The bulge is witholding me, desperate

[Happy Toy]

Already looking for years in to an implant. Seems to be the only solution left.
But all the posts about the bulge/semi-erect are witholding me. As a well endowned i already have a bulge, but isn't printing my penis and doesn't look like a hard-on. I can't imagine how it feels you can't hide a 'hard-on', especially as i have to wear sweatpants with tucked shirts on a daily basis in front of children.

Also i can't understand comments from guys like wear it with pride. How the h## can you wear a 'hardon' or a printed penis in front of children or in a non-sexual environment with pride? And yes, it's difficult from a woman showing the outlines of her boobs.

Some of your issues might be resolved by the type of implant you get. I’ve got the AMS LGX. It acts very much like a regular penis. 5 1/4” long flaccid. 6 1/2” +/- pumped, yes, when flaccid you just look like a guy with a good sized dick.

I don’t think the vast majority of us guys who have no problem are exhibitionists or prancing around waving our junk in people’s faces like perverted creeps. There’s a good sized contingent of older guys on here (baby boomers) who grew up in an era when male nudity was not a big deal and modesty was considered a sissified character trait.

Yes, an implant might show a bit more. AMS is probably less “in your face” than a Titan. Neither are obscene. The human body isn’t obscene.

As far as children in the gym…..try going at times when they’re in school or close to their bedtime. Actually a late evening workout is better for old guys since you continue to burn calories at a higher rate overnight. Nobody is suggesting pulling your implant out of your fly and swinging it around. It’s there, it’s now part of your anatomy, some guys without implants have cocks just like that.

It’s only a big deal if you make it a big deal. My wife and I go to the Caribbean quite a bit. I’m 66 with a lean/muscular build. Hell yes I wear a Speedo-type swim trunk. My wife sometimes comments that a particular suit needs a jock strap underneath, and I usually oblige her. But in truth I can’t say she isn’t glad to have a trophy husband.

Mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. People who see and check out your bulge are the culprit…not you for having a bulge. I’m not advocating pumping it up, stuffing it into a Speedo or tight gym shorts and having an impromptu big dick implant pride parade. By the same token I’m not into body shaming of any sort. Do you think women with 42DD breasts should undergo breast reduction or foregoing a trip to beach? Maybe we force them to wear binders to
Make them look flat chested.

Bottom line: do what you want, that’s the beauty of freedom. But nudity or bulges based on anatomy are not inherently obscene or inappropriate. Not eveRything is about sex not even the sex organs.

And before I get tarred and feathered for being some sort of hippie liberal hedonist….I’m a fundamentalist conservative 2x Trump voter in the Texas Bible Belt. I think you’re making too big an issue of one which is nonexistent to minor, at worst.

Well said, agree 100%.

[smphead]

[quote="aslanglobal"]Wear large dark sweat pants and wide jeans. I was big before the implant and yeah it’s visible in gray sweat pants or light khakis. Stick to dark colors and wear them a big large. I was a former educator and I got special permission from my supervisor to leave my shirt untucked. I think you’re blowing this outta proportion. See the bigger picture, no pun intended. This is well worth it.

Hi Aslanglobal. Good it works for you with large dark sweat pants and wide jeans. Unfornately i can't wear that at the office. Did you tried compression underwear or a jockstrap?

[Time2Change]

Already looking for years in to an implant. Seems to be the only solution left.
But all the posts about the bulge/semi-erect are witholding me. As a well endowned i already have a bulge, but isn't printing my penis and doesn't look like a hard-on. I can't imagine how it feels you can't hide a 'hard-on', especially as i have to wear sweatpants with tucked shirts on a daily basis in front of children.

Also i can't understand comments from guys like wear it with pride. How the h## can you wear a 'hardon' or a printed penis in front of children or in a non-sexual environment with pride? And yes, it's difficult from a woman showing the outlines of her boobs.

If I remember correctly, you are a dance instructor.

I would think a dance belt might do the trick. One of its purposes is to create a more modest appearance for the male ballet dancer by hiding the outline of his dick.

[smphead]

Already looking for years in to an implant. Seems to be the only solution left.
But all the posts about the bulge/semi-erect are witholding me. As a well endowned i already have a bulge, but isn't printing my penis and doesn't look like a hard-on. I can't imagine how it feels you can't hide a 'hard-on', especially as i have to wear sweatpants with tucked shirts on a daily basis in front of children.

Also i can't understand comments from guys like wear it with pride. How the h## can you wear a 'hardon' or a printed penis in front of children or in a non-sexual environment with pride? And yes, it's difficult from a woman showing the outlines of her boobs.

If I remember correctly, you are a dance instructor.

I would think a dance belt might do the trick. One of its purposes is to create a more modest appearance for the male ballet dancer by hiding the outline of his dick.

Haha, you have a good memory. But that is a little bit strange to wear outside the dance practicals

[ChuckPem]

Well said "Happy Toy" For us guys who have had smaller and softer ones over the years are now trying to adjust to a bit larger and firmer when flaccid. Just takes some adjusting and time for things to soften up a bit....but am not ashamed of my new me. So happy to be able to get a good firm erection anytime it is needed...and my wife really likes it.

[guypalmsprings]

Agree with Scott61: Smaller-sized underwear (briefs not boxers) snugly holds my penis. I point it straight upwards so it's not noticeable, as it would be if worn to the side or down. Go for it.

[smphead]

Agree with Scott61: Smaller-sized underwear (briefs not boxers) snugly holds my penis. I point it straight upwards so it's not noticeable, as it would be if worn to the side or down. Go for it.

Thanx man. What is your size? Can still tuck your shirt in your pants?

[Floridaspeedo]

I am 3 months and I can bend it when deflated now. Even with a titan you can tuck after it softens up.

[Time2Change]

Already looking for years in to an implant. Seems to be the only solution left.
But all the posts about the bulge/semi-erect are witholding me. As a well endowned i already have a bulge, but isn't printing my penis and doesn't look like a hard-on. I can't imagine how it feels you can't hide a 'hard-on', especially as i have to wear sweatpants with tucked shirts on a daily basis in front of children.

Also i can't understand comments from guys like wear it with pride. How the h## can you wear a 'hardon' or a printed penis in front of children or in a non-sexual environment with pride? And yes, it's difficult from a woman showing the outlines of her boobs.

If I remember correctly, you are a dance instructor.

I would think a dance belt might do the trick. One of its purposes is to create a more modest appearance for the male ballet dancer by hiding the outline of his dick.

Haha, you have a good memory. But that is a little bit strange to wear outside the dance practicals

When I looked up dance belts, it appeared to me that they go under the dance clothes, similar to a jock strap. That's why I suggested it.

Since this is FrankTalk, I'm going to be frank. You either want to be able to fuck some of those cute women you teach to dance, or you don't. Yes, the implant may be inconvenient to you for a bit, but it's temporary.

At your age, you have a lot of years to have a great sex life. If I were you and had exhausted other avenues, I wouldn't hesitate for a second over this.

[smphead]

If I remember correctly, you are a dance instructor.

I would think a dance belt might do the trick. One of its purposes is to create a more modest appearance for the male ballet dancer by hiding the outline of his dick.

Haha, you have a good memory. But that is a little bit strange to wear outside the dance practicals

When I looked up dance belts, it appeared to me that they go under the dance clothes, similar to a jock strap. That's why I suggested it.

Since this is FrankTalk, I'm going to be frank. You either want to be able to fuck some of those cute women you teach to dance, or you don't. Yes, the implant may be inconvenient to you for a bit, but it's temporary.

At your age, you have a lot of years to have a great sex life. If I were you and had exhausted other avenues, I wouldn't hesitate for a second over this.

I'm not familiair with it. Didn't knew it is for under the clothes. Is will take a look for it. Maybe your suggestion is also a good one for other brothers.