How Do I Increase Sexual Sensation?

[kinggg]

Hi guys.. Do you know how to increase sexual sensation? Through medication or something else?

[brickbat]

Frist place to start if you have not done so is your nipples. It aint gay nor a waste of time. Nipples are connected to the prostate and bro when you get a swollen and aroused prostate, your whole body can become electric.

We men have many erogenous zones and your or a partner working those erogenous zones with deep meditative relaxation on your part plus stimulation and meditative mental focus can turn your body into an electric eel.

There is more to being a man than the old point and shoot we learned so quickly as boys.

[GoodWood]

I don’t know of a silver bullet that works for everyone.

Being relaxed, well rested, and free of stress is probably a good place to start. Lots of little things can make a difference for me. Clean sheets, the right music, gentle lighting, a comfortable position. Feeling rested, relaxed, not hungry or stuffed, showered. That all helps.

Somethings feel really great to me. The right kind and amount of lube feels great. I’ve discovered that an aneros anal toy slipped in feels great. I don’t want it moving around, but it’s fairly small and seems to press some pleasurable spots. I wish I could echo the previous post about nipples but mine aren’t wired to anything. I’ve tried. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. Everyone is different and you’ll have to figure out what works for you.

Regarding meds: I’ve heard some people mention that Wellbutrin helped with libido but I’m wary of messing with my brain chemistry unless it is necessary. I also know some people swear by a little reefer. Not my thing but if you are open to it you could give that a try.

[kinggg]

The right kind and amount of lube feels great. I’ve discovered that an aneros anal toy slipped in feels great. I don’t want it moving around, but it’s fairly small and seems to press some pleasurable spots.
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Whoaaa hold on.. not into that shit. Normal and straight as a needle here.

[GoodWood]

The right kind and amount of lube feels great. I’ve discovered that an aneros anal toy slipped in feels great. I don’t want it moving around, but it’s fairly small and seems to press some pleasurable spots.
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Whoaaa hold on.. not into that shit. Normal and straight as a needle here.

Don’t panic. No one is forcing you to do anything.

[Flavio]

I would say that apomorphine made my sexual experience more 'intense' but I'm not sure if it's what you're looking for. Check out my thread on apomorphine sublibgual tablets.

[Simbarn]

The right kind and amount of lube feels great. I’ve discovered that an aneros anal toy slipped in feels great. I don’t want it moving around, but it’s fairly small and seems to press some pleasurable spots.
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Whoaaa hold on.. not into that shit. Normal and straight as a needle here.

Quite a lot of straight men enjoy anal stimulation as ALL men have a gspot there, straight or gay.
Saying that you are "normal' because you are straight is an absolute insult to us gay men. You will win no friends here with comments like that.

[dtwarren1942]

An Aneros type prostate massager massages your prostate which stimulates your sexual desire. You can do it yourself or, if you feel uncomfortable doing it yourself, you can have your partner do it to you to be included in your foreplay.

In the beginning of my ED, I found prostate stimulation very helpful in increasing my libido.

[Lost Sheep]

First of all, anything that feels good can be used to increase sexual sensation. Synapses get trained to respond to stimuli. Sensual can become sexual if we want it to. Or not if we don't. Practice helps.

Wow, what a can of worms we have opened here.

Despite Simbarn's taking offense of your equating "Normal" and "Straight" as being antithetical to appreciating alternative erogenous zones in your body, we, by our presence here in FrankTalk implicitly accept (or at least tolerate) each others' predelictions, which includes prejudices. This is my opinion. Please tolerate it.

I don't expect you, kinggg, intended to insult any gay or bisexual men here. But it came across that way to Simbarn, I think.

Having said that, I refer you to GoodWood's mention that his nipples have none of the stimulatiing quality that many women (and men, too) enjoy. Mine do not either, but my girlfriend likes playing with them and I have, over time begun to feel some arousal there - due to her attentions and her enjoyment of them. I think the synapses in my brain are becoming "trained" to respond with arousal to her attentions. As I said in the beginning, anything that feels good can be used to increase sexual sensation. Which is what you asked in the first place.

So, my advice is not to reject any idea off-hand but to consider the suggestions you requested and choose what you think might work. And perhaps do a little investigation into what you believe will not work for you. You might learn some surprising things.

There is quite a bit of evidence in legitimate medical literature about the prostate and the medical benefits of massaging it. It may help prevent prostate cancer. It also appears to feel good (though whether you choose to take that step or not is up to you). I believe the prostate is the male version of the "G" spot in women. Every embryo begins the same and various tissue structures develop differently according to chromosomes and hormones during gestation. For example, nascent cells turn into ovaries or testicles depending on those factors. It makes sense that tissues that develop into a woman's "G" spot develop into something similar in a man. The most likely seems to be the prostate? If so, the G-Spot orgasm that women enjoy would be analogous to a male's Prostate Orgasm (which many men have described in vivid and believable terms). If true, why not take advantage of it? What makes a man straight, gay or bisexual is not what tissues he likes to have stimulated, but in what partner he enjoys doing the stimulating.


Edited to add this thought:
In one of the Star Trek books (but definitely NOT in the movie), Captain Kirk was accused of having had a sexual/romantic relationship with Mr. Spock. His reaction might be eye-opening. He was insulted. But not because of the gender issues. Kirk said, "As for myself ... I have always found my best gratification in that creature called woman. Also, I would not like to be thought of as being so foolish that I would select a love partner who came into sexual heat only once every seven years.".

[kinggg]

The right kind and amount of lube feels great. I’ve discovered that an aneros anal toy slipped in feels great. I don’t want it moving around, but it’s fairly small and seems to press some pleasurable spots.
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Whoaaa hold on.. not into that shit. Normal and straight as a needle here.

Quite a lot of straight men enjoy anal stimulation as ALL men have a gspot there, straight or gay.
Saying that you are "normal' because you are straight is an absolute insult to us gay men. You will win no friends here with comments like that.

Ok I dont know or care what your politics is. I'm here to get help nothing more.

You win no friends here for hating straight people.

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