LMCatman wrote:(edited for focus)
... orgasm or not, she is an hour of ecstasy! She laughs about how much harder I make her work than other guys! I only wish I could come with her!
Anyway.... worry, pain, failures, lack of orgasm....it was all worth it!
This rambled quite a bit, I see....oh well!
Good luck to you all and....happy fucking....!
Back in the day when I could not stay erect long enough to enable my partner to orgasm, I often wondered about making a "deal with the devil" type arrangement whereby I could stay erect , but would never have an orgasm of my own. I liked my partner's orgasms so much that I would be willing to make that bargain. But then, I wondered if the bargain might be more Faustian than wise!
As it is, my sexual response profile IS changed, but I can still orgasm much of the time and thankfully, so far, never before my partner has.
Your post reminded me.