Should we have a thread posting pics of actual Sex with penile implant ?

[mikestap]

I believe I've heard Paul say he struggles with the search engines over the presence of dick pics on the site already. I can't see how pics of sex acts would help that or assist any of us in our needs for educational material.

[Gt1956]

I would offer up this. Those with ED know what failed sex looks & feels like. They hear from others how great sex feels. Intercourse pictures are all over the internet. If a guy needs a picture to push him over the edge to get an implant. He is ignoring all of the testimonials here about how great they work.
A further comment. It almost seems like some members think everyone is pulling a prank on them about how well implants work. To me at least. The constant fears about dating, women accepting implants and so on are just a pretext to talk themselves out of fixing a real medical condition.
Everytime you bed a new woman. You are running the risk that she'll see or feel something that she hasn't encountered before. Surprise, women even talk amongst themselves about ED. Even my teenage daughters were aware of the condition & they didn't hear about it from their parents.
Pictures don't change the narrative. I doubt that an implant in action is going to swing anybody's opinion to get surgery. More than a couple of pictures run the risk of ruining FT's reputation. In my opinion.

[Lost Sheep]

I can't imagine that pictures would help with the decision to get an implant. Most guys looking for an implant know very well what sex looks like, and implant sex is visually indistinguishable from non-implant sex.

Also, for people long time married and this can be little easier decision . But for people who are young and single they need lot of affirmation that this is not going to be different and ejaculations are not different. What’s better way that watching a video or pics ? Just my two cents

I think men are visual, they take comfort in looking at the pics and see it’s not that different. After all we are all watched porn at some point. This is strictly educational purpose and get a feeling how it feels like, not otherwise. For some men pics may be helpful.

Please do not think I (for one) am disrespecting your opinion. I do recognize that affirmation and reassurance are valuable. But I, at the time I was struggling with the decision to have the surgery, only knew I would take that step when there was nothing left to go back to. Then, I KNEW in my heart that ANY sex if the implant operation was less than optimal was superior to (or at least equal to, if the operation failed entirely) the sex I was guaranteed without the implant.

At that point, no video was necessary. Also, for me, in my heart of heart, the absence of a video or even a flood of testimonials would make no difference in my decision.

In summary, if a man needs assurance, he is not ready and no assurance that makes him ready from EXTERNAL sources is beneficial to him. His assurance needs to come from within himself or he is poorly served by his advisors.

That is my opinion and sincerely held.

Thanks for reading.

[Smetro]

Just like Maxxx, I too have had pics of my implant in action removed from FT. Is it a question of morality?
It’s 2020 for goodness sake. We’re all grown ups on here, why make a problem where none exists?

[WhiteCane]

There’s not even a slim chance in hell that my young, beautiful Asian girlfriend would ever consent to this… it’s cool if we want to be here but, there’s definitely an issue of accountability and consent presented by this idea…

[NeedleD]

I would offer up this. Those with ED know what failed sex looks & feels like. They hear from others how great sex feels. Intercourse pictures are all over the internet. If a guy needs a picture to push him over the edge to get an implant. He is ignoring all of the testimonials here about how great they work.
A further comment. It almost seems like some members think everyone is pulling a prank on them about how well implants work. To me at least. The constant fears about dating, women accepting implants and so on are just a pretext to talk themselves out of fixing a real medical condition.
Everytime you bed a new woman. You are running the risk that she'll see or feel something that she hasn't encountered before. Surprise, women even talk amongst themselves about ED. Even my teenage daughters were aware of the condition & they didn't hear about it from their parents.
Pictures don't change the narrative. I doubt that an implant in action is going to swing anybody's opinion to get surgery. More than a couple of pictures run the risk of ruining FT's reputation. In my opinion.

AGREED!

[robertm]

At one point (last year?) I ran across a link in FT that someone had posted that opened a video of him and his wife having sex. No faces. I found it helpful because I'm pre-implant and I've heard that the angle of the penis after implant is, at best 3:00. Before ED, my erections pointed straight up to 12:00 and I was curious how an implanted guy handled things at 3:00 during sex (hands-free or not, etc.). That was my interest in seeing it. But at one point there was a link to a video. Maybe it was taken down.

[RayChez]

It would be considered porn.

[thereishope]

Why don't we create a profile on Xhamster, and members can send videos there and then we just list the address here?

All the videos would be hosted there, so no problem on franktalk.

[Omaind]

Why don't we create a profile no Xhamster, and members can send videos there and then we just list the address here?

All the videos would be hosted there, so no problem on franktalk.

It’s great idea !! Make it only access for frank talk members