Explaining why you have an implant

[Smetro]

I’m more than 4 years post implant and cannot speak more highly of both the Titan and my surgeon.
My fave poster on here is Merrix. His analysis and expression of collected knowledge is second to none.....if you haven’t yet digested his ‘My Journal’ writings you are missing out.
It was one of his suggestions for quieting inquisitive women about why a man would have a bionic cock that I am now using regularly.

I am a snow skier and surfer and I’m in ridiculously great shape.
I’ve been single for sometime and now find myself as a “bull”......servicing some single women and several married couples regularly. This ability/activity is made possible by the fact I am bionic.

Women by nature are mostly caring and empathetic so when the question is eventually asked about my 7.3” erection that enables the experienced/enlightened ones to manipulate the Titan to foster powerful orgasms, I use one of Merrix’s suggestions:

I had a fall on the ski slopes that damaged some artery/veins that carry blood to the penis and being a man who obviously loves sex, my only real option was to have an implant surgically placed.The answer is also used when (and some have noticed when sucking on my balls) that I have 3 balls.

I find that women are very sympathetic and overlook the fact of the semi artificiality of the implant....after all it is still a warm cock....it’s the inside that’s artificial.....and after they have had it a couple of times ....well.

Yes it’s not the truth but it’s a harmless untruth and it romanticises the situation rather than medicalise it.

So thank you Merrix

[ViaSwiss]

I already plan to state something similar, it was a mountain biking accident where a nerve in my hip area became damaged and caused me to struggle to keep erections so I had to get an implant.

If I am dating someone and it feels like it will be long term, I will maybe explain the truth that a prostate/hairloss medication caused VL/ED 16 years ago.

[cbinspok]

I am going through this right now, friends / family all very curious about why I am laid up for a few weeks. I have told them I needed a hernia operation, if they want to dig deeper then it was a complex hernia op. One friend and my daughter don’t stop, ie. Who’s your Dr ? What hospital? Did you have mesh ? They would goggle my answers im sure,, So my nature is very openness - thats what they are used to so for them to be inquiring more is natural for our relationship.
Problem is it makes me need to tell more fibs. Not my nature. So why don’t I tell them the truth? These two and a few more will be flip about the intell and drop that information in mixed settings sure as shit. So I decided for now to keep a lid on it. Next issue, My wife refuses to “lie” to people because shes no good at at it. (Lol - after 40+ years of marriage I mentioned a few subjects she had no problem fibbing about). So far she just says she doesn’t know the details when being grilled by my daughter etc. if it comes out I will be ok with it, I would just like some private time for now.
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[Leebert]

Same issue, im looking into implant and everyone knows ive had a double Hernia surgery with three holes in my gut. My wifes friend just wouldn't give up on the questions ( told them i had to go back for a third one later. All the who's and why's and thank goodness we changed subject.lol

[Lost Sheep]

Why so mundane a story as a sports accident?

"Yeah, I got REALLY drunk one night and I woke up the next morning with $30,000 in my pocket and my dick was gone, so I had this surgery."

Or, "Yeah, I was in Pamplona for the running of the bulls and was so impressive to Carlos (one of the bullfighters) that he invited me be a guest bullfighter. Long story short, I was not as good as he thought I could be....and I don't wanna talk about what happened next."

"I was on a Space Walk outside the ISS and a rapid decompression in my suit tore a hole in my tunica. So, Roscosmos sprung for the best repair job they would authorize."

[newbie443]

Well I told no one about my ED for so long and was so ashamed about it. I am not good at lies. Memory is bad so I can't keep them straight so I finally just told folks the truth and came clean. I just say I had damage that took that part of my life away from me and I had surgery to get it back. Making that choice was one of the most difficult things I have done and after I did it and was committed to have this part of me back was life changing. With me it was most likely a combination of different things so if pressed that is what I say. As they do no testing in my area for why a man has ED. They just do treatment. So I have no specific answer. Thing is people talk and it is almost impossible to keep a secret. So it is going to eventually get out and is just not worth all the trouble to try to hide it. I mean I do not advertise it or bring it up in conversation. Or even discuss it public where there are children around. But if someone asked about my 200 mile trip in April for surgery I would say something like: The fun part of my daddy parts broke and I had surgery and I am going up to have some problems fixed.

I don't know how I did the total turn around but I did.

[newbie443]

Double post

[Waynetho]

I'm not ashamed or bashful or private about my implant at all. Other than keeping my work discussions safe for work, anyone anytime, that I feel might benefit from knowing, I will tell. If anyone has a question about it, I'm open to discuss it. Of course I'm an open nudist too so maybe that's part of it. My best friend and his wife both know, my male FWB knows, my girlfriend knows, my family (sister, brother-in-law, step-brother) all know. Even many at the club I attend know.

[notaes]

I am not ashamed that I have a bionic cock in any way! I have had some physical problems with my back for last 3-4 weeks. So horny I could not stand going without sex any longer. One of the things I love about my bionic cock is the fact I was able to fuck my wife this morning . I just put everything aside this morning and climbed on and went for it! Oh man was it good! I fucked my wife for an hour this morning. Just pumped my bionic cock and fucked into a haven of bliss! In fact, she said how can your back be so messed up and you are able to fuck like that? I said my bionic cock dear! I haven’t told anyone about my implant either with the exception of one of my brother n laws. I don’t think it’s anyone’s business but seriously I am so happy that I don’t have to worry about am I going to loose my erection. No way could have I have had sex with my wife this morning if I had not had my bionic dick! My wife celebrates a birthday tomorrow and she is one year older than I am. Looking at her wow! she is beautiful and in great shape. She has it all. Beauty, boobs,ass and all! Fucking her is like platter of sex. Fucking delicious! I’ll take my bionic dick any day because it works and has never failed me,

[frwmw1]

I'm not surprised you started climaxing after several years, the body is amazing in how it can heal, doctors often don't notice because they don't get to keep in touch.

I find your journal very helpful along with Merrix's.