Idk what’s happening

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drayan123
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Idk what’s happening

Postby drayan123 » Tue Mar 14, 2023 9:27 am

Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

sswinsfba
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby sswinsfba » Tue Mar 14, 2023 9:58 am

That's what was happening to me before I decided to get my implant about 6 months ago.

What should you do?

Move up the date for your implant surgery from next year to NEXT MONTH!!!

Good luck!
Last edited by sswinsfba on Tue Mar 14, 2023 10:07 am, edited 1 time in total.
Age 73. Started taking 5 mg Cialis daily in 2000. Minor ED started in 2021. Major ED problem started in 2022. Coloplast Titan (20 cm w/1cm RTE) implanted infrapublicly on 01/24/2023 by Dr. Edward Karpman (El Camino Urology Medical Group, Mt. View, CA).

Flounder
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby Flounder » Tue Mar 14, 2023 10:05 am

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do



20 seconds isn’t long enough for anything. I hope you meant to say 20 minutes but even that’s rushing things. If you were diagnosed with VL, it will only get worse the longer you wait.
A-69, M-44, Battling ED since partial NS-Prostatectomy 2012 plus SRT for PCa return 2016
Pills & injections ran their course. Implant 11/11/22 by Dr. Eid.
Titan Classic 22cm, LH cylinder trimmed, Ectopic reservoir placement.

Rider1400
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby Rider1400 » Tue Mar 14, 2023 10:31 am

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do


Fill out your profile, it helps people answer your questions better. I would move the surgery up ASAP
59 years old ED started mid 40s pills failed after 10 years. Injections works but diminishing results with pain. Implanted 5-22 Baylor,Scott,and White Dallas.Dr Michael Wierschem, infrapubic Coloplast 20cm and 1cm RTE. Going strong and loving it!

ThailandBound
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby ThailandBound » Wed Mar 15, 2023 8:25 am

i was injecting in ever increasing doses with diminishing returns. :20 good minutes was about my limit. Changing positions, abs it was all over. Had good blood flow in, but veinous leakage did me in. Since i still had healthy tissue with good blood flow in, decided that was the sweet spot and went for it.

9 weeks postop now. In Thailand and now banging my girlfriend hard daily. I’m still in recovery/cycling mode, with a bit of numbness and soreness still….but the ability to whenever we want IS amazing! I’m optimistic with time this will only get better!
Active, athletic 63 years old. Sexually, still 33 in my mind and spirit. Pills and injections all worked, until they didn’t. Diagnosed with veinous leakage in 2022. Coloplast Titan. 22 CM. No RTE. Peno-scrotal. Implanted 1/4/23. Dr. Clavell.

Old Guy
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby Old Guy » Wed Mar 15, 2023 9:23 am

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do


In my opinion it looks like you have two choices, either go along like you are worrying, getting depressed and not able to have sex OR you can schedule that surgery as soon as possible and move on with life.
Don't let it get you so depressed it affects your life. That is not healthy.
Nov. 8, 2019
4+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 36 years to my beautiful young bride
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Gt1956
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Re: Idk what’s happening

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Mar 15, 2023 7:31 pm

drayan123 wrote:Man this is playing with my head so much I’ve booked in for my surgery next year but I still have a functional penis but it’s giving me mixed signals I’ve got venous leak but sometimes I can stay hard for 20 seconds or more and be like this for long enough and sometimes no erection at all this is playing with my head so much. I was with this girl yesterday and my dick didn’t go soft maybe because she kept stimulating it but I’m lost idk what to do

My opinion. You're lying to yourself, stop doing that. Your body is telling you that its time for an implant. Listen to it.
Btw, has any medical professional given you a reasonable chance of improvement. I'm not talking about a clinic that is selling treatments that have not shown significant improvements here on FT.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months


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