Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Jun 15, 2020 1:08 pm

LMCatman wrote:(edited for focus)
... orgasm or not, she is an hour of ecstasy! She laughs about how much harder I make her work than other guys! I only wish I could come with her!

Anyway.... worry, pain, failures, lack of orgasm....it was all worth it!

This rambled quite a bit, I see....oh well!

Good luck to you all and....happy fucking....!

Back in the day when I could not stay erect long enough to enable my partner to orgasm, I often wondered about making a "deal with the devil" type arrangement whereby I could stay erect , but would never have an orgasm of my own. I liked my partner's orgasms so much that I would be willing to make that bargain. But then, I wondered if the bargain might be more Faustian than wise!

As it is, my sexual response profile IS changed, but I can still orgasm much of the time and thankfully, so far, never before my partner has.

Your post reminded me.
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby Masonjames » Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:32 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
LMCatman wrote:(edited for focus)
... orgasm or not, she is an hour of ecstasy! She laughs about how much harder I make her work than other guys! I only wish I could come with her!

Anyway.... worry, pain, failures, lack of orgasm....it was all worth it!

This rambled quite a bit, I see....oh well!

Good luck to you all and....happy fucking....!

Back in the day when I could not stay erect long enough to enable my partner to orgasm, I often wondered about making a "deal with the devil" type arrangement whereby I could stay erect , but would never have an orgasm of my own. I liked my partner's orgasms so much that I would be willing to make that bargain. But then, I wondered if the bargain might be more Faustian than wise!

As it is, my sexual response profile IS changed, but I can still orgasm much of the time and thankfully, so far, never before my partner has.

Your post reminded me.


Didn't bargain with the devil but i can't cum form penetration and it's not something you want. Always had good control but this sucks
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby medhatg » Mon Jun 15, 2020 9:50 pm

Just curious: did you try to quit porn and masturbation for 3 months?

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Tue Jun 16, 2020 9:03 am

Of course not......
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby medhatg » Tue Jun 16, 2020 11:02 am

LMCatman wrote:Of course not......


here you go. Please check the resources on "PEID" and "your brain on porn".

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Wed Jun 17, 2020 8:50 am

medhatg wrote:Just curious: did you try to quit porn and masturbation for 3 months?
well no, but it could be worth a try..... now, do I have the self control to keep from playing with my second favorite toy?.....hmmmm
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby medhatg » Wed Jun 17, 2020 12:12 pm

LMCatman wrote:
medhatg wrote:Just curious: did you try to quit porn and masturbation for 3 months?
well no, but it could be worth a try..... now, do I have the self control to keep from playing with my second favorite toy?.....hmmmm


Take a 3 month hiatus. In the meanwhile, you'll have peaks and valleys, you'll experience flat line where you won't feel anything down there, as well as hyper sexuality at times. In that time, eat healthy, sleep well and exercise.

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Jun 17, 2020 5:01 pm

LMCatman wrote:
medhatg wrote:Just curious: did you try to quit porn and masturbation for 3 months?
well no, but it could be worth a try..... now, do I have the self control to keep from playing with my second favorite toy?.....hmmmm

Guy goes to his doctor. His doctor says, "I don't know how to tell you this, but you've got to stop masturbating." Guy asks, "Why?" Doc says, "So I can examine you." (John Pleshette, Actor, Director Screenwriter)
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Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Thu Jun 25, 2020 6:43 pm

OK...8 or so days into the new "no porn, no masturbating" routine, I had an orgasm with "my Ferrari". Not giant, not strong and a lot of work. But an orgasm. AND, when I rolled over, I was "satisfied", a feeling I've not had i quite a while. we'll see how it progresses.

Incidentally, quitting the porn and masturbating was surprisingly easy....

Wish me luck!!!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LookingUp » Fri Jun 26, 2020 10:36 pm

Catman, have you spooged the real deal yet? Worried about you Buddy.

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