Advanced sex techniques for bionics -- share your expertise

[KenJ1947]

I found that positions make a difference. I did a lot of Missionary in the past, but afterwards I would collapse on my back and that would be it. With the implant, we do a side-by-side which is much easier and you can do it forever. When you get an orgasm you can lay with her with your penis inside her for an hour if you want; and it stays as hard as a rock. Ridiculously romantic. You could never do that without an implant.

One of the great pre-ED experiences was being able to cum (scissor-style usually) and then relax and fall asleep still inserted only to be awakened by my wife's grinding bringing my penis back to life for another go or two

[TANGERINE]

i am bumping this topic back since there are some new members that might have additional thoughts.

Ii think Captain117 and whodat have made some really valuable contributions (see thieir posts), and you all, please keep things coming.

For me, my wife is starting to greatly crave the "staying in" technique whereby I slowly get the penis into her with eventual staying in and still for a while with pressure on her clit from my pubic bone. She knows I can stay like that for a long time, and I think she is learning to build to orgasm around my rock hard cock realizing that the fear of a clock sounding off that time is up just will never happen.
So, for me, putting it in and staying in has worked well.

Also, supporting myself plank style while in missionary such that my dick is the only thing really pressing on her seems to make for a comfortable experience for her, and doing a push up on her such that only my penis is the contact point is quite the thrill for her (the angle is good, the masculinity is good, and maybe she likes the grunt from me since it is strenuous)

[BuffaloMaxx]

I gotta tell you about something I just learned, from tiktok of all places. This is just a prep move that helps heat her up pretty quick. It’s called cupping. You guys may know, but it was totally new to me and my wife. Literally just use your entire palm and cup her crotch applying consistent pressure. You are not trying to grind the clit, just put your hand down there and cup it. Apply pressure and hold.
It drives my wife crazy. She loves it. I do it once over the panties and again under. Bam, ready to go. It’s crazy. Microwave version of foreplay.

This explains the technique:
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRjsN5HS/

The comments are filled with other folks trying and loving it. Some of her other clips explain why it works if you care. I just know it does.

[TANGERINE]

one of the great things about the iplant is that you are able to transfer all your attention to getting inide the head of your lover. you can gauge what is happening by listening to her breathing and feeling her twinges.

There was a good description what women want in bed described by Marni Kinrys on you tube.

Quited below is what she says women secretely crave in the bedroom:

6 Things Women Secretly Crave In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say) by Marni Kinrys

1) foreplay: do not rush, build anticipation, time is needed, take it slow (touching all over, dirty talk, kissing)
2) Commands: women like decisive leadership, say what you want, say with conviction like you know what you want (ie, turn over, spread your legs, get on this pillow)
3) physical Dominance: not just pound hard, but how you handle her body in the journey—a little rough (spank, hair pull, move her around and pick up, pin down with consent
4) appreciation: communicate that you like it, how good it feels inside of her, how strongly they turn you on, appreciate her body and lust, moan and grunt
5)oral and finger action: do it, and get good at it. 80% of women cannot cum without this
6) Presence: be mentally with them, and fully mind meld. Sex is an intimate emotional connection. If fully attentive, you can notice her feedback, so you know what she likes and does not (through her breathing, etc)

the above is from the you tube site by Marni Kinrys.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fa5XqxQMYZk

[aussiePeyronies]

One of the most valuable threads on FT.

Look forward to putting some of these skills to use!

J

[ThailandBound]

This sounds more like OCD than intercourse. Do you use some kind of counter to keep track?

There’s an app for that.

[atul21]

I am keeping this thread bookmarked
This will prove to be the most useful for me post activation and go ahead from doc!

[Musson]

Penises aside, I strongly recommend the video How to Eat Pussy like a Champ. You should find it with a search on pornhub. As my ED kicked in I pivoted towards oral and gained skills with the help of this video. I’ve literally left women with legs that were rubber for 30 minutes. Dick is not everything.

[SWorks17]

Choosing the best level of hardness and inflation.

Now that I am six months out, I have started to learn that there is such a thing as too hard.

We have seen this from the writings of two highly sexed members on this board:

Merrix once stataed:

MERRIX STATES,
....Yesterday when having sex, I abandoned my recent strategy of pumping 15-20 pumps for sex, which is what has given me something I’d describe as a very hard erection which is still within the limits of what a natural erection could achieve. I pumped it almost full,……A nice experiment, which confirmed that an implant, if properly functioning and installed, is hard way beyond anything natural…….My wife, who has said previously that she feels nothing unnatural about my dick when having intercourse, definitely did not think so yesterday. It felt like being taken by a machine…So next time, I am most likely back to using an 80% inflation.…..My assumption right or wrong was that having some stretch and capacity left in the penis allowed some natural blood flow at least for me and more spongiousum flow and glans enlargement. Hence more sensation. My wife also doesn't notice the difference which should be reassuring to us all that stiff is important but incremental size changes don't matter to them. …

SMETRO once stated:

SMETRO STATES
, Last night the delightful Miss H told me (finally) that she prefers me pumped up hard but with a tiny bit taken out, she said at maximum inflation it is just a bit too much.
Thankfully we have a very open discussion about sex and actually I got the implant to enable reliable erections not to be a human battering ram! So now I pump to max and then hit the button to let a couple of ml out and hey presto....perfect cock for my girl ...

Last week, my wife stated that my dick is bigger than it was, and girth is a little too much for her, so I too have started to back off on the inflated pressure.

QUESTION: as advanced sex studs, we need to be really good with the variable of "cock stiffness". Please write in with any other remarks or techniques that make sex a supernatural experience for our partners.

Wouldn't it be easier to just find an inflation point to stop at rather than hit the deflate button to let a small ML of saline out? I know with my AMS 700, as soon as you hit the deflate button, it deflates pretty quick, so you would have to push the pump bulb to stop the deflation. I've never tried to do that process of pumping to the max and letting out just a little bit. Your thoughts?

[Backingame]

I would suggest you all invest in a sex swing (sexswing.com) and a tantra chair (tantrachair.com) best investments you will ever make! Add Coconut oil and fuck away...