Sex Therapy for couples recovering from ED

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Wow, sorry sogwap. If the wife ain't happy, well.... you know.

When I was using Trimix injections at first it worked well. Then failures either from a miss or not a strong enough dose. Very frustrating after getting all worked up. For both partners. Have to say I never tried anything out of the norm while using injections, just tried to pleasure the wife. We don't talk much about sex except while we're busy doing it.

Guess I have to say don't try to be a superman in bed. Take care of the wife first.

I wasnt trying anything out of the norm. Just trying some things that havent been possible for several years.

Her not talking with me for two days, I believe is her own sexual frustration have to deal with my ED.
It seems to me we've been at an impasse sexually for many years. Neither not knowing how to make things better.

12 years ago when I went to the mens clinic for ED, I asked what is normal sexual response. Cost $750 for a script for Viagra, and Absolutely no answers why I have ED, or what is normal sexual response. My wife has said ED is not normal and I end up feeling really bad for both of us. Although I have read plenty of accounts that ED affects 40% or more for men over 50.

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Have you asked her if she would go to a sex therapist with you?
There is a forum for issues about cumming to quick.

Given the current state of affairs, I havent asked her... yet.
Back when I first got bad case ED, I saw two therapist. I went to half dozen sessions, she hesitantly went a couple times.
She's was convinced it was my problem that she didnt need to go.

The PE Premature Ejaculation forum here on FT, I didnt find that helpful. Life long suffers of PE dont have that many options.
Although with Trimix, for the most part your erection does not go away after ejaculation. It feels different, but in my limited experience, Its freeing knowing that you can continue PIV sex after ejaculation.

As far as losing sexual energy I cant say, Since I've only had sex with my wife a half dozen times using Trimix. But I can say this, the times we had sex and she came, I could have kept going. But she's pretty much a one and done type of woman.

Hopefully I can talk with her about this. Because with Trimix sex is different. Hopefully get her to see how she can use the staying power of Trimix to achieve orgasm with PIV sex, even if it takes getting the magic wand out.

So sex is different, I have to inject a needle in my member, And she needs lube, but it (sex) still works.

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Maybe she was more happy when you had ED. She may be just having sex to please you and doesn’t really want to have sex anymore.

I'm 99% sure that is not the issue.
She may not want sex with me, give my history of ED. But she has made it abundantly clear, when sex doesnt work its very difficult for her to handle.

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I could give orgasms to almost all of my girlfriends by licking their clits. Whatever a penis can do, a tongue can do better.

I've only been intimate with two women.

My ex was either lesbian or asexual. Even though she never actively participated in sex. She never complained about my oral skills.

My better wife has said I'm good at it, although she prefers PIV sex.