Where do I start

[Denpopper]

Hi Guy's
I just got my ams 700 ms series pump implanted on Sept 3th and am in the recovery
stage right now. The process went very well and I have a positive feeling moving forward.
It's pretty cool to feel to have something in my pants that's stiffer then anything in years.
Considering it is not pumped up yet I sense good things are to come, I've waited around
16 years and really wished I know about this eariler in life. I'm lucky @ 58yrd old to have
this installed as ED hit me around 42yrs old. My wife and I are still together and are more
like roommates now a days. Sadly when I had the implant done I did'nt even mention it and
had a friend drive me to the appointment. I'm going to mention the surprise to her once I
get the blessing from the doctor... Anyone have any idea how in the hell to start enjoy sex
with there spouse? God it's scary in a way to think about this as failure was there for so many
year's. zi'm trying to say positive but am so lost in other way's ....thanks for the support..

[Hounds68]

Wow, that really will be a surprise!

Are you not at home for the recovery period?

I would not be so concerned about how to start an intimate sexual relationship when she was not part of this process, but rather, consider exploring, with a professional therapist, why you chose not to include her throughout all of the planning and subsequent surgery and ask why she would want to have sex with you now.