Ladies lose their shit with the implant

[frank66665]

nice to hear you say these things, January 23rd I will have my system and this is music to my ears

[Lost Sheep]

Must be a record. 14 responding posts in 12 and a half hours.

[Old Guy]

I just hope all the guys who think negative about implants see this post.
So many guys happy with their decision to go under the knife and fix that ED issue once and for good.

[Gt1956]

I just hope all the guys who think negative about implants see this post...........

I hope that you are correct. But letting my old man attitude show. I'm pretty sure that some of the negative thinkers are basement dwellers. No convincing them because the heard from a fellow basement dweller that this urban myth they're preaching is the truth.
I hope that I'm wrong on this.

[aussiePeyronies]

Thanks for posting, really giving me hope, actually looking forward to being implanted and having a regular sex life again!

[FreddyFree]

My wife has gone through menopause, she has zero interest in sex now.

Get the implant as soon as you can! We only enjoyed the implant for 1 year!

[dg_moore]

My wife had no interest whatever in my implant - before, during, or after. She had lost all interest in sex after our years of fumbling around with ED, and was not in the least disappointed to learn that among other things my stroke killed my sexual desire. She was relieved that there was going to be no sexual reboot. We get along fine, have a good relationship, but no intimacy, and it works for us.

[North329]

ED was a curse that turned into a unique blessing lol. They go ape shit. That’s all.

I love to hear that. I am newly implanted on 12/14 and I am anxious to get cycling and use these new toy. Wife is still on the fence but open to giving it a go.

North329

My wife also had her reservations. That wasn't surprising, given the years of occasional, mediocre sex we had.

But she's come around now. Last night she woke me up around 12:30 looking for some action.

Time2Change, I can completely relate to your comments. I can't wait for my wife to wake me up for action.......

[BearsWin]

My wife had no interest whatever in my implant - before, during, or after. She had lost all interest in sex after our years of fumbling around with ED, and was not in the least disappointed to learn that among other things my stroke killed my sexual desire. She was relieved that there was going to be no sexual reboot. We get along fine, have a good relationship, but no intimacy, and it works for us.

We’ve been abstinent for a year after meds stopped working entirely and we both hated injections for different reasons, me mostly because they didn’t work worth squat.

Implanted 11/1 and we haven’t had sex yet because I keep leaking from my incision, just scant fluid. But for some reason the idea of me leaking on her from my scrotum isn’t a turn on.

She also was with me postop where i had a lot of pain and couldn’t urinate and the entire process has seemed very medically unappealing to date. I’ve also had persistent pain at the reservoir site which I haven’t mentioned to her but she knows I’ve limited my activity.

In retrospect I should have had her buy in with even more detail on the mechanics of an IPP. I don’t think she fully understood the pump lives in the scrotum and I’d have an internalized fluid bag stuffed in my abdominal musculature and there have been quiet concerns expressed that bottom line it’s kinda gross to her. Maybe that’s a takeaway for others, to have their wives understand precisely what things will be like after surgery.

[dg_moore]

My wife had no interest whatever in my implant - before, during, or after. She had lost all interest in sex after our years of fumbling around with ED, and was not in the least disappointed to learn that among other things my stroke killed my sexual desire. She was relieved that there was going to be no sexual reboot. We get along fine, have a good relationship, but no intimacy, and it works for us.

We’ve been abstinent for a year after meds stopped working entirely and we both hated injections for different reasons, me mostly because they didn’t work worth squat.

Implanted 11/1 and we haven’t had sex yet because I keep leaking from my incision, just scant fluid. But for some reason the idea of me leaking on her from my scrotum isn’t a turn on.

She also was with me postop where i had a lot of pain and couldn’t urinate and the entire process has seemed very medically unappealing to date. I’ve also had persistent pain at the reservoir site which I haven’t mentioned to her but she knows I’ve limited my activity.

In retrospect I should have had her buy in with even more detail on the mechanics of an IPP. I don’t think she fully understood the pump lives in the scrotum and I’d have an internalized fluid bag stuffed in my abdominal musculature and there have been quiet concerns expressed that bottom line it’s kinda gross to her. Maybe that’s a takeaway for others, to have their wives understand precisely what things will be like after surgery.

My wife is a retired nurse with years of surgical experience behind her. The mechanics of the implant and procedure weren't an issue for her, but she just wasn't interested in anything that might restart our sex life. For what it may be worth, my internist told me before I got the implant that I shouldn't place my expectations too high - he said many couples who have been abstinent for a long time, like we were, often never get it back.