Wife is against me getting an implant

[irishguy]

Viaswiss fair play to you this is a massive move but one you know deep down is right!! It will be hard on the kids but I come from a broken family and I can tell you back then and now I’d much rather have parents separated then together an miserable and fighting!! So if you feel in your gut this is right then you have to take this step!! I promise you dating with an implant is not that scary actually the opposite in many ways, like think about it your taking a girl on a date now and you know for 100% you won’t get it up and worse what used to happen to me I would shrivel out of absolute nerves so it looked and felt like I basically had a micro penis!! So insult to injury right!!! But then when I got the hang of the implant and owned the fact I’d generally have to use a cock ring till I got very comfortable with a woman, I couldn’t wait to meet girls knowing that I’d be as hard as a telephone poll!! So before implant no chance of you getting hard after implant 20/30 seconds your shaft is rock hard!! So if this is the end of your marriage and when you’re ready to date come to Ireland and we will head out on the town and get ya laid!!!!!!

[LookingUp]

Irishguy,

Let me know when the Pubs open up. On my way.

LUp

[Lost Sheep]

Hopefully I can find time right before or after the Super Bowl tomorrow to tell her I will be moving on from her. Part of what made me want to "make it work" and continue to overlook everything is that she is a solid 9.5.

Sometimes, when a man lays out the bottom line, a woman comes around, respects her man for his resoluteness and becomes supportive.

Sometimes, a woman will play like she is going along.

How did your talk go?

Was it a Chiefs and Buccaneers or a true heart-to-heart between equal partners?

[tomas1]

That was a good day to be a goat.

[ViaSwiss]

Sounds like we need to all schedule a Bionic meetup in Dublin when flights open back up.

I did not touch on this procedure talk again with her, she made it clear how she feels about - and that is that.

I did tell her I was planning on filing for divorce. As you may have read in an earlier post, I told her this about 4 months ago as well and we had then agreed to work together on things. Things went well for about 2 weeks and then were worse overall with tons of stonewalling, silent treatments, and other controlling behaviors intermixed.

This time it's irrevocable. As I move forward with getting a penis that works again, I will only settle for the most supportive and amazing women.

[Lost Sheep]

Sounds like we need to all schedule a Bionic meetup in Dublin when flights open back up.

I did not touch on this procedure talk again with her, she made it clear how she feels about - and that is that.

I did tell her I was planning on filing for divorce. As you may have read in an earlier post, I told her this about 4 months ago as well and we had then agreed to work together on things. Things went well for about 2 weeks and then were worse overall with tons of stonewalling, silent treatments, and other controlling behaviors intermixed.

This time it's irrevocable. As I move forward with getting a penis that works again, I will only settle for the most supportive and amazing women.

Sir, you have my deepest sympathies and wholehearted admiration. You have two serious actions begun and I wish you the best outcome for each.

[Agfa13]

Ditto here!
If you decide to do the implant 1st, make sure to line up (physical and emotional) support. At least get someone who won't jump on you and cause you harm because you will be out of commission on the day of surgery (doped up and in pain). There are lots of ideas on FT on what to get, but you will definitely need the frozen peas and loose clothing.
Remember, we all heal differently, so you may not even need half the stuff we say you need, but...Good luck!

[LuisFernandez]

ViaSwiss, you are an absolute legend. This thread is really inspiring to me. I also am struggling to move forward and ask for a divorce. Even my mother is pushing me seeing how my wife treats me and emasculates me. I'm tired of feeling like less of a man because of my penis issues.

I'm on the edge of just moving forward with the implant and get back to the dating scene. As my mom says, "youth is the most precious thing you have."

[irishguy]

I second that viaswiss you are a legend and I’m sad your marriage has finished but with time and a working dick you will have the confidence to find a good decent compassionate woman!! And yes lads get yer asses over to Ireland and we’ll go on the serious piss up then

[LeRoastBeef]

If you get rid now, then you can get the implant, get all the Crap or if the way and then focus on a new life. This may be Blessing in disguise.

It sounds like it's well over. I felt better after breaking up with last gf. Although that was at the time her choice, due to ED, I'm glad it happened. I deserved better. You do too.