Many of you may have read about my challenges with getting "Tab A" into "Slot A" (penetration) due to a combination of my length (5-ish), wife's weight and mobility issues and other reasons. I stated in previous posts that we had found that the best position was a scissor-like configuration.
I discovered this week that I could have my wife lay back on the edge of the foot my adjustable bed and then raise the feet area of the bed to a perfect standing alignment for me.
On this past Monday night my wife and I had an approximately two hour session with slow deep fucks, muff-dives and licking all over. I think she had more orgasms than she could count and I alternated between penetrating and burying my face so many times I can't even count. One thing she found that drives her right up the wall, and she said she's never had before is a hard suck on her clit (including the erectile tissues under the skin).
I found that I have plenty of penetration by just raising her legs while the bed is aligned to my groin. This makes me feel like an absolute porn star in control of my performance. Unfortunately for me though, her legs were hurting so much the next day from being up that much that she skipped yesterday and I'm hoping she will be up for it again tonight...
If anyone else reading this has an adjustable bed, you might try this as well because you'd be surprised how well things line up when the foot of the bed is raised up 8-12 inches (my bed is tall anyway).
Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0
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Cool. Glad you found a good position,
Try letting her rest her legs on your shoulders or in the crooks of your arms. That may help with the legs tiring out.
There is a dresser at the foot of the bed at my girlfriend's house and close enough that she can put her feet on the edge of the dresser (either with her on her back or prone, for "doggie" style sex). This is GREAT for stabilizing her and letting us maintain coitus vigorously.
For those who do not have an adjustable bed, putting blocks under the bed's feet can raise the entire bed to the right height (and give you more storage under the bed, as well). If the bed is too high, rolled-up throw rungs for you to stand on can adjust your height.
You can also switch positions. You lay back at the edge/foot of the bed and let her back up onto you. Her legs may get tired, but well worth it!
Try letting her rest her legs on your shoulders or in the crooks of your arms. That may help with the legs tiring out.
There is a dresser at the foot of the bed at my girlfriend's house and close enough that she can put her feet on the edge of the dresser (either with her on her back or prone, for "doggie" style sex). This is GREAT for stabilizing her and letting us maintain coitus vigorously.
For those who do not have an adjustable bed, putting blocks under the bed's feet can raise the entire bed to the right height (and give you more storage under the bed, as well). If the bed is too high, rolled-up throw rungs for you to stand on can adjust your height.
You can also switch positions. You lay back at the edge/foot of the bed and let her back up onto you. Her legs may get tired, but well worth it!
Lost Sheep
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Re: Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
Get a swing?
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Re: Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
Waynetho wrote:Many of you may have read about my challenges with getting "Tab A" into "Slot A" (penetration) due to a combination of my length (5-ish), wife's weight and mobility issues and other reasons. I stated in previous posts that we had found that the best position was a scissor-like configuration.
I discovered this week that I could have my wife lay back on the edge of the foot my adjustable bed and then raise the feet area of the bed to a perfect standing alignment for me.
On this past Monday night my wife and I had an approximately two hour session with slow deep fucks, muff-dives and licking all over. I think she had more orgasms than she could count and I alternated between penetrating and burying my face so many times I can't even count. One thing she found that drives her right up the wall, and she said she's never had before is a hard suck on her clit (including the erectile tissues under the skin).
I found that I have plenty of penetration by just raising her legs while the bed is aligned to my groin. This makes me feel like an absolute porn star in control of my performance. Unfortunately for me though, her legs were hurting so much the next day from being up that much that she skipped yesterday and I'm hoping she will be up for it again tonight...
If anyone else reading this has an adjustable bed, you might try this as well because you'd be surprised how well things line up when the foot of the bed is raised up 8-12 inches (my bed is tall anyway).
Your welcome.
Re: Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
Lost Sheep wrote:Cool. Glad you found a good position,
Try letting her rest her legs on your shoulders or in the crooks of your arms. That may help with the legs tiring out.
There is a dresser at the foot of the bed at my girlfriend's house and close enough that she can put her feet on the edge of the dresser (either with her on her back or prone, for "doggie" style sex). This is GREAT for stabilizing her and letting us maintain coitus vigorously.
For those who do not have an adjustable bed, putting blocks under the bed's feet can raise the entire bed to the right height (and give you more storage under the bed, as well). If the bed is too high, rolled-up throw rungs for you to stand on can adjust your height.
You can also switch positions. You lay back at the edge/foot of the bed and let her back up onto you. Her legs may get tired, but well worth it!
Yup, 100% agree.
Re: Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
My best bed is in my RV. The door way to the bed is only 12 inches from the foot of the bed. She lays on the bed, ass near the edge of the bed and puts her feet flat on the a wall. Next best thing to Gyn. exam table
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20
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WOW! What a great idea. I have an adjustable bed, never thought of doing that. Just started cycling after surgery so looking forward to my new PORN STAR status.
Thanks!
Thanks!
51, Single, NJ/NYC - Colon Cancer at 36, ED issues since, low T. Was on Viagra, Levitra and Cialis for years, TriMix injections 6 months. Bad VL. Implanted with AMS700 LGX MS 6/15/20
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Things have been awesome since we discovered the foot of my adjustable bed works so well...
In the past week through last night, We've had sessions ranging from 45 minutes to 2 hours, on Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. She had an upset stomach on Tuesday otherwise it would've been 6-for-6!
I also came out to her and the world as BI on Sunday 8/2 and emotionally I'm a changed man, which she sees in me - anger issues near all time lows. Libido through the roof, always showing her attention (which I should've done all along). I won't leave her alone and I set her off with just a deep kiss (which I do everytime I walk past her!)
Amazing! Still though, only had one PIV orgasm so far but still looking forward to becoming a regular occurrance...
In the past week through last night, We've had sessions ranging from 45 minutes to 2 hours, on Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday and Wednesday. She had an upset stomach on Tuesday otherwise it would've been 6-for-6!
I also came out to her and the world as BI on Sunday 8/2 and emotionally I'm a changed man, which she sees in me - anger issues near all time lows. Libido through the roof, always showing her attention (which I should've done all along). I won't leave her alone and I set her off with just a deep kiss (which I do everytime I walk past her!)
Amazing! Still though, only had one PIV orgasm so far but still looking forward to becoming a regular occurrance...
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0
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Re: Beginning to feel like a PORN STAR Stud
Waynetho wrote:(edited for focus)
I also came out to her and the world as BI on Sunday 8/2 and emotionally I'm a changed man, which she sees in me - anger issues near all time lows. Libido through the roof, always showing her attention (which I should've done all along). I won't leave her alone and I set her off with just a deep kiss (which I do everytime I walk past her!)
Congratulations on sharing your full sexuality with your wife. Secrets are crippling to relationships. Keeping them drains so much energy and denying them closes so many doors to potential joyous activities.
What some see as peccadilloes (large or small), I see as openings to increase the spectrum of a relationship. Not just sexually, either.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
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