Can sex still be sexy with an implant?

[notaes]

I had my implant January 2020.

My implant has been almost perfect from the start. It certainly has changed some things
But it is like anything else...it is what you make it! We can fuck like 17 yr old studs with hard cocks like teenagers. When you get in your 50’s things change. The implant was God sent! It is what we make it. No pain with implant surgery. Had wait six weeks for clearance but since then we fucked like teenagers! It is what we make it And it can be wonderful if you want it to be. Sure I have to pump it up but after that whatever we want for as long as we want it. Thankful that the implant was available to a 68 yr old male.

[stephen54]

Great, I replied to a 2 year old post by a 20 year old.

Honestly, the stuff you run across here. Dammit man that's gloriously funny. And accurate.

To the original poster...

Keep in mind, you can give yourself several foreplay-pumps whenever you want. Bathroom. While you're pouring wine, walking the dog, whatever. I've done it at the dinner table with her while she's eating a salad. Not even kidding.

You can have all sorts of foreplay and fun on 8-10 pumps and at 30-40% inflation. When you want to fuck...an unyielding iron bar is only a handful of pumps away. Like 30-45 seconds. Keeping things in perspective, at that point, with less than 90 seconds of pumping invested, you will be able to bang any girl, any age, into blissful exhaustion, assuming you are in reasonable physical condition otherwise.

So "sexy" is in the eye of the beholder. My wife gets all worked up knowing I am getting worked up. She gets all flustered and wet when she sees I am about to assert myself. All different obviously for you and your partner, man, but as has been said by others here...do not underestimate the impact of the Dick Which Will Not Stop. If you find yourself with a steady partner with whom you can teach and trust...and she figures out how to inflate you...you're entering some fun territory there. It took my wife probably a month of persistent effort, and some squeamish banged up nuts on my part, but now she's pretty efficient inflating me. For us? It adds a lot. She can assert and control and "arouse" me, in our new way. Sky is the limit if you're open with the girl....

[stephen54]

I had my implant January 2020.

My implant has been almost perfect from the start. It certainly has changed some things
But it is like anything else...it is what you make it! We can fuck like 17 yr old studs with hard cocks like teenagers. When you get in your 50’s things change. The implant was God sent! It is what we make it. No pain with implant surgery. Had wait six weeks for clearance but since then we fucked like teenagers! It is what we make it And it can be wonderful if you want it to be. Sure I have to pump it up but after that whatever we want for as long as we want it. Thankful that the implant was available to a 68 yr old male.

And I love how you say what you say. Fucking awesome. I get you.

How it should (and can) be.

[Waynetho]

I’m back on here man. Hope all is well. No, my issue has not seen any improvement lol. Glad to see there are still people who care

Welcome back. My first response (way back when) did not recognize that you are not implanted.

Satisfying your woman (or partner of any sex) starts and ends with your attitude. The erect penis is just one tool in (her) box.

If a penis does not do the trick, you have other tools. If hands do not suffice, tongue. If tongue is not your style, tools. Whatever will work. If she is willing to have sex with you coitally, she is likely to want to cooperate in any way that helps her orgasm - as long as she sees you are desiring HER satisfaction. At your ages, she is likely to have had a lover or two NOT considerate of her feelings and will appreciate you, who is (I presume).

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As a matter of fact, regarding "taking time to pump"... This past Monday my wife's GF (my new FWB) came over and was laying on my bed while my wife was getting ready so we could go out. After some playful pestering to get her to remove her pants, I started working on her with my mouth and tongue while I was pumping my implant from the end of the bed. By the time she'd had a couple (of "O's"), I was fully pumped, ready and everything worked as designed. About that time my wife got a phone call and went into the living room to give us some privacy.

The point I'm trying to make is that if a guy is willing to use more tools than his manhood to work on a girl, there's plenty of time to pump up secretly. Admittedly, she knows I have an implant and has seen me pump it up in the past but she didn't see me pump it that day.

[Baseballfan11]

I’m back on here man. Hope all is well. No, my issue has not seen any improvement lol. Glad to see there are still people who care

Welcome back. My first response (way back when) did not recognize that you are not implanted.

Satisfying your woman (or partner of any sex) starts and ends with your attitude. The erect penis is just one tool in (her) box.

If a penis does not do the trick, you have other tools. If hands do not suffice, tongue. If tongue is not your style, tools. Whatever will work. If she is willing to have sex with you coitally, she is likely to want to cooperate in any way that helps her orgasm - as long as she sees you are desiring HER satisfaction. At your ages, she is likely to have had a lover or two NOT considerate of her feelings and will appreciate you, who is (I presume).

(edited)

As a matter of fact, regarding "taking time to pump"... This past Monday my wife's GF (my new FWB) came over and was laying on my bed while my wife was getting ready so we could go out. After some playful pestering to get her to remove her pants, I started working on her with my mouth and tongue while I was pumping my implant from the end of the bed. By the time she'd had a couple (of "O's"), I was fully pumped, ready and everything worked as designed. About that time my wife got a phone call and went into the living room to give us some privacy.

The point I'm trying to make is that if a guy is willing to use more tools than his manhood to work on a girl, there's plenty of time to pump up secretly. Admittedly, she knows I have an implant and has seen me pump it up in the past but she didn't see me pump it that day.

I’m admittedly a little confused on the whole dynamic of your story between all of the parties involved lol, but that’s a moot point. Appreciate your sharing your experiences

[Baseballfan11]

I had my implant January 2020.

My implant has been almost perfect from the start. It certainly has changed some things
But it is like anything else...it is what you make it! We can fuck like 17 yr old studs with hard cocks like teenagers. When you get in your 50’s things change. The implant was God sent! It is what we make it. No pain with implant surgery. Had wait six weeks for clearance but since then we fucked like teenagers! It is what we make it And it can be wonderful if you want it to be. Sure I have to pump it up but after that whatever we want for as long as we want it. Thankful that the implant was available to a 68 yr old male.

Thanks man. I wish as a teenager I could report that I was fucking like a teenager. Not the case. There’s definitely more to life than just sex, surely, but for me the major problem is self esteem and fear of missing out, fear of reputation sort of stuff. It stings

[Baseballfan11]

I’m back on here man. Hope all is well. No, my issue has not seen any improvement lol. Glad to see there are still people who care

Welcome back. My first response (way back when) did not recognize that you are not implanted.

Satisfying your woman (or partner of any sex) starts and ends with your attitude. The erect penis is just one tool in (her) box.

If a penis does not do the trick, you have other tools. If hands do not suffice, tongue. If tongue is not your style, tools. Whatever will work. If she is willing to have sex with you coitally, she is likely to want to cooperate in any way that helps her orgasm - as long as she sees you are desiring HER satisfaction. At your ages, she is likely to have had a lover or two NOT considerate of her feelings and will appreciate you, who is (I presume).

Communication is key.

Women are incredibly supportive if they feel desired, trusted, respected and safe. If she feels desired only for YOUR pleasure, she will not feel respected and if you hide facts about your own sexual conditions, she will detect this and not feel trusted.

Good luck and happy (early ) birthday, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

edited to add: Hint: If you want to massage between her legs....start at her feet and work your way up...slowly.

I appreciate the welcome back. Most of my time these past few absent years has been dealing with my compulsive gambling which was just getting underway when I started posting on here. Thank god I have over a year clean on that with no intention of going back. I appreciate your message as well. The girl I am currently with is a bit of a homebody and has only been with a few guys, neither was penetrative sex. She is quite understanding and a very caring and thoughtful young lady. I’m grateful for her