’s “former boyfriends”. Actually, that was not true. In the 70s we briefly engaged in swinging. At a party a guy propositioned my wife. He took her to a bedroom and I followed them. What happened then was unbelievable. He drove my wife absolutely crazy. She was like another person. And I saw that he was very large.

Afterward, I asked her about it. She said she did not want to hurt me but I insisted. She said she felt like she was fucked for the first time. She added that it was not even the same thing as doing it with me and now she knew why people fucked for hours. Needless to say, I was crushed and it affected me for a very long time.

I offer this story as an example of how truly difficult it can be for small-sized guys who become traumatized by their experiences and/or comments from women.

So please be careful when helping guys deal with this small-sized issue and do not offer what your penis size was/is.

[andrew1959nj]

Guys are typically more concerned with the size of their cock than their partners are. As posted many times, a cock that can get hard when needed gets a whole lot more pussy than a limp dick of any size. I lost a good inch in length and girth with my implant, but I have had no complaints and one woman wouldn't even try to ride him before says that he fits her nicely now.

[Strutter]

Just to add another angle - vaginas have just as much variety as penis sizes. There are women to can take and anjoy 8+ inches and there are some who are so tight and shallow that micropenises are absolutely fine for them. I have been with women who say my size was barely enough and other women who I cannot penetrate, even with a lot of effort. I have encountered shallow vaginas that cannot take more than 4.5 inches. You hit cervix and no matter how much you push it only hurts you both and 1/3 stays outside. I have few friends with really big dicks and finding women who enjoy that is much harder than you think. A lot of women say NO when they see something they know will hurt. Also if you have a big dick you will miss a ton of anal.
So just find a girl that fits you, or more like you fit in her.

[rufuswd]

Biker60. I like you a lot. LOL I ended up smaller after implant. 4" pumped. I'm disappointed but wife says she's cool with it. Love that woman!

[andrew1959nj]

I am sure you guys sincerely wish to help neadsomehope. However, I think some may be unconsciously bragging and therefore not helping.
The guy says most guys here are very well-hung. Now look at the breakdown of only those who offered up details about their penis size. This does not include any reference in their profile at the bottom.
1- 7+ in.
1 – girth is far more important
1-- 8 in
1- 6 in
1- 7 x 6 in (and offers that he is not huge yet in everyday non porn star life THAT is huge)
1- 6.5 In.

Note the size of the poster is 4.5-5 in long. So everyone one of you told him your penis was bigger or far bigger than his. Though that was pre-ED, it still indicates how small he was/is compared to all of you on this site.

I personally have observed there seems to be a large number of guys on here who state their girth is 5.5 or more, which is far thicker that the average guy.

In my previous response I referred to my wife’s “former boyfriends”. Actually, that was not true. In the 70s we briefly engaged in swinging. At a party a guy propositioned my wife. He took her to a bedroom and I followed them. What happened then was unbelievable. He drove my wife absolutely crazy. She was like another person. And I saw that he was very large.

Afterward, I asked her about it. She said she did not want to hurt me but I insisted. She said she felt like she was fucked for the first time. She added that it was not even the same thing as doing it with me and now she knew why people fucked for hours. Needless to say, I was crushed and it affected me for a very long time.

I offer this story as an example of how truly difficult it can be for small-sized guys who become traumatized by their experiences and/or comments from women.

So please be careful when helping guys deal with this small-sized issue and do not offer what your penis size was/is.

With some women, size does matter and they really like it. I had a partner once who said the same thing about me and that my cock just hit places that were new to her. But that isn't the case with most women. Cock size is way more important to us than it is to women. The same can be said about all of our other physical attributes. I had a good size cock that as so problematic that I quick trying to have sex.