sswinsfba wrote:frank66665 wrote:sswinsfba good luck to all of us, on the 23rd I will have mine too, it will also be my infrapubic, I will open my diary on the 21st when I leave by plane when I land in rome, yes the pre-implantation days kill you with the preparations for the exams of the blood/chest x-ray/cardiological visit and everything you need to bring, with the fear of forgetting something, I'll bring a lot of medicines with me, my implantologist wants me to stay in Rome for a week without leaving the hotel, I'll stay inflated to 70 % for 7 days, on Monday the 30th he will deflate me and send me home, the rule is 6 weeks to use it but he says that in 3 weeks I will start using it, I would sign it in 5 weeks
My doc claims that the incision(s) should be be healed in 1 wk, that cycling can begin in wks 2-3, and that I can begin using it in wk 4 but I'm skeptical.
I'm in no rush and am willing to wait as long as need be to make sure everything is healed and working properly before I start actually trying to use it.
I have a new GF (a widow) who is hasn't had sex for a LONG time. She knows about the procedure (she's the one who's driving me to the hospital and picking me up) and is willing to wait as long as need be. So, there is no urgency to the matter for me.
My concern w/ED is relatively recent. I can still get nocturnal erections -- not to max stiffness but close -- but I cannot retain them. Sounds like a venous leak but I've never had an leak test or ultrasound. The reason just wasn't important to me nor to my docs who never ordered the tests. Just fixing the ED is important to me.
In the past few years, I was only having sex w/my long term GF at the time early the AM when I got a boner which lasted long enough to complete the job. Sex at other times then was hit and miss. However, now I can't keep an erection at all, nocturnal or not. Hence, my decision to go for the implant.
As I recall, the doc said that it will NOT be inflated during recovery but I'm not sure about that. I have a pre-op appt w/him on 1/19 and still have a lot of questions (including this one) to ask him then.
I'm not worried about losing length -- didn't have all that much to begin with at only 5 3/4" -- but I always had a sufficient girth at about the same 5 3/4" around. I'm actually hoping that the Titan will (as they say it will) will increase my girth even further which is what "they" say that women value more than length any way.
Length is great for show but no woman wants a man pounding on her cervix and IMO most men (not just me) would prefer to be able to insert his full length in and touch (& pound when the mood demands) pubes with his mate during sex.
My length has almost always been ideal to enable full entry and pounding just short of the cervix. So, I never had any complaints about this from my playmates.
A potential problem that I'm worried about is that my new GF's vaginal cavity is REALLY tight. It grabs my finger like a Chinese Finger Trap and I was already concerned that I might hurt her w/my normal girth. We'll just have to see what if any problem this causes after I'm sufficiently healed to begin having sex again.
As for length, in order to maintain it prior to surgery, I am actually using a vaccum erection device (VED) for 10 mins 2s/day at 5 hg (which is a very low level of use) with a 1.75" ID tube (which is the smallest that I have) and plan to continue to do this until the day before surgery when I'll be checking into a motel nearby for the early morning surgery and when my dick should fully return to normal size.
I have always been a grower (nothing to show off). Using the VED makes it a show-er but does not significantly increase it's length or girth under pressure. I just wanted to keep it expanded prior to the surgery to faciliate the process but, in the back of my mind, I was also thinking that (if the length was between implant sizes) this would enable the doc to choose the larger rather than smaller size, as he said he would in that situation, but it's never going to be porno length whichever size he uses.
I'll just be happy if just remains the same size as it was before.
We'll see . . . LOL!