Postby C_lab34 » Tue Jan 05, 2021 6:22 pm
The question "are we too focused on size" rings like a genius deadpan joke in this forum. It's not even a question. It's beyond obvious we are too focused on it. I'm telling you, and I say this with compassionate humor, though it will sound harsh, that with just a little space and perspective, when you look around at this place you feel like you're in a nuthouse.
Post after post after post about will I lose size I think I lost size I used to be this long I used to have his much girth, now I'm a quarter inch less this, an inch less that, I'm wider narrower skinnier flatter fatter, I think I gained girth, I think I lost girth, how long do I need to cycle to get it back, how long do you cycle, what cycling protocol do I need to get back this inch.
Meanwhile, life is passing us all by, no one in the outside world cares even a teeny tiny bit about the size of our dicks, whether or not they get hard, whether or not we even have them at all.
Is there a single man, either one you know personally, or a man you can think of in history, that you admire, who you'd lose all respect and admiration for if you learned he had a small dick, or that his dick didn't work, or that he used to have a big dick but now he has an average one or small one? It's pure madness.
Another thing: women don't give a shit either. I know some of them like to put on a show and say this or that, play into the obsession, and they might even have a preference for a certain size, but no woman will love you or not love you because of it. It's just not that important. Sex isn't that important. Guys, I have fucked women with my bionic dick and put my heart and soul into and given them what I thought was the absolute time of their lives. And maybe they did really have a great time. Still doesn't matter. They make decisions and stay with men or leave them based on other things.
The most confounding aspect of all is how men here talk about what supposed size they bring into the surgery, as if they could still get hard enough reliably often enough to have satisfying sex, but then for some reason decided to get an implant for a change of pace I guess, and then they're flabbergasted when they wake up in the recovery room and what they're looking down at isn't their last ditch, hail mary pre implant erection, which they achieved after chugging a bottle of viagra and being in a vacuum device for an hour and injecting themselves with enough trimix to get an old horse rock hard. Then, with the fifteen seconds of semi-tumescence alloted to them, they fumbled with a tape measurer and a camera to record their "pre surgery erection size" so they feel justified in creating multiple threads and posts and contemplating more surgery and settling into marathon surgery video viewing sessions and feeding the obsession.
I really mean this: I want better for men, I don't want men to live like this. It's not worth it. We're going to have to invest in things of higher value than this. We're not going to get that time and energy back.
