Advanced sex techniques for bionics -- share your expertise

[Whodat]

Invading your discussion...but being a successful injection guy ...thought I may comment. There is a real estate office full of women next to my favorite watering hole. Once a week they gather to half price wine and discuss business but after a few glasses of wine the conversation always leads to sex talk. A few of us guys join in to a gathering of usually 6 to 12 women. The large majority and almost all agree that a man with a good tongue is the best sex. They agree on getting one or two orgasms then they want dick! Just my two cents.

[Captain1117]

Invading your discussion...but being a successful injection guy ...thought I may comment. There is a real estate office full of women next to my favorite watering hole. Once a week they gather to half price wine and discuss business but after a few glasses of wine the conversation always leads to sex talk. A few of us guys join in to a gathering of usually 6 to 12 women. The large majority and almost all agree that a man with a good tongue is the best sex. They agree on getting one or two orgasms then they want dick! Just my two cents.

What the females saying are quite correct..since they have learnt that a man who knows what to do with his tongue and fingers and possibly some toys can easily give them one/two orgasms since tongue and fingers never experience ED or PE issues. To be honest its kind of my crutch now...though it robs a man of satisfaction.

As the average of men lasting PIV is 6 minutes and as we know its a challenge to stimulate the clitoris with penis( without the special techniques this post discusses)..for most average males(ED or not)..its extremely rare to be able to stimulate a female to orgasm from PIV alone.

The optimum will be one orgasm to warm things up before penetration. With an implant and the techniques mentioned here ..two or three orgasms from the implant. Of course it has to combined with dominant male frame and role plays and dirty talk. Thats the type of experience that women will keep gushing about.

[TANGERINE]

Thanks everyone , really great comments !

Here are a few thoughts of mine

Capatin1117 states:
What the females saying are quite correct..since they have learnt that a man who knows what to do with his tongue and fingers and possibly some toys can easily give them one/two orgasms since tongue and fingers never experience ED or PE issues.

Yep, fingers and tongue can last for hours, and the man concentrates on what is making the woman happpy without fear of premature ejaculation or losing the erection (since, as captain states, women know that fingers and tongue do not fail them and go soft). Enter the implanted male---for me, I now look at my penis as having the reliability of my fingers, so I can use it in a way that might be an orgasm machine (thus my interest in this whole thread). Also, the bionic man can have penis in vagina sex for as long as she and he want (definitely 20 minutes) so, there is enough time in that yummy vagina to get things done. I have in the past thought that I could advertise on tinder or when talking to a women in a bar regarding my bedroom prowess as;
"three words describe me as a lover in the bedroom:
'relaxed, fun, and long lasting' "
For me, skillfully commanding those three attributes happens easily thanks to the 100% reliability of the bionic implant.
The capability to confidently guarantee those three, I presume, would be a huge turn-on to a prospective bed partner.

Captain1117 also states
I was thinking using a vibrating cock ring(those with a battery powered bullet on top )..the vibrating bullet would stimulate the clit strongly while the motion of the penis (as illustrated) adds to the pressure and pleasure.

My opinion here is negative. The vibrating cock ring will only work if the vibrator can be held, consistently, on the correct part of the clit. The moment it is pulled off the clit (even rotated) the woman will get pissed off and frustrated; so I doubt that this can work to bring a woman to orgasm. HOWEVER, as captain recognizes there is a technique that we can be very good at:

STAYING IN WITH FULL PENETRATION with pressure on the clit

As the OMGyes website explains, here are some thoughts by women regarding full penetration including some bedroom tips regarding how to best do sustained penetration:

Feel the Seal
The surefire way to tell whether you’re staying in is whether there is ever any air between the clit area and the area just above the penetrating penis, hand, or toy.

Slow Penetration During Orgasm
While the actual orgasm is happening, the research shows 24% like the toy/finger/penis staying completely still. 35% like slight movement, but not in and out. 38% like very slight in and out movement. Try them all!


Temptation to Thrust
For partners who are used to the in-out motion, staying-in can take a bit of getting used to and it can be really tempting to quit and resort to thrusting. A good way to start out is to agree to do a 10 minute experiment—and to actually set a timer. This can make it easier for some to give it a chance and experiment around with it—which means much higher likelihood of finding ways it feels amazing.

source: OMGyes website "the science of women's pleasure"

[Captain1117]

Thanks everyone , really great comments !

Here are a few thoughts of mine

Capatin1117 states:
What the females saying are quite correct..since they have learnt that a man who knows what to do with his tongue and fingers and possibly some toys can easily give them one/two orgasms since tongue and fingers never experience ED or PE issues.

Yep, fingers and tongue can last for hours, and the man concentrates on what is making the woman happpy without fear of premature ejaculation or losing the erection (since, as captain states, women know that fingers and tongue do not fail them and go soft). Enter the implanted male---for me, I now look at my penis as having the reliability of my fingers, so I can use it in a way that might be an orgasm machine (thus my interest in this whole thread). Also, the bionic man can have penis in vagina sex for as long as she and he want (definitely 20 minutes) so, there is enough time in that yummy vagina to get things done. I have in the past thought that I could advertise on tinder or when talking to a women in a bar regarding my bedroom prowess as;
"three words describe me as a lover in the bedroom:
'relaxed, fun, and long lasting' "
For me, skillfully commanding those three attributes happens easily thanks to the 100% reliability of the bionic implant.
The capability to confidently guarantee those three, I presume, would be a huge turn-on to a prospective bed partner.

Captain1117 also states
I was thinking using a vibrating cock ring(those with a battery powered bullet on top )..the vibrating bullet would stimulate the clit strongly while the motion of the penis (as illustrated) adds to the pressure and pleasure.

My opinion here is negative. The vibrating cock ring will only work if the vibrator can be held, consistently, on the correct part of the clit. The moment it is pulled off the clit (even rotated) the woman will get pissed off and frustrated; so I doubt that this can work to bring a woman to orgasm. HOWEVER, as captain recognizes there is a technique that we can be very good at:

STAYING IN WITH FULL PENETRATION with pressure on the clit

As the OMGyes website explains, here are some thoughts by women regarding full penetration including some bedroom tips regarding how to best do sustained penetration:

Feel the Seal
The surefire way to tell whether you’re staying in is whether there is ever any air between the clit area and the area just above the penetrating penis, hand, or toy.

Slow Penetration During Orgasm
While the actual orgasm is happening, the research shows 24% like the toy/finger/penis staying completely still. 35% like slight movement, but not in and out. 38% like very slight in and out movement. Try them all!


Temptation to Thrust
For partners who are used to the in-out motion, staying-in can take a bit of getting used to and it can be really tempting to quit and resort to thrusting. A good way to start out is to agree to do a 10 minute experiment—and to actually set a timer. This can make it easier for some to give it a chance and experiment around with it—which means much higher likelihood of finding ways it feels amazing.

source: OMGyes website "the science of women's pleasure"

Thanks Tangerine..

Your inputs help more that a few single men who are hopeful of getting an implant and become confident to give and receive the pleasure we have been missing.

You and I seem to be thinking on similar lines.
I hope once I am able to use my implant I can share real life experience.

The three points mentioned from OMG are pretty accurate ..I am not sure if the implant itself can achieve orgasm using these three.

I was envisioning a combination of 1. Clitoral stimulation with the upward motion alternating with no thrust( hold the vibrating bullet on the clit with some pressure) for extended time while kissing and stimulating her other parts.

2. Hitting the G spot with the tip of the penis( I am imagining due to stiffness of the implant the vibration would transmit to the tip of the penis too.

[Waynetho]

2. Hitting the G spot with the tip of the penis( I am imagining due to stiffness of the implant the vibration would transmit to the tip of the penis too.

When my wife and I recently made love, I incorporated my massage wand into the mix. She said she prefers me to pump to HARD so I was maybe 95% or more. While inserted, staying still and she was grinding, I pressed the massager to the side of my penis and she went wild. Incidentally, that was the day that in a session about 20 minutes later, I had a PIV orgasm for the first time in about 25 years. Woo hoo!

[Captain1117]

2. Hitting the G spot with the tip of the penis( I am imagining due to stiffness of the implant the vibration would transmit to the tip of the penis too.

When my wife and I recently made love, I incorporated my massage wand into the mix. She said she prefers me to pump to HARD so I was maybe 95% or more. While inserted, staying still and she was grinding, I pressed the massager to the side of my penis and she went wild. Incidentally, that was the day that in a session about 20 minutes later, I had a PIV orgasm for the first time in about 25 years. Woo hoo!

Glad to learn about your success and satisfaction with the implant.
Do you mind sharing what massager and how did you place it.

[Waynetho]

2. Hitting the G spot with the tip of the penis( I am imagining due to stiffness of the implant the vibration would transmit to the tip of the penis too.

When my wife and I recently made love, I incorporated my massage wand into the mix. She said she prefers me to pump to HARD so I was maybe 95% or more. While inserted, staying still and she was grinding, I pressed the massager to the side of my penis and she went wild. Incidentally, that was the day that in a session about 20 minutes later, I had a PIV orgasm for the first time in about 25 years. Woo hoo!

Glad to learn about your success and satisfaction with the implant.
Do you mind sharing what massager and how did you place it.

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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07S5K9Y92


She was on her right side, left leg up, I was straddling her right leg and I placed the massager against the right side of my penis which would mean the opposite side from where her clitoris was. Pressing there with the massage wand pressed my shaft into her clitoris more.

[Captain1117]

When my wife and I recently made love, I incorporated my massage wand into the mix. She said she prefers me to pump to HARD so I was maybe 95% or more. While inserted, staying still and she was grinding, I pressed the massager to the side of my penis and she went wild. Incidentally, that was the day that in a session about 20 minutes later, I had a PIV orgasm for the first time in about 25 years. Woo hoo!

Glad to learn about your success and satisfaction with the implant.
Do you mind sharing what massager and how did you place it.

wand.png
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07S5K9Y92


She was on her right side, left leg up, I was straddling her right leg and I placed the massager against the right side of my penis which would mean the opposite side from where her clitoris was. Pressing there with the massage wand pressed my shaft into her clitoris more.

Thanks. great info sharing..

[Charlie2019]

This sounds more like OCD than intercourse. Do you use some kind of counter to keep track?

[KenJ1947]

thank you everyone for some of the really helpful remarks -- especially the one abut the "peter flogging" (I still chuckle about that).

With the implant, we are free to savor sex and take time with it. Thrusting techniques now have the luxury of being "more variable and more interesting" than the usual "bang bang bang bang". There is an excellent video by the australian sex therapist, Jacqueline Hellyer, who demonstrates effective thrusting techniques from the female perspective.

In the video, the following thrusting techniques are explained -- and to help you all remember, the moves are named after memorable scenes:

1) Shallow thrusts (several) and then deep one (i.e. , like the “nines” described earlier in this thread), but consider 5 shallow to one deep for a prolonged time
2) “the general” Like a revolutionary war general splitting the ranks to the left, and to the right, and up and down
3) “the wild horse in water” Plunge along like a wild horse galloping through a river
4) “the seagull” in and out in a more gentle smoother slower rhythmic fashion like a seagull flying over the waves
5) “the sparrow” many little superficial jabs, and then big plunge, then little jabs
6) “the stone” a slow penetration like a stone slowly sinking in a pond
7) “the snake down the hole” a slow penetration with wiggling motion as descend deeper into a hole
8) “the mouse” fast deep penetration, then stay in and hide for a while, wiggle subtlety
9) “the eagle attack” penetrate from a height and rams all the way in fast.
10 “the sail boat in a storm” a bucking sailboat in a large wave storm

Please write to this thread and let me know what thrusting technique is enjoyed by your partner. The beauty of am implant, is that it almost makes your dick just like a Dildo -- able to do anything for as long as needed. (maybe even peel a TANGERINE with it -- though I haven't figured that one out yet)

REFERENCE: Jacqueline Hellyer, "Thrusting Techniques - It's All About Speed, Depth, and Rhythm "
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBaprHhD6CA

In my pre-ED days, I was blessed with great stamina and think I employed all the above. My wife enjoyed all the slow, shallow thrusting combined with deep thrusting. At times after some more prolonged shallow thrusting, she would pull on my ass cheeks to signal deeper, faster thrusting. She and I loved it both ways. Even with a non-bionic dick, we could go for an hour or so. I'm hoping a bionic dick will soon enable it again.