Fuck it. Too small for an implant anyway

[tomas1]

Damn, you are in a bad place and I hope you can get through this.
Lots of guys who don't have 6" seem to have nice sex lives.
Catman comes to mind.

[Littleleo]

Getting a little tired of hearing you whine , cry and complain here on this post. We can beg council you, encourage you post after post after post. Nothing we can do about your emotional problems except to tell you you're screwed up. The actions you are threatening to do can not be addressed here. But you have been given the answer to your problems here on another post. The only thing you have to do is make one single right decision. You admit of having a serious problem. The only decision left to make is what you are going to do about it. Do you want to have a life worth living? It's 100% possible for someone in you're position. The only thing you have to do is get off your ass and call a suicide hotline or some kind of help in that area. I don't know who you should call, I'll leave that research to you. You need to want out of your pain bad enough to ask for help. It's as simple as that. You can have a wonderful life. It's just one decision away. MAKE A PHONE CALL

[Minnesota#2]

How about let’s switch the whining to being positive and finding a solution to your problem? Because there is one. Thank god we live in a time where we actually can get the help from surgeons to do this procedure!! This ED has rocked my world for 9 years. Even though it’s been miserable, I made myself become an absolute expert in oral. You dont have to do what I did, but I researched and practiced going down on a woman as much as I could, because I was lacking with my limp dick. Usually, I’d get so turned on by giving them so much pleasure when I went down, that I’d get just barely hard enough to just go really fast before I got soft to get the job done. Was I happy I came in 1 minute or if we stopped for a second I’d get soft? No. It was miserable. And those were on a good night. I mostly failed. Even with the girl I spent 4 years with who left me 1 month before I was going to ask her to marry me. Then a month later I lost my grandpa, who raised me and was my best friend and father. That was all in the last 3 months. I could have just threw in the towel and said poor me, my life sucks, etc. but instead, I knew if I didn’t take action, I’d be so miserable!! So I told myself, “I will show you” to my ex and buckled down and made a list of goals, with the implant being #1 on that list. I will succeed in the end and my ex will regret. I get through it by being positive.

Overcoming adversity and taking control of your life is what defines a man. Notyour dick. You being on this site is the first step. I found this site 2 months ago and am already implanted because I wanted to take control of my life. I did everything I could I felt how you did but quickly switched my thought to positive thoughts. I told myself that I would not allow this to happen forever, not “I will live like this forever and my life sucks”. If you think that, then I 100% believe you. If you keep telling yourself that, I can guarantee you will be just that.

I took control of everything I could take control of before the implant before I knew I actually had a physical issue and not a mental one. I became very fit. I am confident in my career and keep working toward bigger goals. Even when I couldnt perform, I kept telling myself I’d figure it out! Girls want me because of that! Not because I have a huge dick. Bring other good and confidence into your life and see how quickly your life changes. Be a tease and don’t fuck until you get implanted! I gave myself a break and now I’m planted and can’t wait to do it. Without it, I can’t and it sounds like you are no different. With an implant, it’s a very high success rated treatment. I advise you keep working out and focusing on building your life, and with an implant it will all come together. A implant and a 7 inch boner wont just make you happy and take you out of your misery. You need to work on all areas of your life. Also, as far as your penis goes, an average erect penis is 5.2 inches. You are barely beneath that. AND if you want it slightly bigger, go with the coloplast and be aggressive with the cycling and stuff. I’ve heard of some guys increasing a little bit in length and girth.

You are choosing your path man. I highly suggest you take control of your life, and when you do those things and get confident, girls will want you, even if you don’t have a monster cock. Make up for it in other ways and find positions that work well for a slightly undersized penis when or if you get implanted. Take control of your life and don’t keep posting what you are on here because you are playing the poor me and it’s just not a good trait bud. It’s a cancer to yourself and others around you. You literally have the choice. Take control, or don’t. I hope to see you post some positive motivational shit in the near future, and I guarantee we will all cheer you on and you will succeed if you do so.

[RoboCock69]

This might shock you, but people on the internet sometimes exaggerate their dick size. According to every reliable study that has ever been done, the average dick is much closer to 5 inches than 7 inches. And if the average is around 5 inches, that means millions of guys are in the 4.5 inch range. Do you think all of them are pathetic losers living lonely lives? No way. I've been with around 50 women and have discussed sex in detail with dozens more. What I can tell you is this: A woman can either cum from penetration alone, or she can't. The ones who can, can get off with anything from a finger to a John Holmes-sized railroad spike. I've never met a single woman who can get off from an 8 inch dick but not a 5 inch dick. Besides, if you can figure out a way to get an implant — which should be your top priority after getting your mental health straightened out — you might find you gain back some size you've lost over the years from ED.

On the subject of paying for an implant, this might be a last resort, but there are doctors in India offering them for around $3,000 USD out the door. That includes your hospital and hotel stay. The only thing you'd have to pay for on top of that is airfare to and from Delhi, which you can usually find for under $1,000 round trip. So you're looking at less than $4,000 total. You can put that shit on a credit card. Granted, it'll be a malleable implant, not an inflatable. But that's still miles ahead of the situation you're in right now. You'll be able to fuck to your heart's content and won't be living the sexless life that has got you so down. Malleables even have some benefits. They're way easier to get into the "ready position." If you're with a new girl and don't want her to know you have an implant, you don't have to excuse yourself to the bathroom to pump before go time. And because it's a simpler device, fewer things can go wrong with it.

The point is that your life isn't as hopeless as you make it out to be. Instead of wallowing in your present misery, you need to figure out what will make your life worthwhile — it sounds like having a functioning dick and being able to fuck is at the top of the list — and then draw up a plan for how you're going to make it happen. If money is the only thing standing between you and an implant, there are ways to come up with it in the next year. It could be a second job, it could be a loan, it could be a GoFundMe. The list goes on. What isn't going to advance your goals and make your life better is constantly posting on this forum about how hopeless your situation is. We're here to listen and here to help, but you need to have some skin in the game. There's nothing we can say to you to make your problems go away. But you have solutions that are in reach. Good luck to you.

[Gt1956]

What woman would want to fuck a man with a 4.5 inch mechanical dick?! God I got fucked on so many levels in my shitty fucking life. I’ll never understand what I did to deserve this much bullshit. Tiny, mangled dick that doesn’t even work… what a fucking joke my life is.
I’m an impotent fucking loser who will die alone. Fucking goddamn it hurts so badly reading about your 6 and 7 inch dicks. I’d give ANYTHING to have an average sized, non-mangled, functioning penis. Lord please give me the strength to end this nightmare very soon!!!

Not very many women find your self loathing as attractive. They'll NEVER find out about your 4.5 inch dick because of your mental health. It isn't the size of your dick that is stopping your love life. It's the size of your stability. I explained in detail yesterday the process to fix this. I even said it wouldn't be easy. But it is entirely doable. But here you are not 24 hours later playing the same song to us again.
Do yourself a favor. Read about what real women (not porn) use for their vibrator size. You'd be shocked to find out that lots of them use vibrators that have less than 5 inches of insertable length. If you was to get your life straightened out enough. You'd find out that a 4.5 flacid will likely turn into 5.5 to 6 inches erect. That is well within the definition of a normal erect penis size. Read that carefully, you are basically of normal size.

[2435tjklAS]

What woman would want to fuck a man with a 4.5 inch mechanical dick?! God I got fucked on so many levels in my shitty fucking life. I’ll never understand what I did to deserve this much bullshit. Tiny, mangled dick that doesn’t even work… what a fucking joke my life is.
I’m an impotent fucking loser who will die alone. Fucking goddamn it hurts so badly reading about your 6 and 7 inch dicks. I’d give ANYTHING to have an average sized, non-mangled, functioning penis. Lord please give me the strength to end this nightmare very soon!!!

Not very many women find your self loathing as attractive. They'll NEVER find out about your 4.5 inch dick because of your mental health. It isn't the size of your dick that is stopping your love life. It's the size of your stability. I explained in detail yesterday the process to fix this. I even said it wouldn't be easy. But it is entirely doable. But here you are not 24 hours later playing the same song to us again.
Do yourself a favor. Read about what real women (not porn) use for their vibrator size. You'd be shocked to find out that lots of them use vibrators that have less than 5 inches of insertable length. If you was to get your life straightened out enough. You'd find out that a 4.5 flacid will likely turn into 5.5 to 6 inches erect. That is well within the definition of a normal erect penis size. Read that carefully, you are basically of normal size.

My dick is 4.5 inches when erect. I guess I could’ve clarified.

Buy a VED. Use it often for several months. Get an AMS 700 LGX implanted. Exercise it. Boom, your dick is over 5" now. Live happily ever after.

Or realize half an inch difference doesn't mean shit. 4.5" is plenty big enough to work, you're probably bad at using it. Also get in really good shape. If you're physically attractive girls are suddenly a lot more interested.

[Alan67]

Don't be so down on yourself. 4.5 is below average but it's enough. But don't have an implant. Worse mistake of my life. I have chronic discomfort and pain now. You're putting your basic health at risk. The procedure will probably go well but if it goes bad it can go real bad!!

[nuance]

Don't be so down on yourself. 4.5 is below average but it's enough. But don't have an implant. Worse mistake of my life. I have chronic discomfort and pain now. You're putting your basic health at risk. The procedure will probably go well but if it goes bad it can go real bad!!

Have you consulted another Dr to get your situation rectified?

[Txagq8]

4.5” isn’t too small for an implant. Iirc the AMS come 1
In a 15 cm size. Normal anatomy for a guy would have about 4.5” distal and 1.5-2.5 inches proximal if 15 cm was installed.

Statistically, there are lots more guys with 4.5 inches than there are 7.5 inches. The big surveys….the ones with over 15,000 samples measured by medical professionals…..show a mean of roughly 5.2 and it’s a bell shaped curve. That being the case, 4.5 is about as common as 5.9.

It really all does begin with self confidence and self esteem and nobody can fix that except you. I’ve been there. Delayed puberty… ED in my teens and twenties. I was a sexual wreck. Finally decided life was passing me by. So I joined the Army, bought into the rugged masculine “nobody can outfight or outfuck me” mantra (even if my version of fucking was robotic levels of stimulation coupled with a cock ring and a prayer. No pills in 1985.

35 years later I’m glad my self confidence allowed me to win the hand and heart of Miss Right. (She did neglect to mention her first name was “Always”.)

4.5” is clearly within the realm of “normal” or “average.” Truthfully, women don’t measure nor do they really care. Yeah, there are a few size queens. Just like some guys insist on dating girls with gargantuan boobs. But in bed, 95%+ of women are gonna think that 4.5=6 and you’re perfectly normal.

If a woman is ever crass or cruel enough to comment about being small, suggest she look into turning her pussy into a parking garage at the airport. Insults cut both ways.

And no, having an implant isn’t like having a fake dick. It’s more like giving you superpowers of being able to totally control your genitalia.

As far as wishing you had 6” or 7”, I totally get it. I envy guys who have 8 1/2 or 9. But I’m reminded of the adage “I used to be jealous because I lacked
new shoes until I met the man with no feet”

Get your head screwed on straight, then tackle the ED. Sex may not be everything, but it is a hunger all men seem to have. And im 66, and still hungry.

[Littleleo]

Think I’m having a bad reaction to a new psych medication. Barely remember making this post today. I’m sorry for being so fucking dramatic, but I appreciate all the feedback.

You still need to reach out to professional help.