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[AmansinCali]

Craig,

Members here have been as polite as they can be dealing with you, you have a chip on your shoulder, and you are just daring the posters here to knock it off. Several have suggested you change your mental outlook and approach this problem as an adult, but you just stated you are not ready to change. In a word, childish.

There is another aspect to this Craig, what are you going to do with your dick when you are finally fixed and healed? I have no idea of your sexual preference and I really don't care, but unless you plan to lock yourself in your basement and jackoff to porn all day you are going to have to find a partner or partners to use your repaired dick. Your current attitude is not attractive, who do you think will submit to you and let you access their holes? There is no way someone is going to want to fuck you, suck you or whatever your pleasure is. You are pushing everyone away.

The posts in this thread you have started are men trying to help you. Several posters have given you great advice, maybe you should sit down and go through them again, read each one and think about them. Guys have been trying to tell you that no one on this forum is a magician, but it is a collection of knowledge and experience. You can choose to be an asset to this forum or a bomb thrower, it is your choice.

This forum is filled with accounts of men who have had the most frustrating events of their lives thrown at them, many have found solutions here, others who were unable to find a solution, reached out to other sources, found their solution then reported back in order to help the next guy.

It is your choice, which kind of FT member will you choose to be.

[Txagq8]

I have bravely resisted posting on this thread, and if I were smart I wouldn’t post. Alas, I’m not that smart.

I am one of the old farts Craig probably referred to. I’ll be 67 in February. I am 3 years into an LGX as of today. I lost .05” in length and .4” in girth and am really happy with this thing’s looks, function, durability. My recovery was rapid and uneventful although for about 6 months I had to put on a brave face as it took that long plus for cycling to get my size back.

First things first: there is no better site than this. None. I looked. This place is a mix of success vs horror stories but it is the most realistic, well moderated, and useful ED forum. Bar none.

The demographics skew towards an older clientele. That’s due to ED victims typically being older than younger. Not me. I was ED at my first sexual encounter in my teens. I’ve always had ED. I didn’t know it. If your erections last 1.5-2 mins on a good day, and you’ve never seen anyone else’s, then yours are normal. I got diagnosed about 10 yrs later, before I turned 30. Went on shots in the 80s. No viagra back then. If anyone has cause to wallow in self pity, it would be me. But I don’t. My goal is to wear this LGX out and try a Titan next time just so I can compare. There is something to be said for making up for lost time.

Several problems with formulating a proper response to Mr. Craig. I’ve already mentioned the generational thing. I’m 67, which is the new 40….but I am older. I’m from Texas, and we are independent, cantankerous, tell it like it is sumbitches. It also doesn’t help that I’m a retired Army colonel and don’t suffer fools gladly.

So here is my response: Craig. I’m sorry your surgery and results failed to live up to your expectations. Either have your surgeon fix what is wrong or get over it. We don’t care how big your cock is. The vast majority of men fall in a range between 4.5” & 7” in length. Yes, there are outliers. No, being large doesn’t mean someone is manlier, better lovers, or more studly. We kind of outgrew that mindset about the time we finished high school and left the locker room. For most of us (especially us old guys) we have figured out how to provide a woman with sexual satisfaction with a tool smaller than 8 9/16” in length. After a while, listening to someone whine about the loss of an inch from a 9” dick is going to fall on deaf ears. It’s like the old cliche “I used to complain I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet.”

I do not think Craig is a bad person for thinking about size. We all do. We’re men. To a degree we are hard wired to think bigger must somehow be better. I doubt there is any guy who hasn’t at some point taken a ruler or measuring tape to his dick.

But things need to be kept in perspective. I would be concerned if I had 4” erect before surgery and 3” afterwards. If I had 8 1/2” beforehand and 7 1/2” afterwards, not too much. That’s getting into the realm of the ridiculous.

A good surgeon is going to give you a cock very close or exactly the same as before the surgery. An implant is not a means to get a bigger dick. Period. Full stop.

I hope I didn’t offend anyone, Craig included. I ran for the state legislature last year. Got my ass kicked. I knew I would, I spent less than 10k and my opponent had a campaign war chest>820k. You read that right, a bit over 820,000 on a seat in state house. Anyhow, knowing you’re going to lose is liberating. You can tell folks EXACTLY what you think. And that’s what I’ve done. I’ve politely, but in no uncertain terms, stated that after a while we get tired of hearing about smallish 8 inch dicks.

[gjmjoe017]

I have bravely resisted posting on this thread, and if I were smart I wouldn’t post. Alas, I’m not that smart.

I am one of the old farts Craig probably referred to. I’ll be 67 in February. I am 3 years into an LGX as of today. I lost .05” in length and .4” in girth and am really happy with this thing’s looks, function, durability. My recovery was rapid and uneventful although for about 6 months I had to put on a brave face as it took that long plus for cycling to get my size back.

First things first: there is no better site than this. None. I looked. This place is a mix of success vs horror stories but it is the most realistic, well moderated, and useful ED forum. Bar none.

The demographics skew towards an older clientele. That’s due to ED victims typically being older than younger. Not me. I was ED at my first sexual encounter in my teens. I’ve always had ED. I didn’t know it. If your erections last 1.5-2 mins on a good day, and you’ve never seen anyone else’s, then yours are normal. I got diagnosed about 10 yrs later, before I turned 30. Went on shots in the 80s. No viagra back then. If anyone has cause to wallow in self pity, it would be me. But I don’t. My goal is to wear this LGX out and try a Titan next time just so I can compare. There is something to be said for making up for lost time.

Several problems with formulating a proper response to Mr. Craig. I’ve already mentioned the generational thing. I’m 67, which is the new 40….but I am older. I’m from Texas, and we are independent, cantankerous, tell it like it is sumbitches. It also doesn’t help that I’m a retired Army colonel and don’t suffer fools gladly.

So here is my response: Craig. I’m sorry your surgery and results failed to live up to your expectations. Either have your surgeon fix what is wrong or get over it. We don’t care how big your cock is. The vast majority of men fall in a range between 4.5” & 7” in length. Yes, there are outliers. No, being large doesn’t mean someone is manlier, better lovers, or more studly. We kind of outgrew that mindset about the time we finished high school and left the locker room. For most of us (especially us old guys) we have figured out how to provide a woman with sexual satisfaction with a tool smaller than 8 9/16” in length. After a while, listening to someone whine about the loss of an inch from a 9” dick is going to fall on deaf ears. It’s like the old cliche “I used to complain I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet.”

I do not think Craig is a bad person for thinking about size. We all do. We’re men. To a degree we are hard wired to think bigger must somehow be better. I doubt there is any guy who hasn’t at some point taken a ruler or measuring tape to his dick.

But things need to be kept in perspective. I would be concerned if I had 4” erect before surgery and 3” afterwards. If I had 8 1/2” beforehand and 7 1/2” afterwards, not too much. That’s getting into the realm of the ridiculous.

A good surgeon is going to give you a cock very close or exactly the same as before the surgery. An implant is not a means to get a bigger dick. Period. Full stop.

I hope I didn’t offend anyone, Craig included. I ran for the state legislature last year. Got my ass kicked. I knew I would, I spent less than 10k and my opponent had a campaign war chest>820k. You read that right, a bit over 820,000 on a seat in state house. Anyhow, knowing you’re going to lose is liberating. You can tell folks EXACTLY what you think. And that’s what I’ve done. I’ve politely, but in no uncertain terms, stated that after a while we get tired of hearing about smallish 8 inch dicks.

Well said and thanks for your service!

[68CatFan]

Well, if you are crying about losing a little length after implant surgery but still have a lot more than you need to pleasure a woman, partner, whatever... you're just a pathetic, lonely piece of shit that obviously doesn't have more important things in your life other than dick size.

[frank66665]

Well, if you are crying about losing a little length after implant surgery but still have a lot more than you need to pleasure a woman, partner, whatever... you're just a pathetic, lonely piece of shit that obviously doesn't have more important things in your life other than dick size.

when its needed its needed...

[Rov999]

I don't think he was referring to the lost length..but the failed implant in 1 year..it's different for a young guy to have a revision after only 1 year.. you start to think I'm screwed for the rest of my life..a guy lives a different life from an elderly person..more work, sport, sex and much more..so an implant is much more stressed than a pensioner

[Gt1956]

I don't think he was referring to the lost length..but the failed implant in 1 year..it's different for a young guy to have a revision after only 1 year.. you start to think I'm screwed for the rest of my life..a guy lives a different life from an elderly person..more work, sport, sex and much more..so an implant is much more stressed than a pensioner

Wow, you really know how to put your foot in your mouth. We have some 80 year old members that are having daily sex. The list of 70+ members having regular sex is pretty long also. Of course those stats don't impress you.
So please tell the forum just how much a young healthy guy such as yourself might be having. This just might be the most interesting post of the day.
Remember "pensioners" have 24 hours in a day to think & act on sexual urges. Btw, my wife can remember veiled conversations of her grandparents sexual escapades almost 60 years ago. My father in law was devastated when in his early 70's ED hit him. He got a maleable in the early 90's that he took to his grave.

[Rov999]

forgive me .. but I think that an elderly person can't do what a boy does during a whole day .. I'm 32 and I can't keep up with the rhythms of when I was 20 .. imagine at 70 .. we must be objective ...and having an implant at 30 is different than having 70...especially if it fails after 1 year, you have to understand that

[Txagq8]

Thank you gt for saying pretty much what I would have.

“Pensioners don’t put as much stress on their implants”. Lol!!!

Rov999 is too young to remember this but GT will.

Back in the late 50s-60s a popular brand of wristwatch was the Timex. They weren’t pricey, they kept good time, and were pretty rugged.

Their commercials featured voice narration by newsman John Cameron Swayze. How I remember this shit I have no clue.

In one commercial, they took the wristwatch off a guy’s wrist and attached it to a motorboat propeller then proceeded to drive around the lake, tow waterskiers. Etc.

At the end, they pulled the watch off the propeller and showed it in perfect swirling order, second hand going around, the correct time. Then you’d get the slogan “Timex, takes a licking but keeps on ticking”

That’s my implant coming up on my 67th bday. It never rests. It takes a licking but keeps on ticking. My implant stays busier than a one legged man in an ass kicking contest. If we (me and the implant) were any more active I’d need two dicks.

Thanks for making my day. I’ll keep this in mind next time I lightly stress my implant.

[Txagq8]

forgive me .. but I think that an elderly person can't do what a boy does during a whole day .. I'm 32 and I can't keep up with the rhythms of when I was 20 .. imagine at 70 .. we must be objective ...and having an implant at 30 is different than having 70...especially if it fails after 1 year, you have to understand that

Then you might want to see a doctor other than an implant surgeon. I was in better shape, more active, stronger, faster at 32 than at 20. Granted, I was in the Army hence very physically fit. But there ought not be much slowdown from 20 to 32. About the only change o see at 67 is it takes longer to shoot and my semen volume is less, especially on the 3rd or 4th ejaculation of the day.