ThailandBound wrote:Waynetho wrote:I have had anal a couple of times since my implant. First was brief (at my "Coming Out" first date) and it worked okay with no issues, on September 2020 (eleven months after surgery). The other was a few months later and equally as brief, at our local club with a guy who wasn't sure if he would like it, so I took it slow.
I had no pain or discomfort to speak of on either attempt.
But did you have pleasure? Were you able to really get after it? What were your partner's experiences like?
Really both times it was abbreviated. My first male encounter was with a friend who admitted upfront that he's primarily a top and rarely bottoms. Since it was my first time, I was self conscious and while still in the act, I asked him if it was okay and he said, "Oh yes!"
The other guy had admitted to being hurt the last time and when asking the other guy to stop, he didn't. For that reason I told him that I would take it slow and make sure he was okay as we go. A few minutes in with only a little slow penetration, he asked me to stop, saying he had enough, so I stopped.
Incidentally, I state that I'm mostly a bottom, which for me is unfortunate since there are a helluvalot more bottoms than tops out there.
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0
