Is bulge too much?

[irishguy]

It’s funny you asked a question and anyone who has a differing opinion gets shamed… I dress so my bulge isn’t seen.. my girlfriend says to be proud of it and show it off but that’s a female way to look at things… if you are asking the question you probably know it’s abit too much..

[smphead]

It’s funny you asked a question and anyone who has a differing opinion gets shamed… I dress so my bulge isn’t seen.. my girlfriend says to be proud of it and show it off but that’s a female way to look at things… if you are asking the question you probably know it’s abit too much..

How do you dress? Can you hide the bulge with special/ supporting underwear?

[LeRoastBeef]

I have to wear loose, light trousers for my job. There is a bulge, but it looks natural now that the implant has softened up.
I was worried at first, I don't think anyone has pays much attention. I have forgotten about it.

Sometimes if I catch myself in the mirror/glass, then it seems obvious, but it doesn't look like an erection or semi. It just looks like a larger flaccid, which it is.
As long as people don't think you are semi erect and thus a deviant, then I don't care.

I prefer it to being a grower that's for sure.

Having said all that, it just occured to me that I'm a bit worried about going swimming for the first time....hmm.

[Maverick2dog]

This comes from a shower. I have 7inchs erect and flaccid has always hung long. There is no wrong answer here. Show it or don’t both are good. I personally don’t mind having my package bludge. I don’t like having an out line of dick showing in my pants. Just not my game.

At the gym I do wear some kind of restraint. If my underwear under my gym shorts are to loose my dick flops around in my shorts when I walk around. I feel like that is more than most people want to see. But if someone wants to flop around the gym good for them.

[smphead]

This comes from a shower. I have 7inchs erect and flaccid has always hung long. There is no wrong answer here. Show it or don’t both are good. I personally don’t mind having my package bludge. I don’t like having an out line of dick showing in my pants. Just not my game.

At the gym I do wear some kind of restraint. If my underwear under my gym shorts are to loose my dick flops around in my shorts when I walk around. I feel like that is more than most people want to see. But if someone wants to flop around the gym good for them.

How do you prevent having an outline?

[Sofa King]

No, but this thread is. 5 pages for this?

[bldoink]

Just for S&G I showed the pics to wife and asked if appropriate. I didn't add any commentary before showing her the pics or asking her opinion. She said NO, not appropriate, looks like he's sporting an erection! She's 64 and is not what I'd call prudish and is fairly adventurous, so let that figure in. But whatever. Just don't show up at the girls 8th grade volleyball practice that way, well, boys either.

[smphead]

Just for S&G I showed the pics to wife and asked if appropriate. I didn't add any commentary before showing her the pics or asking her opinion. She said NO, not appropriate, looks like he's sporting an erection! She's 64 and is not what I'd call prudish and is fairly adventurous, so let that figure in. But whatever. Just don't show up at the girls 8th grade volleyball practice that way, well, boys either.

This kind of posts makes me very depressing. It's like you can't fix your ED and dressing well. So if you want to fix your ED you have to dress in baggy trousers and untucked shirts otherwise you're a perv.

No offence to those feeling comfortable with that kind of dressing style, but a lot of younger guys in the datIng scene wants to dress well, especially we allready have 'a handicap'

[Backingame]

Thanks for all the comments. Yes, lots of different opinions - I agree with all= really. Sometimes it just is not appropriate, but other times I do like the look. I think, yes in the tighter pants, maybe at night to a bar, club etc. but not to a kid function, etc. The looser pants, just can't hide it anymore, I am not trying to show it off, it is there. I was wearing tight compression underwear in both pics, if I wear looser underwear, it is even more out there. Wearing a jock strap actually makes it even bigger and have to point it up, the tip is compressed by the elastic waist band and is very uncomfortable. Cannot tolerate bending it down. I understand some peeps say wear baggier pants and with a baggie shirt etc, but they just do not look good on me. Never been my style, and does not make me feel good. Most of the comments were to own it and be proud. If I pass the wife test, ill go with that. Peace out!

[smphead]

Thanks for all the comments. Yes, lots of different opinions - I agree with all= really. Sometimes it just is not appropriate, but other times I do like the look. I think, yes in the tighter pants, maybe at night to a bar, club etc. but not to a kid function, etc. The looser pants, just can't hide it anymore, I am not trying to show it off, it is there. I was wearing tight compression underwear in both pics, if I wear looser underwear, it is even more out there. Wearing a jock strap actually makes it even bigger and have to point it up, the tip is compressed by the elastic waist band and is very uncomfortable. Cannot tolerate bending it down. I understand some peeps say wear baggier pants and with a baggie shirt etc, but they just do not look good on me. Never been my style, and does not make me feel good. Most of the comments were to own it and be proud. If I pass the wife test, ill go with that. Peace out!

Did you try two pair of "jockey" brand bikini style for men? If not, maybe you can try and tell us if it works.