Thank you trimix.

[slipnslider]

43 years old, just out of a long term relationship, and just starting to date again.

The last time I was single, ED made me hesitant and insecure, afraid of the embarrassment of ED incidents and of disappointing the women who hoped to have sex with me. Now, armed with trimix and having done a few test injections, I feel much more confident. It does ache a lot for me, but I think I can tolerate it.

I went on my first date last week and we ended up back at my home. I could tell things were probably going to get physical so I injected in the bathroom, which was quick and easy. I didn't have the 3-5 minutes to hang out in there and apply pressure to the injection site, but I did what I could.

We ended up fooling around on the couch and although we didn't have sex, she could feel my hard penis through my clothes. She doesn't like having sex on a first date which I can respect, so we ended up just making out and dry humping like teenagers. She's eager for a second date soon.

I'm fairly sure without trimix I wouldn't have been hard, would have been anxious and stressed out, and she might not be interested in seeing me again. Plus when the time for sex comes, I can't imagine being able to stay erect while wearing a condom without support from trimix.

The problems I foresee in the future are:

1. Being at someone else's home, having to smuggle in my syringe, and having her wonder what's taking so long in the bathroom and why I always go in there right before sex. I have a container that holds a loaded syringe, but it's not tiny, and will be awkward to keep in my pocket the entire evening.

2. Trimix eventually failing to work either from tolerance or further degrading of my ED.

3. Eventually telling a partner about it and having it be a deal breaker.

4. Taking trips with a woman will require more planning in terms of all the supplies trimix requires and keeping it cool.

But for now, I'm happy. Pills were a little easier to incorporate into the single dating life but they stopped working for me and had bad side effects. This solution makes me feel much more confident.

[ftwabeck3533]

If the person you are dating is your companion for more reasons than sex, I'd get to #3 on your list quickly. Most women don't value sex as much as us guys (as in this news may not be a big deal to her), and I think you need to find out how much compassion she possesses. If injecting is a deal-breaker, so be it, and move on to the next one. Life offers endless possibilities -- make them work out in your favor.

[slipnslider]

If the person you are dating is your companion for more reasons than sex, I'd get to #3 on your list quickly. Most women don't value sex as much as us guys (as in this news may not be a big deal to her), and I think you need to find out how much compassion she possesses. If injecting is a deal-breaker, so be it, and move on to the next one. Life offers endless possibilities -- make them work out in your favor.

Thanks for the advice. Yes I don't plan on keeping it a secret for long once it looks like a real relationship is possible. I'd just like to show her I can please her and thrill her FIRST, then tell her how and why a little later, when it's less likely to scare her off.

[flyingduck2019]

Ditto to all the aforementioned advice. I don't know what you are using to transport your syringes but a plain ole toothbrush holder you can get at Walmart for $.99 will hold at least two and maybe 3 syringes and you can carry it in your front pocket.

Maybe I am wrong but I think telling your date/partner or whatever right up front about your ED is the best policy. Let's face it, hundreds of thousands of men have it. Unless the woman is a very young bimbo they most probably have heard, read or seen something about ED. This is the electronic age and my 10 year old great granddaughter can find stuff on her tablet that amazes me. If the woman is worth her salt she will understand your condition, might even ask you to tell her more and like to participate in the "getting it ready for action" routine. Just my two cents worth.

[slipnslider]

Ditto to all the aforementioned advice. I don't know what you are using to transport your syringes but a plain ole toothbrush holder you can get at Walmart for $.99 will hold at least two and maybe 3 syringes and you can carry it in your front pocket.

Maybe I am wrong but I think telling your date/partner or whatever right up front about your ED is the best policy. Let's face it, hundreds of thousands of men have it. Unless the woman is a very young bimbo they most probably have heard, read or seen something about ED. This is the electronic age and my 10 year old great granddaughter can find stuff on her tablet that amazes me. If the woman is worth her salt she will understand your condition, might even ask you to tell her more and like to participate in the "getting it ready for action" routine. Just my two cents worth.

I think the syringe case I have is probably smaller and quieter (less rattling) than a toothbrush case, but thanks for the tip.

I plan on being up front about it AFTER we have sex and she sees that I can please her. I think the odds of her sticking around are better at that point.

[slipnslider]

UPDATE -

We did end up having sex last night.

I went in the bathroom beforehand and injected, but NOTHING happened. I thought my technique was correct, but NO reaction. After a half an hour I knew something was wrong and did another injection. (my dose is very small, just 4 units of 20/1/30 mix.)

This time I felt it working, made a move, and we ended up having pretty good sex. She orgasmed, and then I did. In the afterglow I told her about my history with ED and said that I use medications to solve the issue. I didn't specify WHAT medication, because I still think injections sound like a much bigger deal than pills and might have been more offputting to her. She was very understanding and sympathetic and said that it made her feel closer to me because I chose to trust her with this embarassing info.

Today I examined my used syringes from last night and realized that the first injection syringe still had the trimix in it! I THOUGHT I pressed the plunger down enough, but I guess my cheap syringes suck and require a lot of pressure. Plus with a small dose of 4 units, the plunger barely moves when you press it down anyway, so it was easy to THINK I'd pressed it enough when I actually hadn't. Lesson learned. I was glad I had prepped a backup 2nd syringe already filled and ready. That saved the day.

I'm glad I discovered this forum and made the decision to move forward with this treatment.

[bldoink]

I find that if the plunger is difficult to depress I'm in the wrong spot. I then go a little deeper or shallower to resolve it. First I pull back on the plunger a tiny bit. If it's also difficult to pull the plunger back then you're definitely in the wrong place. Also sometimes, if it's just a stubborn plunger, pulling back on the plunger a smidge often frees it up allowing you to depress.

For me this is fairly common issue but is always easily resolved by changing depth slightly. I never just press the plunger harder when depressing the plunger is difficult. That's a sure way to have a bad injection.

Good luck.

[slipnslider]

ANOTHER UPDATE -

I've used 3 units of 20/1/30 mix several times now with my new lady. Works very well, but there is considerable ache that reduces the enjoyment, and afterwards I'm left wondering if it will go down while I sleep or if I should take a sudafed and monitor it closely. Plus the afterwards ache is considerable too.

Last night I tried just 2 units and it worked a little better. Took a little longer to get hard, but still got hard enough for sex, didn't ache quite as much, and went down more quickly afterward. I'm very pleased that such a small dose works so well for me.

It seemed to have lingering effects too, as we were able to have sex again this morning without any injection. She could tell I wasn't as hard, but we were still able to do the deed.

I'm still curious about trying bimix to see if that would be a totally pain-free alternative, but I've got 9 tiny bottles of this trimix to use before I consider what the next step will be.

[Tigercreek]

slipinslider, I hope you post your results with bimix if you try it..I'm just using a small dose of trimix also..no pain, but with only 4 units of trimix, I need an epi injection to get back to flaccid . going to see a new uro in a few weeks and am going to ask about that, but 'user experience' is always welcome..

[slipnslider]

slipinslider, I hope you post your results with bimix if you try it..I'm just using a small dose of trimix also..no pain, but with only 4 units of trimix, I need an epi injection to get back to flaccid . going to see a new uro in a few weeks and am going to ask about that, but 'user experience' is always welcome..

Have you tried just using 2 units instead of 4?