Can sex still be sexy with an implant?

[Masonjames]

We used to enjoy sex while I would sit upright on a chair and my wife would face me while straddling me with her feet on the floor. With my implant, though, my dick actually retracts into my body when I sit and my length is drastically reduced. Like half. It makes for what I judge to be inadequate penetration and difficulty avoiding coming out of (or otherwise staying properly aligned with) my wife’s vagina.

Our similar position on the sofa is also impacted.

I have no RTEs, just the implant.
Does anyone else have a similar experience with your implant?

Don't have my implant yet but my dick has always retracted like that when I sit. I just thought it was the way I was built. For me the implant would be acting normally.
Did you lose length from the implant surgery?

[Waynetho]

We used to enjoy sex while I would sit upright on a chair and my wife would face me while straddling me with her feet on the floor. With my implant, though, my dick actually retracts into my body when I sit and my length is drastically reduced. Like half. It makes for what I judge to be inadequate penetration and difficulty avoiding coming out of (or otherwise staying properly aligned with) my wife’s vagina.

Our similar position on the sofa is also impacted.

I have no RTEs, just the implant.
Does anyone else have a similar experience with your implant?

Mike, I am 5.5" bone-pressed or about 5" from my fat pad. When I sit down while inflated, my fat pad rises to the point where I have about 2.5-3" of visible dick. I think this is common, and to a degree may be common in many men regardless of implant, especially if they have a prominent fat pad or body fat percentage. I don't think the penis is retracting into your body but rather your skin and fat is repositioning around it to give that appearance. You're still sporting the same length from the pubic bone you have before, it's just that there is more tissue between the bone and the surface with the fat and such being resituated due to the seated position.

[Agfa13]

I agree! I thought I was 'whoa' while standing, but when I sit, its 'meh'

[Gt1956]

I hate to be all shitty but when I think of using an implant for sex I think of a long, drawn out medical process. Your girl can't just throw you against the bed and rip off your clothes and start sucking you... you have to go through the process. Men, how do you still keep sex sexy even with having a mechanical device that requires time to be inflated? I want to feel hot :/

Lets put it into perspective. At 20 & having had a few years of ED by your own words. Two things. I'm betting that it has been a long time since you was thrown against the wall & successfully jumped. The only thing that matters is that if that does happen, you can take care of business. Even if it takes a minute or maybe a bit longer. Heck, it takes women a minute to get wet.
On the other hand. How long would pills or shots take you to get hard? Even a natural erection isn't instatanious.
A floppy dicks loses all races. The best horse that you can bring to this race is an implant. Bring anything else & you might be left sitting in the bleachers. Again, an old man's opinion.

[Gt1956]

I hate to be all shitty but when I think of using an implant for sex I think of a long, drawn out medical process. Your girl can't just throw you against the bed and rip off your clothes and start sucking you... you have to go through the process. Men, how do you still keep sex sexy even with having a mechanical device that requires time to be inflated? I want to feel hot :/

Lets put it into perspective. At 20 & having had a few years of ED by your own words. Two things. I'm betting that it has been a long time since you was thrown against the wall & successfully jumped. The only thing that matters is that if that does happen, you can take care of business. Even if it takes a minute or maybe a bit longer. Heck, it takes women a minute to get wet.
On the other hand. How long would pills or shots take you to get hard? Even a natural erection isn't instatanious.
A floppy dicks loses all races. The best horse that you can bring to this race is an implant. Bring anything else & you might be left sitting in the bleachers. Again, an old man's opinion.

Great, I replied to a 2 year old post by a 20 year old.

[Agfa13]

Yes, you may have, but think of it this way. When the 20 y/o looks back, when he gets the implant, he will really think of himself as an ass for thinking this way, when an implant is a whole other realm.

[Gt1956]

Yes, you may have, but think of it this way. When the 20 y/o looks back, when he gets the implant, he will really think of himself as an ass for thinking this way, when an implant is a whole other realm.

I appreciate your perspective. But he hasn't been on the forum since December of 2018.
Some of these young members posts almost sound like bait. Not to say that they are but jeez. Seems like every piece of advice that they receive gets thrown away with a slender "what if" reply. Much like how do you hide/pump your implant? What if a girl wants to play with your nuts? Plenty of girls can/will stop you from doing something that they don't want done. As a guy, you have the same right. Sorry guys, it just baffles me.
Btw, I've never had a non sexy erection. I'm willing to try one. I bet that I can make it into sexy times.

[Agfa13]

True, but even if it is click bait, it has the effect of others putting in their input. Look how many responses! It will get people thinking. I don't think it is bad only because he does raise a point. How OFTEN will you really have one of these scenarios where you throw your partner up on the counter or up against the wall to fuck? Even if you do get quite a lot, there is still the foreplay, even if it is short-lived. Now, if you are hard even before the encounter, that tells me this was planned:).

[Baseballfan11]

Yes, you may have, but think of it this way. When the 20 y/o looks back, when he gets the implant, he will really think of himself as an ass for thinking this way, when an implant is a whole other realm.

I appreciate your perspective. But he hasn't been on the forum since December of 2018.
Some of these young members posts almost sound like bait. Not to say that they are but jeez. Seems like every piece of advice that they receive gets thrown away with a slender "what if" reply. Much like how do you hide/pump your implant? What if a girl wants to play with your nuts? Plenty of girls can/will stop you from doing something that they don't want done. As a guy, you have the same right. Sorry guys, it just baffles me.
Btw, I've never had a non sexy erection. I'm willing to try one. I bet that I can make it into sexy times.

I’m back on here man. Hope all is well. No, my issue has not seen any improvement lol. Glad to see there are still people who care

[Lost Sheep]

I’m back on here man. Hope all is well. No, my issue has not seen any improvement lol. Glad to see there are still people who care

Welcome back. My first response (way back when) did not recognize that you are not implanted.

Satisfying your woman (or partner of any sex) starts and ends with your attitude. The erect penis is just one tool in (her) box.

If a penis does not do the trick, you have other tools. If hands do not suffice, tongue. If tongue is not your style, tools. Whatever will work. If she is willing to have sex with you coitally, she is likely to want to cooperate in any way that helps her orgasm - as long as she sees you are desiring HER satisfaction. At your ages, she is likely to have had a lover or two NOT considerate of her feelings and will appreciate you, who is (I presume).

Communication is key.

Women are incredibly supportive if they feel desired, trusted, respected and safe. If she feels desired only for YOUR pleasure, she will not feel respected and if you hide facts about your own sexual conditions, she will detect this and not feel trusted.

Good luck and happy (early ) birthday, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

edited to add: Hint: If you want to massage between her legs....start at her feet and work your way up...slowly.