How to tell a partner

[Catmandu]

How have people approached the conversation of revealing your implanted to a new partner. Obviously you might not want to let everyone know you have an implant but when seeing someone regularly it is a conversation that will have to happen. This will apply to all men but more interested in young men's experience in explaining the implant, especially as the majority of younger women will never have even heard of an implant before.

[Hillywilly]

Why would you even need to tell a women? Would a women have a conversation with you about her fake tits? If you do want to have the convo I would suggest just Saying 2 of the 3 tubes in your dick that provide blood flow have been replaced due to injury but the 3rd which also has the nerves and is responsible for ejaculation is unaffected.

I think the most important thing a woman wants to know regarding an IPP is she still turns you on and can make u cum.

[Reshuffle]

Why would you even need to tell a women? Would a women have a conversation with you about her fake tits? If you do want to have the convo I would suggest just Saying 2 of the 3 tubes in your dick that provide blood flow have been replaced due to injury but the 3rd which also has the nerves and is responsible for ejaculation is unaffected.

I think the most important thing a woman wants to know regarding an IPP is she still turns you on and can make u cum.

I know people can get away with it for one night stands and maybe a little longer...but beyond that, I really don't know how they wouldn't notice. The pump in your balls does not feel anything like a normal ball and when your deflated your dick does not feel like a normal dick...that's just the reality. I can't see having a relationship beyond a couple times where they never feel you deflated, or never grab your nut sack...

I think my approach would be to tell new partners sometime after the first fuck. And I'm just going to own it. Either had an accident or had a medical issue and got it taken care of. Now I can stay hard as long as I want and it doesn't take away any sensation. Something like that....
I can't WAIT to have that conversation vs the I'm sorry, sometimes I can't get hard, but you're really hot, sometimes it works later....no....never want to have THAT conversation again.

[Hillywilly]

Why would you even need to tell a women? Would a women have a conversation with you about her fake tits? If you do want to have the convo I would suggest just Saying 2 of the 3 tubes in your dick that provide blood flow have been replaced due to injury but the 3rd which also has the nerves and is responsible for ejaculation is unaffected.

I think the most important thing a woman wants to know regarding an IPP is she still turns you on and can make u cum.

I know people can get away with it for one night stands and maybe a little longer...but beyond that, I really don't know how they wouldn't notice. The pump in your balls does not feel anything like a normal ball and when your deflated your dick does not feel like a normal dick...that's just the reality. I can't see having a relationship beyond a couple times where they never feel you deflated, or never grab your nut sack...

I think my approach would be to tell new partners sometime after the first fuck. And I'm just going to own it. Either had an accident or had a medical issue and got it taken care of. Now I can stay hard as long as I want and it doesn't take away any sensation. Something like that....
I can't WAIT to have that conversation vs the I'm sorry, sometimes I can't get hard, but you're really hot, sometimes it works later....no....never want to have THAT conversation again.

I agree owning ur is the way to go. Not sure I would bring it up unless they ask though unless your just in the mood to disclose all your secrets to a woman.

[Catmandu]

If you begin a long term relationship of course you will have to have the conversation of why you don't get natural erections and have to pump up your dick

[Reshuffle]

Why would you even need to tell a women? Would a women have a conversation with you about her fake tits? If you do want to have the convo I would suggest just Saying 2 of the 3 tubes in your dick that provide blood flow have been replaced due to injury but the 3rd which also has the nerves and is responsible for ejaculation is unaffected.

I think the most important thing a woman wants to know regarding an IPP is she still turns you on and can make u cum.

I know people can get away with it for one night stands and maybe a little longer...but beyond that, I really don't know how they wouldn't notice. The pump in your balls does not feel anything like a normal ball and when your deflated your dick does not feel like a normal dick...that's just the reality. I can't see having a relationship beyond a couple times where they never feel you deflated, or never grab your nut sack...

I think my approach would be to tell new partners sometime after the first fuck. And I'm just going to own it. Either had an accident or had a medical issue and got it taken care of. Now I can stay hard as long as I want and it doesn't take away any sensation. Something like that....
I can't WAIT to have that conversation vs the I'm sorry, sometimes I can't get hard, but you're really hot, sometimes it works later....no....never want to have THAT conversation again.

I agree owning ur is the way to go. Not sure I would bring it up unless they ask though unless your just in the mood to disclose all your secrets to a woman.

Yeah, I don't know. I think waiting to tell them too long could just be asking for a much more awkward conversation. Especially if they catch you unpumped and just start giving you head expecting a reaction from you. "Stop sucking for a minute, there's something I have to tell you" haha

[sswinsfba]

I know people can get away with it for one night stands and maybe a little longer...but beyond that, I really don't know how they wouldn't notice. The pump in your balls does not feel anything like a normal ball and when your deflated your dick does not feel like a normal dick...that's just the reality. I can't see having a relationship beyond a couple times where they never feel you deflated, or never grab your nut sack...

I think my approach would be to tell new partners sometime after the first fuck. And I'm just going to own it. Either had an accident or had a medical issue and got it taken care of. Now I can stay hard as long as I want and it doesn't take away any sensation. Something like that....

I can't WAIT to have that conversation vs the I'm sorry, sometimes I can't get hard, but you're really hot, sometimes it works later....no....never want to have THAT conversation again.

This^

I don't see the point in lying or trying to obscure the fact that you're bionic. I'd think most potential sex partners would consider that a plus and no way I'd be embarrassed about it.

The only question is "when" to volunteer this information.

If it's not someone you're married to or have a long term relationship with, IMO, if not mentioned earlier, it would be best told AFTER your 1st fuck, when they have had the chance to experience it and realize that it doesn't matter and that, in fact, is probably better than "natural."

But not any later than that because then you'll get the question: "Why didn't you tell me earlier?"

[Hillywilly]

If you begin a long term relationship of course you will have to have the conversation of why you don't get natural erections and have to pump up your dick

Why? There are multiple threads on this forum of guys stealth pumping and even reports of people in long term relationships where it wasn't disclosed and the partner doesn't know (or at least doesn't ask).

Most younger guys with IPP's (wolfpacker and a few others I can't recall) usually don't usually disclose at it is much more irregular for a young guy to have one and a young girl to come across one as opposed to if you were in your 70's boning a woman that was also in her 70's and is just thankful to have a partner that can get it up. That said the younger guys that have told me they did disclose their IPP status didn't have girls stop coming back because of it.

[master1c8]

I changed some partners for last 2 year, and it never be a problem. But if someone is young usually they start to ask or play with it. If it's a problem explain that you are advanced piece of technology to someone, for me it's a little red sign

[sswinsfba]

That said the younger guys that have told me they did disclose their IPP status didn't have girls stop coming back because of it.

Exactly. There's no point in lying about it.

If you think like a woman, any woman who finds out that a guy is lying to them about one thing, will presume that he'll lie to her about other things and is NOT to be trusted. So, best not to lie at all.

I think men who hide it are just insecure and think that they're women will think less of them because of it.

I seriously doubt that. They'll more likely think much less of you if/when they find out they you've lied to them. To a women, lying to them is the next worst thing to cheating on them.

This is something most old guys already know but young guys usually have to learn the hard way.

Take my word for it, honesty w/women regardless of your or their age is alwsys better, as long as you want to maintain a relationship w/that women.

If you don't, then it doesn't matter but be prepared for her to dump you when she finds out. Not because it didn't work well but because she couldn't accept the fact that you lied to her.