At a crossroads as a young man (31) - How to psychologically prepare for the possibility of an implant?

[Lost Sheep]

Can you hold it 70% in your jeans and still be in a bar for example? So that you dont have to go to the bathroom later.

I know you did not ask me, but I will report my experience.

It depends on your underwear and trousers. How much do they contain your semi-erection?

For example, in loose-fitting pants of any kind and ordinary boxer shorts or without underwear, no way could I go out at 70% inflated and not be obvious.

At 70% inflated and in VERY supportive (think athletic supporter-jock strap- tight briefs, boxer briefs or, in the extreme, compression garment holding my penis pointed up and slightly to the side) underwear I am not particularly obvious, though a hand on my front would detect a firm bulge.

Note: 70% is almost rigid enough for penetrative sex and pretty much ideal for fellatio. (My girlfriend finds 100% too rigid and big around for comfort.)

[Juerhareb]

Can you hold it 70% in your jeans and still be in a bar for example? So that you dont have to go to the bathroom later.

I know you did not ask me, but I will report my experience.

It depends on your underwear and trousers. How much do they contain your semi-erection?

For example, in loose-fitting pants of any kind and ordinary boxer shorts or without underwear, no way could I go out at 70% inflated and not be obvious.

At 70% inflated and in VERY supportive (think athletic supporter-jock strap- tight briefs, boxer briefs or, in the extreme, compression garment holding my penis pointed up and slightly to the side) underwear I am not particularly obvious, though a hand on my front would detect a firm bulge.

Note: 70% is almost rigid enough for penetrative sex and pretty much ideal for fellatio. (My girlfriend finds 100% too rigid and big around for comfort.)

I really appreciate your answer. I guess i will need to adapt me clothes too. Anyways, I guess over 70% you can not keep it into your jeans?

[wolfpacker]

How did you get hard without them noticing?

Either use the bathroom and pump to 70% in there (dick can still go in my pants like this, and springs out nicely when she pulls my underwear down) or give oral and pump then, lots of different ways

Thanks for your answer. Can you hold it 70% in your jeans and still be in a bar for example? So that you dont have to go to the bathroom later.

That would be pretty uncomfortable, I wouldn't want to hold at 70% in my pants for more than a few minutes

[Lost Sheep]

Can you hold it 70% in your jeans and still be in a bar for example? So that you dont have to go to the bathroom later.

I know you did not ask me, but I will report my experience.

It depends on your underwear and trousers. How much do they contain your semi-erection?

For example, in loose-fitting pants of any kind and ordinary boxer shorts or without underwear, no way could I go out at 70% inflated and not be obvious.

At 70% inflated and in VERY supportive (think athletic supporter-jock strap- tight briefs, boxer briefs or, in the extreme, compression garment holding my penis pointed up and slightly to the side) underwear I am not particularly obvious, though a hand on my front would detect a firm bulge.

Note: 70% is almost rigid enough for penetrative sex and pretty much ideal for fellatio. (My girlfriend finds 100% too rigid and big around for comfort.)

I really appreciate your answer. I guess i will need to adapt me clothes too. Anyways, I guess over 70% you can not keep it into your jeans?

I can keep it in my jeans (or dockers or sweatpants or even bathing suit) at even 100%. But it does not look good in "polite" company.

People who carry concealed guns have a phrase, "Dress AROUND the gun." That means you choose your wardrobe to your holster and gun do not "print" (show an outline) visible to other people. Women commonly (universally?) dress to accentuate their assets and minimize their defects. You get used to it.

[Juerhareb]

I know you did not ask me, but I will report my experience.

It depends on your underwear and trousers. How much do they contain your semi-erection?

For example, in loose-fitting pants of any kind and ordinary boxer shorts or without underwear, no way could I go out at 70% inflated and not be obvious.

At 70% inflated and in VERY supportive (think athletic supporter-jock strap- tight briefs, boxer briefs or, in the extreme, compression garment holding my penis pointed up and slightly to the side) underwear I am not particularly obvious, though a hand on my front would detect a firm bulge.

Note: 70% is almost rigid enough for penetrative sex and pretty much ideal for fellatio. (My girlfriend finds 100% too rigid and big around for comfort.)

I really appreciate your answer. I guess i will need to adapt me clothes too. Anyways, I guess over 70% you can not keep it into your jeans?

I can keep it in my jeans (or dockers or sweatpants or even bathing suit) at even 100%. But it does not look good in "polite" company.

People who carry concealed guns have a phrase, "Dress AROUND the gun." That means you choose your wardrobe to your holster and gun do not "print" (show an outline) visible to other people. Women commonly (universally?) dress to accentuate their assets and minimize their defects. You get used to it.

Thank you so much. I guess I Will hace to try possibilities when I get the implant. I really appreciate your help.